Hi, might be the wrong forum to put it but hey at most to most people can ignore this thread.
I have tried seeking for all the years for an emotional connection with someone but doesnt work never had seemed to have a gf. It always somehow turns into the "best fren" scenario
I tried seeking a physical one and i knew frm the start that would be pointless.
I think I sometimes get very frustrated that i feel sexually this way about being horny because I wish to differentiate my sexual urges from someone i like. I want someone I like to be because i like the person for who she is and not just some good looking girl.
But yet at the same time i can't stop my self from being aroused even from simple physical contact from some girls. Sometimes it feels like something is wrong
And I see some friends who have flings and gfs like nobody business and that may not be what I want but would be nice to know what it is like.
Anyone had this issue before?