Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?
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Originally posted by Zone.xxx:
Ya true...have come across friends galfriend who doesn't do bj and also know a couple of ladies who are very decent looking but wild in bed.Yes never judge a book by it's cover. have had decent sweet looking gals but they are incredibly wild and crazy in bed.
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ditto.
some girls just have that "spark" in them.
hahas, whereas,some dont.
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sometimes it depends on the gal also,she must also want to have the "feel" of orgasm..if she not in the mood,you would find it difficult for her to orgasm..unlike guys,just handjob can cum already..
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It takes two to make a great orgasm possible. Most men go straight to the point - intercourse, and they expect the woman to attain a great orgasm. Well, even if she does, it will not be as pleasurable and fulfilling compared with one that's built up along a journey taken by both partners.
I am a guy, and I want to help guys here to understand the correct ways to please a gal. Don't always think for your own enjoyment.
1. Give her the assurance that her body is as great a woman could be. Don't just say so. Show her by moving along the contours with your finger/s. Feel her body not only for your own arousal but also to communicate your appreciation of her beauty, and to help her appreciate her own body by the movement of your fingers. This is one of the many foreplay techniques.
2. Engage her emotionally. She must be aroused emotionally enough and emotionally fulfilled. This will contribute to a great orgasm later. For women, emotion comes first before anything else. Sex is secondary and is usually a reward for giving her the emotional satisfaction.
3. Most men have yet heard about the G-spot. Some may have but do not believe its existence. G-spot does exist. A G-spot orgasm is more intense and fulfilling than a clitorial orgasm. Trust me on this. But it takes time (and the right posture) to achieve a G-spot orgasm. When it comes, her entire body shakes! That's how intense it could be. If you can help her achieve a G-spot orgasm once, she is very likely to desire sex only with you henceforth.
4. Take it slowly. Don't rush the intercourse. Let her enjoy the moment, and let her know that you are enjoying the moment too. Let her know that you like the treat she is giving you because the joy of giving is as satisfying as the joy of receiving.
5. Make sure you wash your below clean before sex as women prefers to have sex with a partner who has a sense of hygiene. As for the upper body, just a quick run of water would be enough. If both partners' body aren't overly sweaty with foul odour, skip the upper body wash. The reason being that both partners' body produce pheromones that triggers sexual behaviour such that both of you will get aroused and excited for sex. Yes, the body senses play an important role in sex!
Have a great time!!!
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I total agreed on the portion where u mentioned "when it comes, her entire body shakes" ....I think more like jerking and heavy breathing and of course lot of moaning....
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Originally posted by Zone.xxx:
I total agreed on the portion where u mentioned "when it comes, her entire body shakes" ....I think more like jerking and heavy breathing and of course lot of moaning....
Moaning is personal. My current GF can't keep quiet when she comes but my ex doesn't even let out a sniff......
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Originally posted by natas666:
Moaning is personal. My current GF can't keep quiet when she comes but my ex doesn't even let out a sniff......
Maybe mine are more expressive...quite difficult to keep them quiet...ha ha ha.
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Originally posted by Zone.xxx:
Maybe mine are more expressive...quite difficult to keep them quiet...ha ha ha.
the moaning does turn me on...
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i agree , moaing can turn some1 on , but also becoz of dis some girls dun like sex , becoz it looks like it hurt , especially in porn , the moaning , is damn loud.
Dats also one of the reason , girls dun like to watch porn too
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and I thought it was because they don't have dick.
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nope , one if my frend who is a girl , told me dat when she 1st watch porn , she told me she did nt like the moaning
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oops i cum & moan everytime..
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Originally posted by natas666:
the moaning does turn me on...
definitely for me too....an indication that we are doing the things right....ha ha ha
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Originally posted by mayacrystal:
oops i cum & moan everytime..
means u like the moaning ??? when u watch porn , the moaning is nice to u ?
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The moaning in porn movies are all faked so to make the scene dramatic, especially those Jap porn movies whereby the men treat the women rough, the moaning is more on the painful side. This gives the innocent gals the wrong impression about moaning - that it reflects pain than enjoyment.
Moaning does turn me on because it tells me that she is reacting positively to my every move. When you know that the moaning comes from her naturally (as opposed to faked) because she is really feeling good, men, that makes me come faster!
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Originally posted by breezesg:
The moaning in porn movies are all faked so to make the scene dramatic, especially those Jap porn movies whereby the men treat the women rough, the moaning is more on the painful side. This gives the innocent gals the wrong impression about moaning - that it reflects pain than enjoyment.
Moaning does turn me on because it tells me that she is reacting positively to my every move. When you know that the moaning comes from her naturally (as opposed to faked) because she is really feeling good, men, that makes me come faster!
i agree , i oni like asian porn , but alot of the moaning are very fake , some are so hurtful that i could nt continue watching.
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I quote Spidey3 "and I thought it was because they don't have dick." I presume he is talking about the women of course.
In fact, the clitoris functions exactly the same way as the head of the dick because of the similar way the nerves are laid out. The area that's truly unique to a woman is the G-spot. That's why a G-spot orgasm is many times more intense than a clitorial orgasm.
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<====== noob~~ wow~~~ everyone seems professional.
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There should always be plenty of kissing, sucking, rubbing, touching, exchanging, looking, feeling, pawing, etc of eyes, ears, neck, back, small of back, thighs, insides of thighs, fingers, butt, stomach, v, inside of v, outside of v, top of v, clit. I always manage to bring my partner to orgasm 9 times out of 10.
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never liked those super hurtful moaning..gentle ones YES
lol
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u must need something to give spice on your lovemaking
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Guys must trial and error ma....
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Maybe KY is not enough.