WHY I CANNOT STOP WANKING?NID HELP!
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Hi guy n gals, im new here,english is not my native language but nonetheless, i try to make myself understood.Im age 20 yrs old male just finish my poly studies now finding a job while w8ting for national service.
Ok i had a problem with wanking or masturbation, quite big of a probem here.The problem is i cannot control myself to stop wanking, despite countless attempts.u see , masturbation had affected me in many ways for example, i forget things easily, if some1 give me instructions to do smth i may forget wad he had said earlier even if it was just a few secs ago.also i have very low confidence with myself, keep doubting whether i am able or have the ability to finish a task or not.In addition, I am very concious about wad other ppl would think of me every moment.
Also my legs especially the knee area would without fail have 'cracking sound' eveytime i stand up, and i feel my heart not beating properly sometimes,but i still kena pes A,lol....went to do a electro cardiogram,to check the heart beat, it turns out there is no problem.so i think is my wanking problem.but the most important thing is dat it had affected my studies alot.alot alot.
I would wank only 3 times a week now,used to be more in the past about 5 times a week.After every wanking session, i would feel very guilty and very low.all the negative feelings come back.low self esteem etc etc.
Despite knowing dat it would do more harm, why does it make me still want to wank?I would think of all the consequences if i wank,and is like a battle raging in my head, to wank or not?part of me wanted to have the pleasure but another is saying no,u cnt do this man.MOst of the time 80% i give in to the temptation.after every1 is aslp i on my laptop ,n surf porn.n wank..after wank feel sibei sian tired ,dick very tired,i look into the mirror n feel as if i look like cock.so i promise myself it would be the last time i wank.
OK then after 2 days later i feel fking horny, go into the toilet to stimualte my dick make it steam have the near climax feeling but nvr ejaculate out la.wanted to but scared would regret. IN the end still cum out cnt tahan the pressure building up.after dat i feel honestly like shit. despite all the bad things it do to my mind and my soul why the fk i still do it?I feel im not matured enuf to control my own self.undescipline in many ways
I used to have a galfriend but after 8 mths i lose her,fking sad.so i thought to myself i nid to change my life man,n most probably my wanking habit is the cause of the prob.i nvr told her abt my this wanking prob,i scared she would be disgusted at me.so i keep mum abt it.sigh....
life goes on man,now trying hard to find back myself again, i dun want to let wanking control my life man..I noe im sexually addicted to wanking.and i think im the only guy in spore to have this prob.its been going for 6yrs or more trying to stop this problem.ever since sec 2 i have been trying.and im going to try to stop it.i still optimistic about it though.i nid to dig deep within myself.
hope u guys have any suggestions or any tips on how to stop.i tdy no wank.see how tmr if i can hold on.
peace.
WankerG
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If you masturbate using video/pictorial references, deleting your collection and disengaging the internet every time you feel the urge can save you. I was once a heavy porn addict when I was "new" and went cold turkey when PacNet cut off my line, though it help killed the urge.
I can't speak for experience if you'rer the type who's able to masturbate without references or can use your imagination.
But if anything, I think masturbation is alright and the guilt comes from the mentality that you're doing something "bad", but is it really bad? Are you harming anyone by doing that? Does god really kill a kitten each time you cum? Will masturbating make you want to go out and rape people? Often times, the answer I realize is no.
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plz go and consult a doc ASAP
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Cut it off...
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he nids to install a gate valve so can on/off control. if he wants to bring the control further to fine tuning level, he should isntall a check valve before teh agte valve and use the two valves concurrently to open cloe regulate the sperm flow.
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Wall of text
Rubbish story
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Go to orchard tower
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Find a girlfriend lah.
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sometimes using words to relase the steam is better than ations
here watch this video and learn something