Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Yep so now there are 2 reasons why TS is gay:
1) His name is cutie-pie
2) He's afraid of sex (presumably with women)
Meh.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Context, my friend.... this kid is trying to be funny and your sacramental reply is funny to the hilt... I thought you did that on purpose...![]()
Lots of people have issues with how they look and their low self image makes them acutely embaressed at the thought of having sex. People who have been repressed also find it scary to enjoy physical pleasure in front of another person.
If you have a real physical deficiency that is the cause of your discomfort, speak to your doctor.
Start wearing more revealing clothes in private in front of the other person till over time you feel more comfortable in your own skin in their presence.
Petting, hugging, kissing, cuddling, massage without it ending in sex may also releave some of the fear that you have.
You may turn off the lights while having sex till you feel more comfortable.
Sometimes alcohol can lower your inhibitions and the level of fear. Take a big gulp just before sex but don't make it a habit because alcohol can become an addition.
Talk it over with your partner, they'll usually be accomodating.
Fear of sex is not as uncommon as you think.
TS guy or girl? ![]()
Just stuff a bottle into your ass...
Guy scared? dont make any sense... or you cannot make it on bed de? ![]()