What would you do when you see the person you loved once?
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How do you handle when you see a person you used to love once?
Even when there is no feeling left, but would you still feel the pain? And be reminded of how much you used to love him but how you cud never have that person?
Ai ai gonna kill me when he read this...but I am really confused
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Bring him down and beat the Shit out of him.
Twice.
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Can be serious mah...Originally posted by charlize:Bring him down and beat the Shit out of him.
Twice.
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Originally posted by rainee:How do you handle when you see a person you used to love once?
Even when there is no feeling left, but would you still feel the pain? And be reminded of how much you used to love him but how you cud never have that person?
Ai ai gonna kill me when he read this...but I am really confused
U telling me..
I am going to see her at her wedding soon -
hmm i'd be reminded of the pain.
strangely enuff i can't quite rmb wat steve looks like... but i can remember only certain stuff that happened.... and most vividly would be the pain when we broke up
as for the love i cud not have...
nah i found someone better than mr den perfect/right
as for other r/s................
i have nightmares. -
well, i figure, i'd smile when i remember the good times, and accept that it can never be...
with that, a touch of regret maybe.. coz heck, regret reminds us of our humanity...
and then, we move on... -
Recently...the person I loved for 2 years just moved to where I stayed...in fact he is now staying a floor below me...Originally posted by ToffeeClub1929:
U telling me..
I am going to see her at her wedding soon
And needless to say he will drop by my room, mebbe not cos he wants to see me, but cos he wants to talk to my roomie and her bf as well...
I can still talk to him like last time, but there is this pain...which I really dunno how to explain...and I dun think I shud be feeling it since I am already attached to another person who is like so much greater? -
I will feel happy unless we had an unhappy past and I haven forgotten abt the hurt tt she caused U...
I will try to be as rational as possible in dealing with her...be clear tt being too emotional on such issues is no gd...dun gt overwhelm by the memories and emotions...
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yar...Originally posted by shinta:hmm i'd be reminded of the pain.
strangely enuff i can't quite rmb wat steve looks like... but i can remember only certain stuff that happened.... and most vividly would be the pain when we broke up
as for the love i cud not have...
nah i found someone better than mr den perfect/right
as for other r/s................
i have nightmares.
I was expecting to not feel anything when he drops by...but just now, my heart was actually aching -
if got no feeling left, why is there a pain??Originally posted by rainee:How do you handle when you see a person you used to love once?
Even when there is no feeling left, but would you still feel the pain? And be reminded of how much you used to love him but how you cud never have that person?
Ai ai gonna kill me when he read this...but I am really confused
Just forget it!!
Carry on with yr life.
Seem like the song "U are beautiful"
one of the sentence stated "I will never be with u" -
Bear knows how much I suffered because of this person...Originally posted by the Bear:well, i figure, i'd smile when i remember the good times, and accept that it can never be...
with that, a touch of regret maybe.. coz heck, regret reminds us of our humanity...
and then, we move on...
Yea, maybe I am feeling a bit of regret, everytime I see him now I am reminded of my past, of my own foolishness... -
I guess I havent completely forgotten...I was able to forget most of it after I am attached to my ai ai now, but when he resurfaced in my life, all the bad memories just came back...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:I will feel happy unless we had an unhappy past and I haven forgotten abt the hurt tt she caused U...
I will try to be as rational as possible in dealing with her...be clear tt being too emotional on such issues is no gd...dun gt overwhelm by the memories and emotions... -
hmm...Originally posted by rainee:yar...
I was expecting to not feel anything when he drops by...but just now, my heart was actually aching
when i talk to steve these days, i was sure i've moved onthe only person who's constantly on my mind would be the man i'm gg to marry next year 
ah... look at how i'd steer all conv to him, u can see liao -
I dun think I have any feeling left for him, after all I am very happy wif my current r/s...Originally posted by Kenashi:if got no feeling left, why is there a pain??
Just forget it!!
Carry on with yr life.
Seem like the song "U are beautiful"
one of the sentence stated "I will never be with u"
Maybe it is that little tinge of regret... -
what is hard to do, and what we must do, is to learn from it, and grow..
there there.. the regrets also teach us.. to cherish what we have and try not to make the same mistakes again...
and letting it go, it's a part of it...
it's hard but somewhere along the line, we all can
Originally posted by rainee:Bear knows how much I suffered because of this person...
