sometimes i feel that.....
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ok den. i hate ppl like dat too. he is psychotic. at least from yr viewpoint.Originally posted by starblue:nope.. he just believes that non-christians are less of a human. that if i marry non-christian (or christian not from my church) next time, sure will have bad marriage.. or maybe he just wans to control my marriage life also.. -_-"""
maybe like the rira always say "freedom first, then peace." so it depends la, maybe can be more defiant slowly. all the best. -
man.. ur dad need a talking to.. maybe let him live at my house for a week? i'll make sure he'll b subtle n gentle when he goes back..Originally posted by starblue:nope.. he just believes that non-christians are less of a human. that if i marry non-christian (or christian not from my church) next time, sure will have bad marriage.. or maybe he just wans to control my marriage life also.. -_-""" -
yr house is hougang chalet is it.Originally posted by ^HaRu^:man.. ur dad need a talking to.. maybe let him live at my house for a week? i'll make sure he'll b subtle n gentle when he goes back.. -
tis the same everywhere ard the world..Originally posted by RaTtY81:sg is like tat. pri sch den sec den poly or ite den U mayb. after tat work... so routine for singaporean... -
at least can go poly or ite or U. alot of ppl can't.Originally posted by mercu:tis the same everywhere ard the world.. -
i cannot even close my door how to lock?? he likes to anyhow pop in my room to check got anything he can scold about. so cannot gei gei wait for him to go out one.. he wil suddenly just come in one...Originally posted by mercu:or maybe he's too bored? encourage him to go for evening walks, haha, then ya'd have time to urself lerz...
whoaz.. tink ur dad's abit scary lehz.. threaten to tear away ur bks? or u can read in sch? or when ya doing reading then lock ur rm door? or can gei gei like ya doing homework, then when he goes out, ya can cont reading?
strange lehz, ya reading quietly wont disturb him, how come he'd go to threaten ya..
he always say he dun like me to read. then when i still read, he say i no respect for him as a father, then get super angry. siao one... -
u sure not?? my dad doesn't realise how blessed he is with kids like us... which kid nowadays dun talk back to the parents one you tell me?? i keep hearing my neighbour kids screaming at the mum even.. kaoz.. give him face and respect dun shout at him le he still wanna get too far. tmd.Originally posted by ^HaRu^:man.. ur dad need a talking to.. maybe let him live at my house for a week? i'll make sure he'll b subtle n gentle when he goes back.. -
nope.. it's just one of those many concentration camps that i run..Originally posted by ^HaRu^:man.. ur dad need a talking to.. maybe let him live at my house for a week? i'll make sure he'll b subtle n gentle when he goes back.. -
less human??? tats really extreme...Originally posted by starblue:nope.. he just believes that non-christians are less of a human. that if i marry non-christian (or christian not from my church) next time, sure will have bad marriage.. or maybe he just wans to control my marriage life also.. -_-"""
as if x'tians are more human than ppl of other religions or non believers...
its this type of thinking tats causing all the trouble in the world...
WTF!!!
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pls dun join into their frenzy too hor.Originally posted by hyuuga neji:less human??? tats really extreme...
as if x'tians are more human than ppl of other religions or non believers...
its this type of thinking tats causing all the trouble in the world...
WTF!!! 
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i think you should consider moving out then since your dad is so unreasonable oh and ask your mom if she can actually stand for your dad hitting her souds like abuseOriginally posted by starblue:u sure not?? my dad doesn't realise how blessed he is with kids like us... which kid nowadays dun talk back to the parents one you tell me?? i keep hearing my neighbour kids screaming at the mum even.. kaoz.. give him face and respect dun shout at him le he still wanna get too far. tmd. -
he doesn't really hit her. he'll just pull her shirt, push her. but that's scary enough for me... those scenes are my worst nightmares...Originally posted by hisoka:i think you should consider moving out then since your dad is so unreasonable oh and ask your mom if she can actually stand for your dad hitting her souds like abuse
my mum's the conservative sort of woman who does not believe in divorce... although sometimes she may say she got tricked by dad into marrying him, she'll never get a divorce...
and i dun dare move out of the house.. wad if some day dad works up again??? who's there to protect my mum??? lolz... i'm like living in constant fear. fear of when the volcano will erupt next.. lolz.. how pathetic. -
I guess i'm pretty lucky. I'm slowly gaining control of my life n how i want to lead it. As much as my parents would like to hold on alittle longer, I have somewhat broken their grasp on me.
Talking abt relaxing.. Going back to Cambodia.. probably backpacking would be nice. Peaceful place.