Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?
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Foreplay is most impt bahs .
As we ladies , still thinking of other things in mind ...
But guys , they just wanna faster get their dick in niahs ...
Want enjoy , both also need ahs . but mostly guys only wanna satify themselves ahs .
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The problem is women is thinking of other things at the same time.
A simple trick could take her mind off things while being humped.
Ask her to press her heels into the mattress, slightly will do, and hold. Keep it that way while humping. This would tense the inner thigh and groin area, and also takes her mind of the neighbourhood problems, and help her focus down there.
Take your time, ya.
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Originally posted by Charles_find_fren:
According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!
A lot of flack fall on men on why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.
6 Reasons Why Women DON’T Climax
There are many reasons why women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…
Foreplay? What foreplay?
Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of extending your own sexual stamina.
She’s thinking too much!
Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework, dirty laundry, etc.).
She’s full of… insecurities.
Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small/big?
If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”
ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!
She really doesn’t know her own body.
There is a certain art form to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right?
The best thing is… it’s never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here are some clues to save you a few steps...http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
You are not paying attention!
True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close!
To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts. Click here to learn more: http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.Men like to try different sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again.
So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.
Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do it here: http://www.TheFemaleOrgasmRevealed.com
And last but not least ; Your eeny weeny is far too teeny
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if no orgasm, no orgasm loh!
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Originally posted by Knittinggirl1:
if no orgasm, no orgasm loh!
Don't like that say ma. People want see their girl reaction/s leh......
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but it is very difficult la
haiz
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Not necessarily. A good sexpert will know how to.
You can consult the sexperts in this forum. Got a lot around... =X
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dun wan la, if not , people will think i m too �便
sorry, i sometime write in chinese coz i dunno how to write in english
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No one minds I guess, so long as they understand what you writing...
By the way, the word you might have wanted to use is 'loose'......
I'm sure the people here won't �便 think this or that about you de. It's only the unwanted PMs that may be a bit annoying......
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Originally posted by Knittinggirl1:
if no orgasm, no orgasm loh!
Wah! you mean just let the fella fuck and thats it ah.
If the fella is doing it the umpteen times, he is going to get bored, and will start to stray.
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huh?
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Originally posted by Knittinggirl1:
huh?
Think he just saying don't just let the guy enjoy you, must go enjoy the guy also...... XP
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Go down and munch the mango first. Once the mang has become very hot and juicy, it is then time to insert your finger and carry on stimulating her, whilst at the same time you are telling her that you have decided that tomorrow you are buying her something really expensive, that you know that she has desired for a long time. The flood gates will open and she will come like crazy:-)
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A lot of the time it can be because the man is suffering from PE and needs to learn a few premature ejaculation techniques, so that he doesn't climax before the woman reaches the point of no return.
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The fact is that a man generally reaches orgasm faster than a woman. So, if she really needs to reach an orgasm, she might want to consider a gang bang ;) LOL
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Originally posted by cawca:
The fact is that a man generally reaches orgasm faster than a woman. So, if she really needs to reach an orgasm, she might want to consider a gang bang ;) LOL
Let fingers + toys + etc. join in and do a gangbang?
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Originally posted by AYYX:
Let fingers + toys + etc. join in and do a gangbang?
Extra fingers, toys, etc. don't count as a gangbang. -
Originally posted by cawca:
Extra fingers, toys, etc. don't count as a gangbang.I know. Just kidding.
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Because most guys are selfish in the bedroom. Once they cum they say " I'm tired ", or they just stop. Vibrators could be the next best thing =]
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when you see a girl cum, you can see her literally squirting lots of clear liquid out.. not jus a wet pussy, squirt as in almost like peeing... jus tt got no smell... and her eye ball will roll back, and will be in spasam mode..
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Originally posted by Knittinggirl1:
dun wan la, if not , people will think i m too �便
sorry, i sometime write in chinese coz i dunno how to write in english
by posting this topic you already tooo �便liao.
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show them a stack of notes and they'll get orgasm instantly.