What would you do when you see the person you loved once?
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Me ah....
I will siam them as far as possible. The main reason is that I also don't know what to say to them. Actually, so far, I feel that most of my "loves" are all crushes, I don't think I've experienced "love" so far.
Ah, well, whatever....
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I siam him for a very long time liao hor...almost a year with not much contact except the hi-and-bye type. Then I didn't know he already moved into my dorm for the entire yearOriginally posted by CoolMyth:Me ah....
I will siam them as far as possible. The main reason is that I also don't know what to say to them. Actually, so far, I feel that most of my "loves" are all crushes, I don't think I've experienced "love" so far.
Ah, well, whatever.... 
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oh? u decided to go? good good..at least i didnt talk cock for nthOriginally posted by ToffeeClub1929:
U telling me..
I am going to see her at her wedding soon 
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I have discussed this matter with my ai ai...and he said he understand...but I told him that I promise to never take him for granted...
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hang on to him..
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No feeling how to have pain???Originally posted by rainee:How do you handle when you see a person you used to love once?
Even when there is no feeling left, but would you still feel the pain? And be reminded of how much you used to love him but how you cud never have that person?
Ai ai gonna kill me when he read this...but I am really confused
I believe there's no love, but there's a certain degree of feeling...that's y pain is being felt by you... -
I willOriginally posted by the Bear:hang on to him.. -
Eh...feeling of how foolish I was last time?Originally posted by dcx:No feeling how to have pain???
I believe there's no love, but there's a certain degree of feeling...that's y pain is being felt by you... -
yes, it is painful.. it is the pain i am feeling now, just that, i know i cant see her ever here.
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huh? doesn't make sense to me....Originally posted by rainee:Eh...feeling of how foolish I was last time? -
hMz..you still ok mah.....it'll be more painful seeing her with other guy, but not you....which one you wana see??? I'll prefer to be where you're standing...Originally posted by coffeeortea:yes, it is painful.. it is the pain i am feeling now, just that, i know i cant see her ever here. -
Because I suffered a lot when I was in love with him last time, I wished I wasn't that foolish to fall for his charm when he didn't even care abt me. I got over it, thanks to the someone special I have met after that.Originally posted by dcx:huh? doesn't make sense to me....
So now when I see him again, I am expecting to not feel any pain because I thought I have gotten over the whole episode and just take the whole thing as an experience and lesson, hence I didn't expect to feel the pain. But still I felt a bit of pain and regret when he started talking to me again recently, because it made me realize that I haven't truly forgiven him, or maybe I haven't really forgiven myself for being so stupid as to fall for someone who does not even care abt me... -
I think we need to meet up n tok......Originally posted by rainee:Because I suffered a lot when I was in love with him last time, I wished I wasn't that foolish to fall for his charm when he didn't even care abt me. I got over it, thanks to the someone special I have met after that.
So now when I see him again, I am expecting to not feel any pain because I thought I have gotten over the whole episode and just take the whole thing as an experience and lesson, hence I didn't expect to feel the pain. But still I felt a bit of pain and regret when he started talking to me again recently, because it made me realize that I haven't truly forgiven him, or maybe I haven't really forgiven myself for being so stupid as to fall for someone who does not even care abt me... Juz kidding....
Kan Kai bah....... -
huh...what for?Originally posted by dcx:I think we need to meet up n tok...... Juz kidding....
Kan Kai bah.......
Not possible since I am more than a thousand miles away from Spore...even when my ai ai wans to meet me also cannot wor...
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for 8 yrs, i didnt meet her. but still trying to find news about her, jus wanted to know if shes fine o not. then 1 day finally saw her blog on internet. n he was still with her. my heart breakagain, it bleeds, e pain feels like it jus happen yesterday. but wat 2do? it has happen! n time will not wait for me. hell is not a place to stay for too long... well, at least he was gd to her, still with her after 8 yrs. i wish them all the best! but i will always remember e pain so as to remind myself e mistakes i had done in e past n as a force to push myself to improve faster.
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uh? I was just kidding abt the meeting up....Originally posted by rainee:huh...what for?
Not possible since I am more than a thousand miles away from Spore...even when my ai ai wans to meet me also cannot wor...
You're in aussie huh??? -
dude...you need to kan kai....i know it's not easy...but you've to try...Like i always tell my friends, "it's your life afterall, you live only once"....Originally posted by ysatul:for 8 yrs, i didnt meet her. but still trying to find news about her, jus wanted to know if shes fine o not. then 1 day finally saw her blog on internet. n he was still with her. my heart breakagain, it bleeds, e pain feels like it jus happen yesterday. but wat 2do? it has happen! n time will not wait for me. hell is not a place to stay for too long... well, at least he was gd to her, still with her after 8 yrs. i wish them all the best! but i will always remember e pain so as to remind myself e mistakes i had done in e past n as a force to push myself to improve faster. -
tks, certainly i will kan kai! as i say, life goes on. i'm not e type who will cry for 1 whole yr jus b'cos i fall down once.
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Honey, it's time to move on.Originally posted by rainee:Because I suffered a lot when I was in love with him last time, I wished I wasn't that foolish to fall for his charm when he didn't even care abt me. I got over it, thanks to the someone special I have met after that.
So now when I see him again, I am expecting to not feel any pain because I thought I have gotten over the whole episode and just take the whole thing as an experience and lesson, hence I didn't expect to feel the pain. But still I felt a bit of pain and regret when he started talking to me again recently, because it made me realize that I haven't truly forgiven him, or maybe I haven't really forgiven myself for being so stupid as to fall for someone who does not even care abt me...
Above all things, you need to forgive urself. Everyday we are growing. And if you're not, you're dead. I forgive you. And I truly understand ur feelings.
According to what you've mentioned abt u being unable to forgive him for hurting u last time, I must say that forgiveness is not just a feeling. IT IS A CHOICE. Be final abt it.
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Hurt inside not outside. Natural reaction would probably is to avoid contact with that person i guess.
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say hi and ask how she's doing...
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*grabs popcorn and watches*Originally posted by rainee:Ai ai gonna kill me when he read this...( -
things have been settled.
we are still blissfully attached, and everything's under our control.
for those who hope we'll split, OBESE hope on that! yea... over a Plutonian's dead carcess!
give up ur hopes la!
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A mighty pain to love it is, and 'tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain.
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Reminds me of once I was sitting in a restaurant with a bf.. when... an ex walked past with his girlfriend. He didn't see me.
and in that split second, even though he didn't see me, I was transported to a scene in my memory of walking with him, down the same road. The conversation we were having, his smile when he was listening to me jabber on.. .. so clear still in my mind. Did I love him still then?
You can't erase a love that's been engraved inside your heart, can you? Not without diminishing your heart or scarring it irrevocably. The deeper the love, the longer the journey, the more permanent the memories. And when you give your heart to someone else again, it's with all of that wholesale, take it or leave it. It is unfair that the hurt you suffered at someone else's hands needs the tenderness of another to heal. It is even more unfair that all that love from someone else cannot just make the memories from a previous love disappear. Good thing is, as you create more memories, you CAN forget where those snippets of the past and let it lay buried, until ... like u say, fate suddenly flings them out of some cobwebby cabinet and you got to confront it.
It's a great time to take a last look and do some housekeeping. Let the tears roll, the smiles come then pack them away after a last viewing, contented that what you have NOW is because you have left that all behind.