To PlsDunBanMe: in your earlier post, you mention that the female nurse held your penis while the doctor performs the surgery.what i like to know is, don't you feel shy or even totally awkward when she's holding it?
seriously, although i'm scared of the pain, i'm even more scared of the thought of letting the nurse do that sort of thing......it really freaks me out, especially if the nurse is a young one.
if only Dr Ho has a male nurse or something. haiz
Yes, I did feel shy at first about the female nurse holding it. I even undressed reluctantly, leaving only my shirt on because I used to shirt to cover my private region. Even when lying on the operating table, I still used my shirt to cover myself. But after a while, I got more worried about the operation itself than a female nurse holding my penis. Also, the doctor gave me injections, so the whole area is numb, I didn't even feel her fingers holding me up.
thanks a lot for the support, guys.....anyway, i guess we'll see then.
as long as i don't have to take off my shirt as well, then at least it's not so bad.
if i have to strip everything and lie on the operating table nude, i think i rather not go and give up the idea.
anyway, antievildoer, do keep us updated on this thread one day should you consult Dr Ho.
good luck! ![]()
Guys, trust me, feeling shy will be the last thing on your mind when u know your foreskin is going to be cut.
Originally posted by Nikar 3:
anyway, antievildoer, do keep us updated on this thread one day should you consult Dr Ho.
good luck!
I would go for laser. I did it the conventional way years ago and it took a while to recover and I got a slight infection.
i am 21 and i too have phimosis. as all of u, i am scared to go for surgery also but i think there is no other solution.
laser circumcision is more ex becoz its more precise is it? also, recovery period is shorter?
btw, ppl with phimosis, have u all had sex before? ie. penetration? if so, was it like very pain?
Originally posted by bent:i am 21 and i too have phimosis. as all of u, i am scared to go for surgery also but i think there is no other solution.
laser circumcision is more ex becoz its more precise is it? also, recovery period is shorter?
Originally posted by bent:btw, ppl with phimosis, have u all had sex before? ie. penetration? if so, was it like very pain?
for laser circumcision, i've asked Dr. Ho a lot of questions about this, and he says it's more precise and accurate, recovers faster and there's less pain + blood than the traditional method.
so, if you can afford it, you should go for laser since i believe the "cut" will look nicer.
i will prob go for it end of year when i am free....
Originally posted by Nikar 3:for laser circumcision, i've asked Dr. Ho a lot of questions about this, and he says it's more precise and accurate, recovers faster and there's less pain + blood than the traditional method.
so, if you can afford it, you should go for laser since i believe the "cut" will look nicer.
Hmmm, you might want to look up the Gomco clamp for less pain, blood, and a clean and precise scar line. I'm not sure which doctor uses it though.
Originally posted by antievildoer:
I have to say Iam quite ignorant of the problem until a few yrs back...previously I thought can just ignore it...pls have it done as early as you can..recovery takes longer time as one gets older..I kinda regret not having done it earlier..read articles penetration for someone with phimosis will be painful and hinders the sexual experience..I have no experience of tis yet as kinda abstaining from it due to this problem..
After I was circumcise the feeling was totally different. u should just do it. Suffer for a couple of weeks and reap the reward for the rest of your life.
Why don't you just chop it off ?
why would some one wana chop off their dick
Some of you here don't have phimosis, you haven't seen a REAL phimosis case.
You just have young foreskin, you need to stretch it more
actually i was circumcised with the gomco clam at age 6-7 and i tured out very nice....... my circumcision is tight and the scar is jus below the dick head lol..
as for phimosis i was mainly circumcised because of this circumcision is always the best i fell all my brothers and cousins young and old are circumcised.
my second youngest bro jus got cirumcised in june age 7 and it was done with a lazer the circumcision is abt the same as mine so i am not so sure if there is a difference.
i have actually been asked in sch abt my circumcision and i found out that abt 10 boys in my class of 40 are cired so i guess the circumcision rate in singapore is moderatly high (note; only 2 out of the 10 boys are muslim, the rest are amarican, chinese and eurasian)
sorry i meant i was circumcised because of that condition (phimosis).
