i saw a thread in AA
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someone said that in a 7 month r/s they only kissed once and then somebody reply that it is not healthy... really meh??? is it really wierd if your gal only lets you kiss her once after being together for 7 months???
i am seriously perturbed by this... cos i know that i might be the same...
i'm just the very untouchable kinda girl... -
is the gal juz untouchable or the guy juz shy in tat thread?
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i guess so.. too little physical involved? i think as long as don't go to extreme can already lah.. haha. are you in the same situation as her?
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lol...For me I think kissing and hugging is alright, as long as both have set a boundary about physical intimacy, they shud try to not go beyond it.
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health of wad kind?Originally posted by starblue:someone said that in a 7 month r/s they only kissed once and then somebody reply that it is not healthy... really meh??? is it really wierd if your gal only lets you kiss her once after being together for 7 months???
i am seriously perturbed by this... cos i know that i might be the same... i'm just the very untouchable kinda girl...
the guy's a prevert
it varies...all... it takes...an understanding...tat's all
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7 months is a long time. A good gauge for various understanding between two parties.
Every r/s have their ideals and expectations, and these are the super variables.
My question for unhealtiness is because after 7 mths, this guy is still asking why like this. If this 7 mths, his girlfriend and him didn't get into common understand of one another in this time. Isn't it unhealthy?
Moreover - Why only one kiss? Expression of affection is common and normal. Say you have a pet dog. Will you bear to 'take care' of your dog for 7 months and only bring him/her(your pet) out for a walk or show affection only once?
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It seems to me both didn't understand each other after 7 months....
What have they been doing all this time???
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/me hugs
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Originally posted by starblue:someone said that in a 7 month r/s they only kissed once and then somebody reply that it is not healthy... really meh??? is it really wierd if your gal only lets you kiss her once after being together for 7 months???
i am seriously perturbed by this... cos i know that i might be the same... i'm just the very untouchable kinda girl... 
What's your sign?
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haiz... must touch and be touched more often.
it is proven that touch is a healthy form of expression and very good for the body. keeps one healthy physically.
research also shows that comparing people who hug more often & people who haven't hug for years -
people who have been hugging are somewhat happier, and doesn't fall sick easily than people who doesn't really hug for a long time.
those who don't receive hugs or physical contacts their entire lives actually doesn't quite perform that well in terms of showering love and affection comparing with those that hug openly and more often. (be it in a r/s or buddy terms or family/relatives...etc)... and i'm not saying ALL of THEM.
don't ask me where i read this from.. cos it's been years i've been keeping this knowledge.
now here's my opinion...
the feeling of being hugged and pat on the shoulder makes one feels cherished and accepted. therefore, there'll be a certain tendancy for that person receiving that hug or a pat to wanna respond to others in a similar way as well.. maybe not a hug nor a pat, but perhaps a kind responce or a favour.
this is a very essential tool to make this world a better place for any person to live in... hugging need not have to be done only in a relationship. -
hug me more often thenOriginally posted by The Emperor:haiz... must touch and be touched more often.
it is proven that touch is a healthy form of expression and very good for the body. keeps one healthy physically.
research also shows that comparing people who hug more often & people who haven't hug for years -
people who have been hugging are somewhat happier, and doesn't fall sick easily than people who doesn't really hug for a long time.
those who don't receive hugs or physical contacts their entire lives actually doesn't quite perform that well in terms of showering love and affection comparing with those that hug openly and more often. (be it in a r/s or buddy terms or family/relatives...etc)... and i'm not saying ALL of THEM.
don't ask me where i read this from.. cos it's been years i've been keeping this knowledge.
now here's my opinion...
the feeling of being hugged and pat on the shoulder makes one feels cherished and accepted. therefore, there'll be a certain tendancy for that person receiving that hug or a pat to wanna respond to others in a similar way as well.. maybe not a hug nor a pat, but perhaps a kind responce or a favour.
this is a very essential tool to make this world a better place for any person to live in... hugging need not have to be done only in a relationship.
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Originally posted by rainee:hug me more often then
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Whats wrong with the lack of kisses? You dont have to kiss the one you love to show that you love him.Originally posted by starblue:someone said that in a 7 month r/s they only kissed once and then somebody reply that it is not healthy... really meh??? is it really wierd if your gal only lets you kiss her once after being together for 7 months???
i am seriously perturbed by this... cos i know that i might be the same... i'm just the very untouchable kinda girl... There are many other ways to express your love. -
Can I be your spare hugger?Originally posted by rainee:y ? -
cannotOriginally posted by CoolMyth:Can I be your spare hugger? -
Originally posted by rainee:cannot
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shinei.Originally posted by CoolMyth: -
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i think there's nothing wrong...as long as your guy loves u, he wld understand or maybe he's the special one who can melt you straight away...
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Most ppl tink physical imtimacy is like a measurement of hw the relationship is progressing...if a gal only let her kiss once during the mths of relationship...the guy may feel a little bit demoralized...but still it boils down to hw two ppl interact and whether they are comfortable with one another...
Hi ppl...I am back after a period of absence...I guess no ppl will miss me here...
Oh well... -
I was wondering taht I havent seen you for a while now...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Most ppl tink physical imtimacy is like a measurement of hw the relationship is progressing...if a gal only let her kiss once during the mths of relationship...the guy may feel a little bit demoralized...but still it boils down to hw two ppl interact and whether they are comfortable with one another...
Hi ppl...I am back after a period of absence...I guess no ppl will miss me here...
Oh well...
And here you are!
Welcome back
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Thanks you...Originally posted by rainee:I was wondering taht I havent seen you for a while now...
And here you are!
Welcome back
I guess U r the only one who will notice...
*Simple Bear gives Rainee a big hug... -
Originally posted by M©+square:7 months is a long time. A good gauge for various understanding between two parties.
Every r/s have their ideals and expectations, and these are the super variables.
My question for unhealtiness is because after 7 mths, this guy is still asking why like this. If this 7 mths, his girlfriend and him didn't get into common understand of one another in this time. Isn't it unhealthy?
Moreover - Why only one kiss? Expression of affection is common and normal. Say you have a pet dog. Will you bear to 'take care' of your dog for 7 months and only bring him/her(your pet) out for a walk or show affection only once?
Cheers
mi agree w/ ah yun n MCOriginally posted by Yunhaier: What's your sign?
Cheers
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I am sure the rest will notice as well...but I think the regulars are not here now...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Thanks you...
I guess U r the only one who will notice...
*Simple Bear gives Rainee a big hug...
Anyway I am off to sleep...enjoy urself here, may the rest be back to entertain u soon