if you get interested in this person
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but you barely know him/her. as in maybe you are in a group for tutorial in class or something... just got to know each other in the group. but somehow he/she catches your eye. and you want to know if he/she is attached before you get anymore involved. how will you ask??? i mean, its kinda wierd and too obvious to just ask like that, out of the blue...
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i think i am facing such a situation now...just tat mine is not in a class...but in the same sch...everytime after sch or during break, would be able to see her...but dunno how to approach her although got talk to her abit b4
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u can ask him to help u with tutorial qns...
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erm.... but in our tutorial discussions, normally they look to me for answers...Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:u can ask him to help u with tutorial qns... 
plus if ask him on a one to one basis then a bit obvious also leh.. cos normally is in a group one mah...
er.. actually.. it's just a general question... haha.. for all you people out there who needs the advice..
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then u act topid topid loh...ask him to teach u...kekekeke..Originally posted by starblue:erm.... but in our tutorial discussions, normally they look to me for answers... plus if ask him on a one to one basis then a bit obvious also leh.. cos normally is in a group one mah...
er.. actually.. it's just a general question... haha.. for all you people out there who needs the advice.. -
mus 1st wait for her to b alone... den ask her or write if u too shy.
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when his handphone rings, asks "wah, reporting to girlfriend ah ? " .... or something like that ...
it works ... i fell for it once ... -
Ask for friend help la,maybe your friend knows the person..
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5 ways,
1. The most easiest and simplest way is to ask directly, if you are bold enough.
2. Alternatively, you can seek the answer you want from his/her friends.
3. Ask your friend to ask him/her or his/her friends.
4. Follow him/her, hoping that he/she is not on the way to meet gf/bf.
5. Know him/her as a friend first, and work from there.
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then later he saym nope. not gf... ans full stop.. how u know he have or dun have gf?? lolz...Originally posted by Fatum:when his handphone rings, asks "wah, reporting to girlfriend ah ? " .... or something like that ...
it works ... i fell for it once ...
write to ask?? OMG.. that is even more obvious loh... -_-"" -
well.. thats when u say.. 'O.K! Icebreaker! Who here got bf/gf n who else dun have.. i am doing statistics so i need honest answers'Originally posted by starblue:then later he saym nope. not gf... ans full stop.. how u know he have or dun have gf?? lolz...
write to ask?? OMG.. that is even more obvious loh... -_-""
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Hmm...went I want chase the cashier girl, I just be bold... n guess what she rely? "U flirt flirt ah?"
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too obvious no good loh.. i told u le mah...Originally posted by alexkusu:Hmm...went I want chase the cashier girl, I just be bold... n guess what she rely? "U flirt flirt ah?"
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hw sneaky do u want? write number on his question paper? slip a msg inside his books? guys usually cant detect if gals trying to chase them man.. they r not 'sensitive' enough.. i duno what it means..but thats what i was lectured onOriginally posted by starblue:too obvious no good loh.. i told u le mah... 
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-_-" who said anything about chasing??? i was merely asking how you can ask a person if he/she is attached, without appearing too eager lah....Originally posted by alexkusu:hw sneaky do u want? write number on his question paper? slip a msg inside his books? guys usually cant detect if gals trying to chase them man.. they r not 'sensitive' enough.. i duno what it means..but thats what i was lectured on -
But why ask unless you interested? Although since u are pretty enough for people to pick you up from buses, I am surprised he's not interested unless he is already attached.
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tail him home and from skool..
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since your tute group looks to you for answers and such, you're already their natural leader.
abuse it and ask everyone how their lovelife is, you know, just because you want to 'get to know everyone better'.
you'll have
1 found out about everyone
2 found out about him
3 gotten to know everyone that little bit better
and you'll have got what bit of information you were after without looking like a fool.
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typically as the discussion is over and everyone is about head home..., just causally ask her.... "Are you meeting your bf later?"Originally posted by starblue:but you barely know him/her. as in maybe you are in a group for tutorial in class or something... just got to know each other in the group. but somehow he/she catches your eye. and you want to know if he/she is attached before you get anymore involved. how will you ask??? i mean, its kinda wierd and too obvious to just ask like that, out of the blue...
so people... how can you pop the question (as in what kinda situation will help make it seem casual)?
If she say "Yes"... then you know...
If she say "No lah... ", then wildcard...???
If she defensively say, "No lah, I dont have a bf!" then you know....
Of course that is provided that party is "honest"... some attached ppl like to be known as single! -
er.... cos we barely know each other now?? haha... i dun wanna say whether or not i feel he is interested lah.. cos later scally i think too much.. haha...Originally posted by oxford mushroom:But why ask unless you interested? Although since u are pretty enough for people to pick you up from buses, I am surprised he's not interested unless he is already attached. -
Better check if he's gay first.
Just in case.
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if hes gay, hes mine.
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hmmm... ask everyone sounds good... but hor... actually i am not the leader lah... he is...Originally posted by thinger:since your tute group looks to you for answers and such, you're already their natural leader.
abuse it and ask everyone how their lovelife is, you know, just because you want to 'get to know everyone better'.
you'll have
1 found out about everyone
2 found out about him
3 gotten to know everyone that little bit better
and you'll have got what bit of information you were after without looking like a fool.
=) ? he's the one whos directing the discussion, like tell people, "ok, so settled? lets move to qn 3." liddat lah.. but then he will directly ask me for my imput one, like "so _ _ _ _ _ _, wad's your view on this? " dunno whether its because i always let other people say their answer first and listen to them thats why he asks me for imput or not lah.. but got this other girl in the group also seldom say anything but he never ask her loh..
aiya... i dunno lah... -
-_-"Originally posted by charlize:Better check if he's gay first.
Just in case.
Really. -
Hey, I'm looking out for you.Originally posted by starblue:-_-"
You don't want to know this vital piece of information only on the eve of your wedding day.