need serious advice. jerks stay out, thank you.

• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 19:42

  say you have this friend, who is rather special to you. but cos other things happened, and it got rather ambiguous between you two. but still, that person is still special to you, though now u can't be sure if you're special to that person.
  
  and now, that person's always saying that he/she will always be there when u call for help or company or wadever. it's just that he/she will not initiate to call you. so it's like a one sided thing...
  
  how wud you feel??
  
  cos i'm not sure what i should be feelin.. lolz..
• Matthew Lim Li Hao

  19 Jun 05, 19:43

  this guy is a jerk right?
• sgboy2004

  19 Jun 05, 19:45

  be sure of yourself the feeling for the other party and ask not what the other party has for u, probably then u will feel better, as the passion to give and offer outweights all
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 19:47

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  be sure of yourself the feeling for the other party and ask not what the other party has for u, probably then u will feel better, as the passion to give and offer outweights all

  just imagine being in my shoes yah??? it feels like if one day i should stop calling or just disappear, he wudnt even know it. wudnt.... care any less... lolz...
• dragg

  19 Jun 05, 19:48

  i guess the answer lies with the 'cos others things happened'.
  
  a quarrel or misunderstanding?
  
  
• sgboy2004

  19 Jun 05, 19:50

  Originally posted by starblue:

  just imagine being in my shoes yah??? it feels like if one day i should stop calling or just disappear, he wudnt even know it. wudnt.... care any less... lolz...

  mi oso got friends liddat... no call one lor, then somehow meet on the road and then like we parted yesterday.
  
  well, then wat the other party feels abt u might not be what u felt abt the other party... so dun expect the same thing. It is enough and your choice to be proactive...but not expecting from the other end.
• ^spidee^

  19 Jun 05, 19:54

  Originally posted by Matthew Lim Li Hao:

  this guy is a jerk right?

  He sure is.
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 19:59

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  He sure is.

  damn... i should have put "jerks and dogs not allowed"...
  
  sigh... i dunno how i should be feeling, to be ke you ke wu in a person's life.
• ^spidee^

  19 Jun 05, 20:08

  Originally posted by starblue:

  damn... i should have put "jerks and dogs not allowed"...
  
  sigh... i dunno how i should be feeling, to be ke you ke wu in a person's life.

  Maybe he just doesn't wanna cause further awkwardness between the two of you? Or is he not a guy who usually takes the initiative?
• binZ

  19 Jun 05, 20:10

  Originally posted by starblue:

  say you have this friend, who is rather special to you. but cos other things happened, and it got rather ambiguous between you two. but still, that person is still special to you, though now u can't be sure if you're special to that person.
  
  and now, that person's always saying that he/she will always be there when u call for help or company or wadever. it's just that he/she will not initiate to call you. so it's like a one sided thing...
  
  how wud you feel??
  
  cos i'm not sure what i should be feelin.. lolz..

  sometimes.. dun take guy's words to heart.. especially about saying that he/she will always be there when u call for help or company or wadever.. sometimes they say it becos they feel that it is appropariate to say this during that moment.. Not every guy like to be the initating party de.. tats one reason i have been alone for many yrs.
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:15

  Originally posted by binZ:

  sometimes.. dun take guy's words to heart.. especially about saying that he/she will always be there when u call for help or company or wadever.. sometimes they say it becos they feel that it is appropariate to say this during that moment.. Not every guy like to be the initating party de.. tats one reason i have been alone for many yrs.

  lolz... i think he means it.. sigh... dunno lah...
• sgboy2004

  19 Jun 05, 20:17

  Originally posted by starblue:

  lolz... i think he means it.. sigh... dunno lah...

  aha, so it is a "he"
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:32

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  aha, so it is a "he"

  i already said it dude. -_-"
• Lingos

  19 Jun 05, 20:33

  On another note.. i hate it when guys who are really interested in you and say they will call. Don't call.. i'm so cheesed off.
  WTF... i don't understand what it is that intimidates them.
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:38

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  On another note.. i hate it when guys who are really interested in you and say they will call. Don't call.. i'm so cheesed off.
  WTF... i don't understand what it is that intimidates them.

  oh, lingos is a gal??? nvm...
  
  yeah.. hate the waiting part... especially when they say they'll call at 8 pm, they call you at 10pm. the next evening. -_-"
• Lingos

  19 Jun 05, 20:39

  Originally posted by starblue:

  oh, lingos is a gal??? nvm...
  
  yeah.. hate the waiting part... especially when they say they'll call at 8 pm, they call you at 10pm. the next evening. -_-"

  Least they eventually call you.
  Yesh.. apparently i'm very intimidating.
  This guy totally had the hots for me.. but i must have crushed his poor little ego somehow. I'm so upset. Should i call him??
  I show you his picture lah.
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:42

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Least they eventually call you.
  Yesh.. apparently i'm very intimidating.
  This guy totally had the hots for me.. but i must have crushed his poor little ego somehow. I'm so upset. Should i call him??
  I show you his picture lah.

  how did u crush his ego???
• Lingos

  19 Jun 05, 20:45

  Originally posted by starblue:

  how did u crush his ego???

  I dunno.. who understand men? HAHHA.
  And he wouldn't shut up about my car (cos it's flashy). Maybe that's another factor.
  Should i call or not..
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:49

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  I dunno.. who understand men? HAHHA.
  And he wouldn't shut up about my car (cos it's flashy). Maybe that's another factor.
  Should i call or not..

  i dunno, your call. (pun absolutely intended)
• Lingos

  19 Jun 05, 20:50

  Originally posted by starblue:

  i dunno, your call. (pun absolutely intended)

  But at the same time... i cannot stand guys who are threatened by me.
  I'm so sad.
  
  He was really hot. Wanna see pics?
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 20:51

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  But at the same time... i cannot stand guys who are threatened by me.
  I'm so sad.
  
  He was really hot. Wanna see pics?

  i'm starting to regret i ever talked to you.
• Lingos

  19 Jun 05, 20:54

  Originally posted by starblue:

  i'm starting to regret i ever talked to you.

  HAHAHAHHA... don't worry hon.
  I'm actually quite sane in real life.
• Ito_^

  19 Jun 05, 21:08

  Originally posted by starblue:

  say you have this friend, who is rather special to you. but cos other things happened, and it got rather ambiguous between you two. but still, that person is still special to you, though now u can't be sure if you're special to that person.
  
  and now, that person's always saying that he/she will always be there when u call for help or company or wadever. it's just that he/she will not initiate to call you. so it's like a one sided thing...
  
  how wud you feel??
  
  cos i'm not sure what i should be feelin.. lolz..

  perhaps, he is also thinking the same as you - like a one sided thing, so he thought perhaps, its better to just leave you alone unless you call. nowadays, some guys are very stupid.
• mahai102

  19 Jun 05, 21:10

  another jerk.
• starblue

  19 Jun 05, 21:14

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  perhaps, he is also thinking the same as you - like a one sided thing, so he thought perhaps, its better to just leave you alone unless you call. nowadays, some guys are very stupid.

  i do not understand guys... -_-"