Do Galz only go for good looking man...??
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it's a belief, there's nothing to prove.Originally posted by M©+square:........disagree with something proven. -
yep..... i agree with tut.....Originally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:i disagree.
i believe it isn't this simple, if so, i would've done it.
it's really not easy for guyz you know......
like those topics we saw in BARS and stuffs..... the say they hooked on which gal and which gal..... and had so manay sex partners.... do u really believe?
Maybe.... cos they are really out to play.....
but for those who would like to go for simple r/s.... not easy.
it's either thru friend's intro or just wait for something to happen....
dio bo....??
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Dio dioOriginally posted by Yellow Box Fish:yep..... i agree with tut.....
it's really not easy for guyz you know......
like those topics we saw in BARS and stuffs..... the say they hooked on which gal and which gal..... and had so manay sex partners.... do u really believe?
Maybe.... cos they are really out to play.....
but for those who would like to go for simple r/s.... not easy.
it's either thru friend's intro or just wait for something to happen....
dio bo....?? -
haha, you're really funny.Originally posted by Yellow Box Fish:yep..... i agree with tut.....
it's really not easy for guyz you know......
like those topics we saw in BARS and stuffs..... the say they hooked on which gal and which gal..... and had so manay sex partners.... do u really believe?
Maybe.... cos they are really out to play.....
but for those who would like to go for simple r/s.... not easy.
it's either thru friend's intro or just wait for something to happen....
dio bo....??
i hope i got the correct idea of what your're saying. from what my brain is analyzing(z-z-z-z), i agree.
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Ever heard of this phrase,"Self-Fulfilling Prophecy" ? It is also called the Pygmalion Effect.Originally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:it's a belief, there's nothing to prove.
The concept of the self-fulfilling prophecy can be summarized in these key principles:
- We form certain expectations of people or events
- We communicate those expectations with various cues.
- We tend to respond to these cues by adjusting their behavior to match them.
- The result is that the original expectation becomes true.
This creates a circle of self-fulfilling prophecies.
So if you think you will succeed, you will adjust your behavior to move you towards achieving success. If you keep thinking about failure, you will adjust your behavior towards achieving failure. -
Well it all depends on what mindset you wish to adopt.
If it is just about pick girls and getting numbers. Playing with them then so be it.
It goes farther than that, building your wellbeing in communicating skills and personality.
Cheers! Off work
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damnOriginally posted by rainee:Ever heard of this phrase,"Self-Fulfilling Prophecy" ? It is also called the Pygmalion Effect.
The concept of the self-fulfilling prophecy can be summarized in these key principles:
- We form certain expectations of people or events
- We communicate those expectations with various cues.
- We tend to respond to these cues by adjusting their behavior to match them.
- The result is that the original expectation becomes true.
This creates a circle of self-fulfilling prophecies.
So if you think you will succeed, you will adjust your behavior to move you towards achieving success. If you keep thinking about failure, you will adjust your behavior towards achieving failure. -
I guess for girls, looks are secondary cos they tend to be more emotional, so the emphasis is on 'feeling'. For guys, we are more visual and physical (not necessarily in a sexual way), thus looks might be the primary concern. We do want to pass on good genes, don't we?
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this is really deep.... but it sure make sense......Originally posted by rainee:Ever heard of this phrase,"Self-Fulfilling Prophecy" ? It is also called the Pygmalion Effect.
The concept of the self-fulfilling prophecy can be summarized in these key principles:
- We form certain expectations of people or events
- We communicate those expectations with various cues.
- We tend to respond to these cues by adjusting their behavior to match them.
- The result is that the original expectation becomes true.
This creates a circle of self-fulfilling prophecies.
