What would you do when you see the person you loved once?
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Dun tink too much...
Juz relax and I am sure Emperor understands hw U feel...
U2 hearts are connected rem..
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Though I am not very good in relationship matters myself, being foolish last time does change you for the better now.Originally posted by rainee:Hmm...it is not the kind of regret that makes me want to go and be together with him...
It is the type of regret that...reminds me of the pain I used to have in the past, how I have cried...and wished I wasn't so foolish before...
Everyone learns from mistakes and my guess is that now, you appreciate more things.
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Hope so...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Dun tink too much...
Juz relax and I am sure Emperor understands hw U feel...
U2 hearts are connected rem..
Sometimes...esp times like this...
I really, really wish he is here with me...
Long distance r/s sucks during this kinda time...
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Yea, I learn a lot from the pain I felt during the 2 years...sometimes I re-read the stuff I had written during those times...and I cud feel how much I have grown up since then...Originally posted by ToffeeClub1929:Though I am not very good in relationship matters myself, being foolish last time does change you for the better now.
Everyone learns from mistakes and my guess is that now, you appreciate more things.
I guess lessons do come with a price...
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well time to get over it since u feel that he wasn't worth it b4, he wasn't worth it nowOriginally posted by rainee:Hmm...it is not the kind of regret that makes me want to go and be together with him...
It is the type of regret that...reminds me of the pain I used to have in the past, how I have cried...and wished I wasn't so foolish before...
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when we two parted
In silence and tears,
Half broken-hearted
To sever for years ....
Pale grew your cheek and cold,
Colder your kiss;
Truly that hour foretold
Sorrow to this ....
The dew of the morning
Sunk chill on my brow—
It felt like the warning
Of what I feel now ....
Your vows are all broken,
And light is your fame:
I hear your name spoken,
And share in its shame ....
They name you before me,
A knell to mine ear;
A shudder comes over me—
Why were you so dear?
They know not I knew you,
Who knew you too well:
Long, long shall I rue you,
Too deeply to tell ....
In secret we met—
In silence I grieve,
That you heart could forget,
your spirit deceive ....
If I should meet you
After long years,
How should I greet you?
With silence and tears ........
--- Lord Byron
tis how .... I understand how you feel ... time doesn't really assuage all the pain eh .... the pain of knowing that the person that you love can never love you back in return .... -
true, I will get over it...Originally posted by Kenashi:well time to get over it since u feel that he wasn't worth it b4, he wasn't worth it now
Luckily my ai ai coming back tomorrow, so I can talk to him...
Maybe cos I am stressed out also since my sch starting, so cudnt spend more time talking to him le....
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Yar lorOriginally posted by rainee:Yea, I learn a lot from the pain I felt during the 2 years...sometimes I re-read the stuff I had written during those times...and I cud feel how much I have grown up since then...
I guess lessons do come with a price...
A price me of being single for so long liao -
Originally posted by Fatum:when we two parted
In silence and tears,
Half broken-hearted
To sever for years ....
Pale grew your cheek and cold,
Colder your kiss;
Truly that hour foretold
Sorrow to this ....
The dew of the morning
Sunk chill on my brow—
It felt like the warning
Of what I feel now ....
Your vows are all broken,
And light is your fame:
I hear your name spoken,
And share in its shame ....
They name you before me,
A knell to mine ear;
A shudder comes over me—
Why were you so dear?
They know not I knew you,
Who knew you too well:
Long, long shall I rue you,
Too deeply to tell ....
In secret we met—
In silence I grieve,
That you heart could forget,
your spirit deceive ....
If I should meet you
After long years,
How should I greet you?
With silence and tears ........
--- Lord Byron
tis how .... I understand how you feel ... time doesn't really assuage all the pain eh .... the pain of knowing that the person that you love can never love you back in return ....
But I shudnt be feeling this way...since I am already in love with someone else? -
then maybe you can try getting out of the room when he's there?? get something from the mart so something??Originally posted by rainee:The reason why I still talked to him was because my roomie and her bf are in the room, so I dun wan to create a scene by not talking to him, and he came to my room to look for me just now. So naturally I had to entertain him. My roomie and her bf din know abt my past with him, so I want to let it stay this way...
I hope he will understand...I talked to him once abt this, but he said he never felt anything when he saw his ex...so mebbe I shudnt as well...
ah... emperor should realise that guys are guys and they are different from gals... guys will never understand how gals can be affected by past r/s... talk to him again loh.. or make him pm me. i will teach him the lesson. -
A good person is worth the wait?Originally posted by ToffeeClub1929:Yar lor
A price me of being single for so long liao 
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Yea, I will talk to him when he comes back tomorrow, he is in camp now...Originally posted by starblue:then maybe you can try getting out of the room when he's there?? get something from the mart so something??
ah... emperor should realise that guys are guys and they are different from gals... guys will never understand how gals can be affected by past r/s... talk to him again loh.. or make him pm me. i will teach him the lesson. -
i think fantum got the idea wrong.. lolz..
anyway, rainee jie, have a good talk with your ai ai soon loh... make him understand you love him the most currently.. and that you are already feeling very guity as it is... just sa jiao to him a bit lah... he will understand... i hope. -
don't feel guilt about this...
for i figure, love is infinite...
that i love someone, does not change the fact that i can still have feelings for someone else..
but i will be safe in the knowledge that i will love the one i will walk life's journey with, so much more... and so can she..
there's a Beatles song in this it's called "In My Life":
There are places IÂ’ll remember
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life IÂ’ve loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know IÂ’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know IÂ’ll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
Though I know IÂ’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know IÂ’ll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
In my life I love you more
so, remember... ultimately, if you can say to him truly "in my life, i love you more", then you'll be all rightOriginally posted by rainee:
But I shudnt be feeling this way...since I am already in love with someone else? -
Duno.. I tried to be frens with him.. after so long we met up..
