How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?
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with research suggesting that only 29 per cent of women reach ‘the big O’ every time they have sex, compared to a lucky 75 per cent of men (how is this fair, ladies?). This may be because, according to Durex, around 75 per cent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone and 10 to 15 per cent never climax under any circumstances.
http://sg.news.yahoo.com/10-surprising-sex-stats-090000860.html
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So as a guy, how do I help my partner achieve the big 'O'?
Trial and error seems to err for a slower guy like me. The only O would be "Ouch!" -
buy her oreo cookie?
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One sure way to make the girl orgasm - buy her sex toys.
Combine sex and toy-plays together.
Sure cum .101%
Unless she's a nun from some temple.
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Orgasm huh ?
why shy to spell it out.... you are in SgSexforums.
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depends on whether the guy is orlando bloom/brad pitt
for some, it has to be justin bieber
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:
Orgasm huh ?
why shy to spell it out.... you are in SgSexforums.
Just following the article in case someone mistaken it for Oreo.
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Give her a.... good foreplay....
starting with her favourite toy....
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Originally posted by FireIce:
depends on whether the guy is orlando bloom/brad pitt
for some, it has to be justin bieber
Assuming you are a girl as your status reflects so,
So if brad pitt enters you when you are dry, you are gonna orgasm instead of feeling pain?
Interesting.
I wonder if this superifical post is indication of a conservative culture. Especially since that you are recognised here(Moderatress). -
so?
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...a lucky 75 per cent of men ... reach orgasm everytime they have sex. This is bullshit, because the 25% is trying for a fourth or fifth shot, and can't.
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Originally posted by Summer120706:
One sure way to make the girl orgasm - buy her sex toys.
Combine sex and toy-plays together.
Sure cum .101%
Unless she's a nun from some temple.
Yep, I tried that before.
The troubling thing is not many sg women are adventurous enough to explore sex with toys. Once I fished it out of my bag, her eyes widen with shock and she was too apprehensive to try it.So I was thinking on gathering feedback on the (alternative) methods for helping the girl achieve the big 'O'.
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Originally posted by mancha:
...a lucky 75 per cent of men ... reach orgasm everytime they have sex. This is bullshit, because the 25% is trying for a fourth or fifth shot, and can't.
So to the topic,
"How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?" -
vibrator is da only option?
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Foreplay is a must, get her in the mood for love making. Don't just rush her into bed, a long foreplay session boosts the libido. Make her wait for the moment, don't just give in. Get to know her body, find out what makes her say " Oooh" and " Ahhh" Toys are a great edition too, don't be intimidated by sex toys, they are an enhancement to your sex life and not a replacment.
i love it when my boyfriend can tell I really want sex, but keeps me waiting. Some days when I'm feeling submissive, I'll just let him take charge and pretty much let him do whatever he wants, vice versa. Other days, I'll let him watch me play with my sex toys, but no intercourse - really enjoyable for the both of us !!
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i agree with u
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Foreplay is a must, get her in the mood for love making. Don't just rush her into bed, a long foreplay session boosts the libido. Make her wait for the moment, don't just give in, make her wait for the moment. Get to know her body, find out what makes her say " Oooh" and " Ahhh" Toys are a great edition too, don't be intimidated by sex toys, they are an enhancement to your sex life and not a replacment.
i love it when my boyfriend can tell I really want sex, but keeps me waiting. Some days when I'm feeling submissive, I'll just let him take charge and pretty much let him do whatever he wants, vice versa. Other days, I'll let him watch me play with my sex toys, but no intercourse - really enjoyable for the both of us !!
Yes to foreplay. Steamy hot sex do not escalate from a routine dinner.
Question here: Are hips and the stomach considered a sensitive spot? The answer varies by source.
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Originally posted by Sky_Blue223:
So to the topic,
"How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?"All the technique is spelt out here. But they will be no use if the girl do not want to orgasm. No use if they keep pushing you away when they are aroused and aproaching orgasm, which they think is painful.
Just like you masturbating, you do it with a goal to ejaculate.
The girl must know, and like the sensation leading to orgasm first.
After that, try your foreplay, vibrator, cunnilingus, finger, whatever. She now has something to look forward to.
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wow so many experienced pros...
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Originally posted by mancha:
All the technique is spelt out here. But they will be no use if the girl do not want to orgasm. No use if they keep pushing you away when they are aroused and aproaching orgasm, which they think is painful.
Just like you masturbating, you do it with a goal to ejaculate.
The girl must know, and like the sensation leading to orgasm first.
After that, try your foreplay, vibrator, cunnilingus, finger, whatever. She now has something to look forward to.
I believe only virgins don't know the sensation?
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Communication is key.
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Originally posted by Sky_Blue223:
Yes to foreplay. Steamy hot sex do not escalate from a routine dinner.
Question here: Are hips and the stomach considered a sensitive spot? The answer varies by source.
I love having my neck touched, hips and lower back too. Stomach ? Not for me, sorry.
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you must noe how to finger the girl. there is a certain technigue that will take the fgirl up to seventh heaven. but v few man know how to achieve it. and men, make sure youre fingernails are short otherwise it will be ultra painful
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Originally posted by horny_ugly_bitch:
you must noe how to finger the girl. there is a certain technigue that will take the fgirl up to seventh heaven. but v few man know how to achieve it. and men, make sure youre fingernails are short otherwise it will be ultra painful
A lot of guys suck at this, they just poke around - no rhythm. I actually had to show my boyfriends how to do it, as most had no clue what they were doing.
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
A lot of guys suck at this, they just poke around - no rhythm. I actually had to show my boyfriends how to do it, as most had no clue what they were doing.
A lot of guys? How many have fingered you?
100 and 99, sucks at it?
Not far fetch if only 5 and all 5 sucks at it.
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Originally posted by mancha:
A lot of guys? How many have fingered you?
100 and 99, sucks at it?
Not far fetch if only 5 and all 5 sucks at it.
Lets just say, 75% of my boyfriends just " poked " around.