Yea, maybe I am feeling a bit of regret, everytime I see him now I am reminded of my past, of my own foolishness... -
i used to love this guy a lot, the one who nearly became my bf... up till this date, all that has happened i can remember vividly, and with all the details intact. all those conversations. i can remember all the laughter and the tears.
but i cannot remember exactly how i felt in those situations. i KNOW i must be depressed, i KNOW i was deeply in love. but now, i just cannot FEEL those emotions anymore... it's as though i have never loved at all... no matter how hard i try to remember, i cannot dig up those feelings i must have buried deep deep down...
if i see him again, i will remember him as a very special person in my life. once. but he will probably only get a faint smile from me. and i will just continue in my own path. -
sigh..I was sure I had moved on...Originally posted by shinta:hmm...
when i talk to steve these days, i was sure i've moved onthe only person who's constantly on my mind would be the man i'm gg to marry next year
ah... look at how i'd steer all conv to him, u can see liao
I wish the pain wudnt be there...
And I am feeling darn guilty too for still feeling this pain... -
true...Originally posted by the Bear:what is hard to do, and what we must do, is to learn from it, and grow..
there there.. the regrets also teach us.. to cherish what we have and try not to make the same mistakes again...
and letting it go, it's a part of it...
it's hard but somewhere along the line, we all can
Letting go was very hard, after all it took me more than a year to do so! -
don't regret after making a decision.Originally posted by rainee:I dun think I have any feeling left for him, after all I am very happy wif my current r/s...
Maybe it is that little tinge of regret...
nothing can be done to improve yr position thus it is better to accept the fact.
regret is just a feeling like what my lecturer used to say, u can't do a thing about it. -
Thing is he still wants to talk to me like there is nothing wrong going on, and I had to force to chat with him, I had to force myself to smile at him...Originally posted by starblue:i used to love this guy a lot, the one who nearly became my bf... up till this date, all that has happened i can remember vividly, and with all the details intact. all those conversations. i can remember all the laughter and the tears.
but i cannot remember exactly how i felt in those situations. i KNOW i must be depressed, i KNOW i was deeply in love. but now, i just cannot FEEL those emotions anymore... it's as though i have never loved at all... no matter how hard i try to remember, i cannot dig up those feelings i must have buried deep deep down...
if i see him again, i will remember him as a very special person in my life. once. but he will probably only get a faint smile from me. and i will just continue in my own path. -
Hmm...it is not the kind of regret that makes me want to go and be together with him...Originally posted by Kenashi:don't regret after making a decision.
nothing can be done to improve yr position thus it is better to accept the fact.
regret is just a feeling like what my lecturer used to say, u can't do a thing about it.
It is the type of regret that...reminds me of the pain I used to have in the past, how I have cried...and wished I wasn't so foolish before... -
if u dun wanna talk to him, just excuse yourself... sometimes, certain feelings cannot be explained. they cannot always come with a reason... dun punish yourself for feeling such emotions.. dun need to feel guilty. previous loves will sometimes affect our moods, but as long as you dun let it affect your current r/s, you should get too flustered...Originally posted by rainee:Thing is he still wants to talk to me like there is nothing wrong going on, and I had to force to chat with him, I had to force myself to smile at him...
if emperor is a good man, he will understand... -
personally, it's something i would not forget.. and it won't be classified as "regret" but as something paid for lessons learnt
time will smooth the edges of this jagged little pill..
give it time, and a lot of loving from your guy...
think of it this way yah? -
The reason why I still talked to him was because my roomie and her bf are in the room, so I dun wan to create a scene by not talking to him, and he came to my room to look for me just now. So naturally I had to entertain him. My roomie and her bf din know abt my past with him, so I want to let it stay this way...Originally posted by starblue:if u dun wanna talk to him, just excuse yourself... sometimes, certain feelings cannot be explained. they cannot always come with a reason... dun punish yourself for feeling such emotions.. dun need to feel guilty. previous loves will sometimes affect our moods, but as long as you dun let it affect your current r/s, you should get too flustered...
if emperor is a good man, he will understand...
I hope he will understand...I talked to him once abt this, but he said he never felt anything when he saw his ex...so mebbe I shudnt as well... -
Haha my guy lavishes me with so much love I felt a bit guilty...Originally posted by the Bear:personally, it's something i would not forget.. and it won't be classified as "regret" but as something paid for lessons learnt
time will smooth the edges of this jagged little pill..
give it time, and a lot of loving from your guy...
think of it this way yah?
He has totally spoiled me lol...
But yea, I guess time will help to heal me