5 Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin
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Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge.
1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through high school and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you.
2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.
3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently devirginized girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed.
4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.
5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginizing a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.
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As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginizing to the high school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated.
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that being said, i still love to deflower them if i get the chance
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share your stories with a virgin?
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Fuck that. If you're pro you can prep and seduce a virgin easily.
The whole thing is easy and worth it, and she will be very appreciative.
This is the stupidest post I have ever seen.
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Originally posted by alize:
Fuck that. If you're pro you can prep and seduce a virgin easily.
The whole thing is easy and worth it, and she will be very appreciative.
This is the stupidest post I have ever seen.
how many have you bedded
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virgin cat?
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Originally posted by Li hao Lim Matthew:
how many have you bedded
2. I would bed some more if I can find them. But I don't want to chase much younger girls, and at my age there are practically nil virgins.
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Originally posted by alize:
2. I would bed some more if I can find them. But I don't want to chase much younger girls, and at my age there are practically nil virgins.
says who
hunt for those farking ugly ones and you will get at least 1 in 10 a virgin
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
virgin cat?
you do cats?
goodness me
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I totally concur with alize. What an imbecilic thread this is !! TS is a total nutjob !! 5 reasons not to sleep with a virgin? Or is it more appropriate to change the thread topic to 5 reasons why no woman wants to bed you? Hell, Anybody could blow you back with 5 reasons why your gf aint a virgin any longer. TS, what is the bloody point of you posting this in the year 2012 ? Your remarks are utterly redundant and only applicable if it was posted 50 years ago !!
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TS, are you rejected by virgins that is why you posted this topic here??
hahahahahhahha!!!!
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Last time my friend tried to bring me to church. He passed me a passage with
"I felt so bad about doing it to girls who are now some one's wife. I felt like punching myself..."
Are you this kind of person, TS?
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p alize. are u still witth ur girlfriend?
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h just gotta find a sad lesbian.. cfm virgin se.
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Originally posted by horny_ugly_bitch:
p alize. are u still witth ur girlfriend?
No I'm not.
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Originally posted by horny_ugly_bitch:
h just gotta find a sad lesbian.. cfm virgin se.
This part I don't understand. Why are lesbians sad or virgins? They still do penetrative sex.
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okay, if so then how many of your mothers were virgin when they had you in their womb after first shoot? how many? own up
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
TS, are you rejected by virgins that is why you posted this topic here??
hahahahahhahha!!!!
how you know
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so loh so
i can only think of one reason only leh
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Originally posted by 6u3king:
so loh so
i can only think of one reason only leh
what
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haha
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Madonnna is one reason, i take virgin as good, she was adult film actress, had many boy freinds, 2hubby kids, still she say she is a virgin