If you're masterbating by using pressure against something such as your mattress, tables,arm of chair PLEASE STOP IT NOW!
This condition is called TMS (Traumatic Masterbation Syndrome) Its a severe condition where you cannot cum while having intercourse! espeically men!
With years of humping on something you're in a state of prone masterbation rather than using the conventional way, normal way (which is by lying on your back and using your hands), By masterbating prone the effect is that when you're having sex the stimulation of the vagina when you're penus is inside will not be the same pressure as the object your using to cum hence no feeling! no erection! no ejaculation! because the nerves are damaged due to years of prone masterbation
Please! there is a cure and you're not alone I honestly admit i am one of those guys who do it this way and now i am changing to have a better sex life and cum the right way
is dis for men or women?
After all these years, only now I realise, those wowo kings have been humping the gound sheet in the prone position.
awww.. so sad.....
Yah lah, If I had known then I would have got out extra sand bags.
So how to cure it? Cos i always hug my bolster den my penis is pressing it but i nv masturbate using it luh.
Try to have sex first with a woman, if you have no problem cumming then you're not affected by TMS.
But what you say its more like you're having a bad habit.
if got opportunity to do with a woman then why do it to a mattress?
If you masturbate by humping the mattress or bolster, you are likely to damage the spongy tissue of your dick.
And you might also develop a learned way of coming to an orgasm, such that you cannot cum when you are doing normal intercourse. This applies to both women and men. If you always reach orgasm in a certain way, it becomes your way, and any other way you just can't.
Thats exactly what i am talking about,
the idea here is to refrain and control yourself from getting into your "self masterbation" and work on the original (supine) or pratice it with your girl friend, as for women its vice versa.
Now i feel awesome after refraining for a few weeks, and i was able to recover and my sensitivity increases! : )
It was a hard process especially i had to keep myself busy, and use the bed only for sleeping and nothing else
Also if you are under these circumstances, there's a yahoo group with over 4000+ members regarding this issue http://groups.yahoo.com/group/tmssupport/
Originally posted by dragg:if got opportunity to do with a woman then why do it to a mattress?
I praticed it when i was young, like 11 or something it felt good so i kept going, but never thought it would screw up like this
According to the support forums many there are cases from 18years old - 55 years old, all affected by this. Most of them say that it was their way of masterbation which was actually better then supine (normal way)
Originally posted by 96367366:is dis for men or women?
Yep men as well as women
(http://www.healthystrokes.com/young.html)
(http://www.healthystrokes.com/youngfem.html)
OMG..
Thanks for pointing out.
To the guys ..
Cut your jur jur off, problem solved .. I do provide the butcher knife
Originally posted by doraemon1234:OMG..
Thanks for pointing out.
You're welcome