Originally posted by starblue:
actually, this is exactly what puzzles me... i dun understand why the guy is so insistent on the girl giving him hopes. i mean, if the girl is the kind of person who dun promise whatever she is not confident of keeping, then is there no other alternative the guy can compromise to?? either this is major communication problem between them two, (they don't understand what the other party needs and is thinking about, or concerned about), or they are just being too different..
well, i believe that all men are responsible for their fall of manhood these modern days of society. partly, it is due to parental upbringing, environmental issues, and the media. they are not to be blamed, but they are a source of great influence over all the MEN in this modern world.
have u ever notice, that the media often potrays fathers as idiots, guys who are lusty and wimpy (in their speech not mentioning actions), mothers who are dominating the household just because the father doesn't take any actions or they're the drunkards in dramas?? It's ALL inside dramas and movies if u pay attention to it.
indeed, manhood is losing its edge in this modern world based on these influences. sad to say but, as a man i would agree to everything i say here and to reach a point of maximised manhood is something i purposed to grow towards each and every new day.
it's not easy, but it's worth it.
ppl, follow my example