So if you think you will succeed, you will adjust your behavior to move you towards achieving success. If you keep thinking about failure, you will adjust your behavior towards achieving failure.
so tut.... remember to give the gal u like the charming look and drool if u can.... that will make u shy & funny..... then start a conversation with her by saying......" your fly is open......"" -
I don't luan luan talk one okOriginally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:damn -
Yea, this is true...but as time goes by both parties would realize it is not just about looks alone...there are a lot of things that are required to make a r/s work, and attraction alone won't sustain it...Originally posted by ^spidee^:I guess for girls, looks are secondary cos they tend to be more emotional, so the emphasis is on 'feeling'. For guys, we are more visual and physical (not necessarily in a sexual way), thus looks might be the primary concern. We do want to pass on good genes, don't we? -
well said ^spidee^ hong niang.......Originally posted by ^spidee^:I guess for girls, looks are secondary cos they tend to be more emotional, so the emphasis is on 'feeling'. For guys, we are more visual and physical (not necessarily in a sexual way), thus looks might be the primary concern. We do want to pass on good genes, don't we? -
Agree!Originally posted by rainee:Yea, this is true...but as time goes by both parties would realize it is not just about looks alone...there are a lot of things that are required to make a r/s work, and attraction alone won't sustain it...
Oh wait, but that's when your Self-Fulfilling Prophecy comes in. You'll adjust your behaviour to make the relationship work, no? -
I mean, he should have more courage to approach the girl he likes...not by being as corny as to drool...that will only disgust the girl..Originally posted by Yellow Box Fish:this is really deep.... but it sure make sense......
so tut.... remember to give the gal u like the charming look and drool if u can.... that will make u shy & funny..... then start a conversation with her by saying......" your fly is open......"" -
Let me see...Originally posted by starblue:charming eyes.
dashing smile
oozing of confidence.
a little shy
a little cute
a little playful
a pinch of seriousness
a great personality
soothing appearance
thats about all.... list two wil be out soon.
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still say not hitting on starblue mei..Originally posted by alexkusu:Let me see...
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Originally posted by Yellow Box Fish:well said ^spidee^ hong niang....... Hong niang sounds like niang niang qiang leh..
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I never heard of it. Seems to be follow the basics of Maslow Heirachy of Needs. I do know a certain-you-know who has evolved rapidly in the need for attention exists nearbyOriginally posted by rainee:Ever heard of this phrase,"Self-Fulfilling Prophecy" ? It is also called the Pygmalion Effect.
The concept of the self-fulfilling prophecy can be summarized in these key principles:
- We form certain expectations of people or events
- We communicate those expectations with various cues.
- We tend to respond to these cues by adjusting their behavior to match them.
- The result is that the original expectation becomes true.
This creates a circle of self-fulfilling prophecies.
So if you think you will succeed, you will adjust your behavior to move you towards achieving success. If you keep thinking about failure, you will adjust your behavior towards achieving failure. -
aiyo..no la. That list pretty basic for most girls in general. If she say "stamina for long-distance relationship" and I would definately say no to that la..Originally posted by rainee:still say not hitting on starblue mei.. -
Talking about me ah? I'm satisfying my social needs and esteem needs mah, humour me awhileOriginally posted by alexkusu:I never heard of it. Seems to be follow the basics of Maslow Heirachy of Needs. I do know a certain-you-know who has evolved rapidly in the need for attention exists nearby -
Originally posted by rainee:I mean, he should have more courage to approach the girl he likes...not by being as corny as to drool...that will only disgust the girl.. ya i know.... i was just kidding him.....
tut.... i know it is tough to listen & follow to other's life experiences......
but remember, our live is not a game that we can save it just in case we failed a task and can restore from the last save.....
"JUST DO IT"...... "AND DO IT THE RITE WAY....."
u have only one life to live.... live it rite......!!
cheers.....
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no eh..the person im talking bout has a nick that rhymes with SAMPah...Originally posted by ^spidee^:Talking about me ah? I'm satisfying my social needs and esteem needs mah, humour me awhile -
Oh, paiseh..Originally posted by alexkusu:no eh..the person im talking bout has a nick that rhymes with SAMPah...
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nothing to be paiseh..at least u knw what is paiseh compared to that person right?Originally posted by ^spidee^:Oh, paiseh.. -
Who, who?