I gave him a very bright smile. we had lunch, chit chat all that.. frens who duno about us still tot that we were an item.
but then not long after.. history happened again and ceased all contacts lor.
then when I saw him again, I juz felt like scolding him straight in the face for something that he said.. but his younger bro was with him. So I thought, I dun want to humiliate him. He might not be a gd lover, but he might be a gd bro. Dun want to spoil his image in his younger bro's heart. -
yups ... i got the wrong idea ..... this case is more complex than what i thought it was ....Originally posted by starblue:i think fantum got the idea wrong.. lolz..
anyway, rainee jie, have a good talk with your ai ai soon loh... make him understand you love him the most currently.. and that you are already feeling very guity as it is... just sa jiao to him a bit lah... he will understand... i hope. 
oh well ... best thing to do would be to keep contact to a minimum ... some things are best left buried .... -
i suppose bear can be right... see, i know if next time i got attached... i will always see this guy i just talked about as someone special. someone who's not just a stranger i will pass by without recognising his face...
but, my affections and my heart will still be with my guy. and he has to understand that although sometimes i will think about my past experiences with this guy, it doesnt mean i still have feelings for him... -
Thank you for the lyrics...I feel much better now...Originally posted by the Bear:don't feel guilt about this...
for i figure, love is infinite...
that i love someone, does not change the fact that i can still have feelings for someone else..
but i will be safe in the knowledge that i will love the one i will walk life's journey with, so much more...
there's a Beatles song in this it's called "In My Life":
There are places IÂ’ll remember
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life IÂ’ve loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know IÂ’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know IÂ’ll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
Though I know IÂ’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know IÂ’ll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
In my life I love you more
so, remember... ultimately, if you can say to him truly "in my life, i love you more", then you'll be all right
Anyone has this song...can send to me? -
Haiz, I already avoided him like a plague...then who knows, he went to move into the dorm I am staying in...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Duno.. I tried to be frens with him.. after so long we met up..
I gave him a very bright smile. we had lunch, chit chat all that.. frens who duno about us still tot that we were an item.
but then not long after.. history happened again and ceased all contacts lor.
then when I saw him again, I juz felt like scolding him straight in the face for something that he said.. but his younger bro was with him. So I thought, I dun want to humiliate him. He might not be a gd lover, but he might be a gd bro. Dun want to spoil his image in his younger bro's heart. -
already tried...but now stay in the same bldg...very hard leh...and he is the frenly type, likes to drop into my room for chats now and then...Originally posted by Fatum:yups ... i got the wrong idea ..... this case is more complex than what i thought it was ....
oh well ... best thing to do would be to keep contact to a minimum ... some things are best left buried .... -
yea, dun think I would want to be with him again and go thru all the pain I went thru last time...once is more than enuff....Originally posted by starblue:i suppose bear can be right... see, i know if next time i got attached... i will always see this guy i just talked about as someone special. someone who's not just a stranger i will pass by without recognising his face...
but, my affections and my heart will still be with my guy. and he has to understand that although sometimes i will think about my past experiences with this guy, it doesnt mean i still have feelings for him... -
yuan fen wei jing lor.Originally posted by rainee:Haiz, I already avoided him like a plague...then who knows, he went to move into the dorm I am staying in...
i also always bump into him outside.. when we were together.. nv so coincidental wan lor.
take it as a test..
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i;m not sure emperor will be happy to hear if rainee jie "treats it as a test".. cos rainee jie shouldnt seem to be wavering or anything like that.Originally posted by browniebaobao:yuan fen wei jing lor.
i also always bump into him outside.. when we were together.. nv so coincidental wan lor.
take it as a test..
it will tell u whether u have really moved on and happy with ur life now. more so, i think rainee jie should treat this as a test of how much trust she and her ai ai have with each other, such that they can even deal with this kinda emotions together... -
Yea, I will take it as a test...
I just know that...I feel lucky to have found someone else who love me wholeheartedly..
After being through so much pain with some guys I have known before my ai ai, I can truly say he is the only one who has never made me feel insecure, makes me feel like he has another girl outside, make me feel suspicious etc...cos when I was with the other guys, those were my thoughts all the time... -
when there's a down, there will always be a up...rmb tatOriginally posted by rainee:Hope so...
Sometimes...esp times like this...
I really, really wish he is here with me...
Long distance r/s sucks during this kinda time...