Originally posted by lysy:actually i was circumcised with the gomco clam at age 6-7 and i tured out very nice....... my circumcision is tight and the scar is jus below the dick head lol..
as for phimosis i was mainly circumcised because of this circumcision is always the best i fell all my brothers and cousins young and old are circumcised.
my second youngest bro jus got cirumcised in june age 7 and it was done with a lazer the circumcision is abt the same as mine so i am not so sure if there is a difference.
i have actually been asked in sch abt my circumcision and i found out that abt 10 boys in my class of 40 are cired so i guess the circumcision rate in singapore is moderatly high (note; only 2 out of the 10 boys are muslim, the rest are amarican, chinese and eurasian)
I disagree on a 'tight' circumcision as it's better to have some skin covering the gland of the penis when your penis is flaccid. This helps protects the gland. And the frenum of the penis should never be removed. There's a lot of nerves there and removing the frenum will decrease sensitivity.
Before anyone of you go for dratic measure, go read up more on PHONY PHIMOSIS
Originally posted by Agenda:Before anyone of you go for dratic measure, go read up more on PHONY PHIMOSIS
For me it was the best thing I have done. I was circumcised when I was 18 yrs old. I had sex before I was circumcised & it was not as great as after the op. Before the op my foreskin was not pulled back when I was having sex and it wasn't as sensitive as after I was circumcised.
Originally posted by natas666:...I have done. I was circumcised when I was 18 yrs old. I had sex before I was circumcised & it was not as great as after the op. Before the op my foreskin was not pulled back when I was having sex and it wasn't as sensitive as after I was circumcised.
was it painful while having sex before circumcision?
so which is more pleasurable? b4 circumcision or after?
Originally posted by bent:was it painful while having sex before circumcision?
so which is more pleasurable? b4 circumcision or after?
Before the operation, if I don't pull back my foreskin it's not painful when I have sex but it's not pleasurable as the head of my penis is not exposed. If I pull it back the foreskin is very tight around the penis head and it's not comfortable. I wouldn't say it's painful.
After the operation it was great. My penis head is a lot sensitive. I love it!
hi all,
i've made up my mind to go for circumcision this coming Dec.....maybe early Dec or mid Dec......the earlier the better.......otherwise every now and then worry about this problem.
i'll be contacting dr. lau for more details and appointment fixing, and when the op eventually gets done, i'll let you guys know the results. :)
btw, for those guys who got circumcised in adulthood (plsdunbanme, natas666 etc.).....you guys didn't cut off the frenulum, right?
i'm thinking of cutting it off cos' when the penis is erect, the frenulum stretches tightly on the underside of the penis and it's kinda gross to look at...........dunno why, but when i see the frenulum being stretched on an erect penis on online websites, it kinda gives me the creeps and lots of goose bumps.
Hi, I'm 20 and I have a few questions to ask of my own too. I have considered going for circumcision 2 years back because I couldn't retract my foreskin before too. After seeing the specialist, he told me that i just need to gradually pull back and stretch it and I should be able to retract it fully eventually. Thankfully, it happened and now I can retract it fully with ease. But, the problem now is I'm able to retract it fully ONLY when it is flaccid. When it is erect, I'm not able to retract the foreskin fully. Only the top head of the glans is exposed when I tried pulling it back. Beyond that, it is all pain.
So my questions are, is my condition considered a mild one? Do you guys think I require circumcision? I've also done research on preputioplasty 2 years ago but I have always thought Singapore hasn't had the technology to perform such an operation, until now...
I would like to add my experience with Preputioplasty to the discussion. It has not exactly been all positive. I had at age 18 and because. My foreskin could be pulled back, but it was very tight when errect and it hurt too much for sex. The operation was quick and easy (and free in my country) and I waited 6 weeks for it to heal. One problem that soon became clear was that my foreskin would not stay and cover the head. It just retracted by itself, which left my glans unprotected (quite uncomfortable in the beginning, but I got used to it) Another problem was that after the operation I saw that a there was a quite large swelling under the skin below the penis head. Around 20 milimeters (2/3 inch) in diameter I guess. I went to see my doctor and and he told me, that it would go away. And it did. But unfortunately the swelling had expanded the skin. It's not that much, but it makes a strange kind of "collar" around the head.
So for the past 9 years I've had this loose part of the foreskin hanging under the penis and I've had not skin to cover my glans. This DOES make it more insensitive and it looks a bit dry. I'm now going to talk to my physician about this and I hope that I can have the loose part of skin removed, since it kinds hurts my self confidence that I look different down there :) So please consider that the operation can have complication. I wish I had NOT done it and had tried the 'manual' methods in stead. But of course you will not have that choice if your condition makes it impossible.
Good luck whatever you guys choose to do!