So this girl wants me to fist her...
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So, first a bit about myself. I had a very sexually wild youth, until the late twenties I tried a bit of everything. After those young wild times I settled with one girl and got married, became the faithful husband, never cheated, etc. Our sex life degraded after almost 10 years of marriage, and that (along with many other issues) led us to get divorced. Now I am in my late 30s, I have been out of the dating scene for so long I actually feel slightly awkward talking to women. I consider myself to be rather good looking, got nice pecs and legs, manly hairy (the way I put it...), but got a bit of a gut (my ex wife cooked very well, that I miss). I consider myself a 6 right now, if I lost the gut and started working out a bit more I'd be an 8. So with my recently acquired freedom I have been attempting to meet women, and until very recently I was highly unsuccesful. Not many women like an awkward guy nearing his 40s with a small beer belly...
Well, back to my wild youth days, I mentioned back then I tried everything, including fisting a girl. She was was wild and bit wide for me, so she was very happy when I had my whole hand holding my dick inside her, effectively masturbating inside her. She was more than satisfied, and we actually dated for about two months but I feel we never really fucked, I liked our weird sex, but it was just me masturbating inside her.
Fast forward to last saturday. I am at a party at a buddy's home. His younger sister graduated from college last year and she had invited a few of her friends. The party went late into the night, I was one of the older guys there, and with alcohol flowing people's inhibitions usually fade away, and I guess so did my awkwardness... I met this girl, I'll call her Jen, she's hot as hell, the kind of girl who's naturaly pretty, tall, slender, blonde, blue eyes, body says she works out, beautiful smile, etc. The kind of girl guys want and girls envy.
So Jen, who is 24, probably never thought I was awkward at all, because after we met and started talking she never left my side, we talked all night. It was almost two in the morning when her friends were pushing for her to go (they had come together). I walked Jen to their car and we shared a wet kiss. We exchanged numbers. I didn't know if I should call or let her, but she called Sunday afternoon anyway. We spent that day together (sober, hah!), and had great sex, and started drinking at my place.
After getting a bit tipsy (more than on Saturday night), we started talking about our sexual lifes. Me telling her what I had done, she telling me what she wanted to do. It was then that she told me she wanted me to fist her!! I totally wasn't expecting that at all, it was like it came out the left field and smacked me right on the face. That girl I fisted back in the days of my youth was not the kind of girl you'd bring home, just one you'd have fun with. Now Jen, she looks like Ameica's sweetheart, now I am thinking she looks like a pornstar, wanting my hand inside her. Of course I said yes, I agreed to do it. But we were tired that night and we left it for Friday when we meet next (I am on a business trip in Germany until Friday).
Now I am wondering... last time I fisted a girl she was pretty wide, the whole reason I did it was because, well, she had a cavernous pussy, no other way to put it. Jen on the other hand is fucking tight. I am wondering if I'll be able to fist her at all. To tell the truth it's not that I am not into it, I'll do it for her because she wants it. For me it's been there done that. I am more than happy just having vanilla sex with her :D
Here is where I reach my question, by a long, roundabout way, on how do you start fisting a girl who has never been fisted. I know about lots of lube, I know she'll have to be super relaxed, but frankly I think it might just not be enough, as my hands are rather large too... Jen is tiny too, she weighs less than half of me...
So, any pointers on fisting a newbie? I have been extremely lucky hooking up with Jen, almost 16 years younger than me (daddy issues? LOL) and a (smoking) hottie, the last thing I would like to do is either hurt her or leave her unsatisfied...
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do it for her la
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Some pictures helps... got pictures to share ? NPNT ok ?
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thanks for spending time to type all tt out to share with us
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I think you have your fingers together and not in a fist. 3 4, then 5.
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Pass it to me, I'll take over your role. :)
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ok....u ask her to .... inhale...... then exhale..... then inhale... and exhale.. then 1,2,3 u push...... then inhale and exhale... then 1,2,3 push!!!!
if after 30min still cannot.. then u have cut it open abit... u know the part between the cb and her arse.... just cut abit then should be big enough lah......
most gal have to go through it sooner or later anyway.....
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seen it Hamburg St. Pauli but too bad u didnt try usin yr head
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Originally posted by pyrrhic:
So, first a bit about myself. I had a very sexually wild youth, until the late twenties I tried a bit of everything. After those young wild times I settled with one girl and got married, became the faithful husband, never cheated, etc. Our sex life degraded after almost 10 years of marriage, and that (along with many other issues) led us to get divorced. Now I am in my late 30s, I have been out of the dating scene for so long I actually feel slightly awkward talking to women. I consider myself to be rather good looking, got nice pecs and legs, manly hairy (the way I put it...), but got a bit of a gut (my ex wife cooked very well, that I miss). I consider myself a 6 right now, if I lost the gut and started working out a bit more I'd be an 8. So with my recently acquired freedom I have been attempting to meet women, and until very recently I was highly unsuccesful. Not many women like an awkward guy nearing his 40s with a small beer belly...
Well, back to my wild youth days, I mentioned back then I tried everything, including fisting a girl. She was was wild and bit wide for me, so she was very happy when I had my whole hand holding my dick inside her, effectively masturbating inside her. She was more than satisfied, and we actually dated for about two months but I feel we never really fucked, I liked our weird sex, but it was just me masturbating inside her.
Fast forward to last saturday. I am at a party at a buddy's home. His younger sister graduated from college last year and she had invited a few of her friends. The party went late into the night, I was one of the older guys there, and with alcohol flowing people's inhibitions usually fade away, and I guess so did my awkwardness... I met this girl, I'll call her Jen, she's hot as hell, the kind of girl who's naturaly pretty, tall, slender, blonde, blue eyes, body says she works out, beautiful smile, etc. The kind of girl guys want and girls envy.
So Jen, who is 24, probably never thought I was awkward at all, because after we met and started talking she never left my side, we talked all night. It was almost two in the morning when her friends were pushing for her to go (they had come together). I walked Jen to their car and we shared a wet kiss. We exchanged numbers. I didn't know if I should call or let her, but she called Sunday afternoon anyway. We spent that day together (sober, hah!), and had great sex, and started drinking at my place.
After getting a bit tipsy (more than on Saturday night), we started talking about our sexual lifes. Me telling her what I had done, she telling me what she wanted to do. It was then that she told me she wanted me to fist her!! I totally wasn't expecting that at all, it was like it came out the left field and smacked me right on the face. That girl I fisted back in the days of my youth was not the kind of girl you'd bring home, just one you'd have fun with. Now Jen, she looks like Ameica's sweetheart, now I am thinking she looks like a pornstar, wanting my hand inside her. Of course I said yes, I agreed to do it. But we were tired that night and we left it for Friday when we meet next (I am on a business trip in Germany until Friday).
Now I am wondering... last time I fisted a girl she was pretty wide, the whole reason I did it was because, well, she had a cavernous pussy, no other way to put it. Jen on the other hand is fucking tight. I am wondering if I'll be able to fist her at all. To tell the truth it's not that I am not into it, I'll do it for her because she wants it. For me it's been there done that. I am more than happy just having vanilla sex with her :D
Here is where I reach my question, by a long, roundabout way, on how do you start fisting a girl who has never been fisted. I know about lots of lube, I know she'll have to be super relaxed, but frankly I think it might just not be enough, as my hands are rather large too... Jen is tiny too, she weighs less than half of me...
So, any pointers on fisting a newbie? I have been extremely lucky hooking up with Jen, almost 16 years younger than me (daddy issues? LOL) and a (smoking) hottie, the last thing I would like to do is either hurt her or leave her unsatisfied...
So how was the fisting?
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Originally posted by alize:
I think you have your fingers together and not in a fist. 3 4, then 5.
It's the insertion of the whole hand into the vagina/rectum.
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Originally posted by ^^Shan_12^^:
It's the insertion of the whole hand into the vagina/rectum.
must be very painful for the lady...mission impossible -
+1 first, then i share my story too.
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So last time a girl also asked me to fist her... but i realize her one so big... so end up i took my kitchen/mattress and fridge and just stay inside her private part... free rental somemore... for some reason, i enjoy this weird sex too... so i been camping in her there for almost 1 year before she orgasm and flushed me out... that's when i angry and broke up with her.
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+1 again for cool story by TS.
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+1 again for TS determination to type such a long story. i read halfway i immediately stop and come +1 first.
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since already +1 so many time, I might as well +1 again 1 more time.
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Originally posted by mr music:
must be very painful for the lady...mission impossibleDepends, small girls are pretty "stretchable" and fisting is all about exotic pleasure.
Well, there always a whole carton of lub on standby. ;)
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go only
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tl;dr
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I need a summary please.
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Hey bud you are the bull of shit story, your story flawed , married ""
fist this
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Start with baby steps.
Use your third finger.
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