if one day..

• ^HaRu^

  10 Oct 05, 22:24

  u discovered tt u n ur friend have fallen for the same guy/gal... what will u do..?
• leo-kun

  10 Oct 05, 22:27

  is still the choice who the girl want....
  by i will give in if is my close friend
  
• ^spidee^

  10 Oct 05, 22:28

  I'll do a cost and benefit analysis to see whether it is more worthwhile losing my friend or losing the girl.
• iveco

  10 Oct 05, 22:29

  Better for both guys to lay off the girl if they don't wish to ruin hteir friendship.
• rainee

  11 Oct 05, 00:04

  all is fair in war and love...
  
  May the best man win
• kaobeikaobu

  11 Oct 05, 00:08

  gota see the guy/gal likes who better...
• the.raven

  11 Oct 05, 00:09

  Originally posted by ^HaRu^:

  u discovered tt u n ur friend have fallen for the same guy/gal... what will u do..?

  that sux, I dunno.
• BlUe G@rF|eLd

  11 Oct 05, 00:10

  Look up to the sky, start to curse and swear...
  pluck a flower, peel out petal by petal, counting... " Chase her, Dun chase her, chase her... "
  Let fate decides!!
• crazy monkey

  11 Oct 05, 00:11

  okie who like starblue ? say now
• starblue

  11 Oct 05, 00:25

  if it is this particular friend, then i will back away. if not i will consider other factors.
• crazy monkey

  11 Oct 05, 00:27

  Originally posted by starblue:

  if it is this particular friend, then i will back away. if not i will consider other factors.

  no one fallen for me yet
• starblue

  11 Oct 05, 00:31

  Originally posted by crazy monkey:

  no one fallen for me yet

  how old are you??
• BÃ¥seline

  11 Oct 05, 00:46

  Originally posted by ^HaRu^:

  u discovered tt u n ur friend have fallen for the same guy/gal... what will u do..?

  If that person is committed, sincere and genuinely nice... that gal/guy will feel and sees it.
  
  Then again, the field's all fair and square... you may have done ya utmost to make the gal realized u are ideal, she may think otherwise. Ultimately, it's up to her decision.
  
  Besides, one has to think again if this gal/guy is someone whom you can 'click' emotionally and in conversation. Think again too that, the guy/gal is not to be taken as some sorta trophy.
• stellazio

  11 Oct 05, 00:48

  May the best man win..But sometimes one likes and the other is just a crush nia..
• stellazio

  11 Oct 05, 00:49

  Orh ya and one more thing,may the loser has no regrets or bear any hatred no matter the outcome..
• browniebaobao

  11 Oct 05, 00:53

  heard this question over the radio few days ago.
  
  if me and my fren falls for the same guy..
  
  usually it wun happen. LOL.
  
  But if it happens, I want frenship rather than love.
• kaobeikaobu

  11 Oct 05, 00:55

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  heard this question over the radio few days ago.
  
  if me and my fren falls for the same guy..
  
  usually it wun happen. LOL.
  
  But if it happens, I want frenship rather than love.

  then if this guy likes u very much n u also nvr like a guy so much b4? how?
• BÃ¥seline

  11 Oct 05, 01:08

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  But if it happens, I want frenship rather than love.

  If friendship is thicker than love, there would be a clear understanding from both guy/gal that it's all fair and square. And back to being fair, it all boils down to how thick the friendship is. Liao Kai?
• browniebaobao

  11 Oct 05, 11:31

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

  then if this guy likes u very much n u also nvr like a guy so much b4? how?

  cannot be. i will not like somebody so much if we are not together.
• browniebaobao

  11 Oct 05, 11:34

  Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:

  If friendship is thicker than love, there would be a clear understanding from both guy/gal that it's all fair and square. And back to being fair, it all boils down to how thick the friendship is. Liao Kai?

  if it's a fren, then a 'fren' is someone dear to me liao.
  
  if it's acquaintance, who cares? it dun hurt lor.
  
  i also realize that frenship can be evergreen, but not bgr. break liao might not even be frens.
• BillyBong

  11 Oct 05, 11:41

  "dear.....we have problem....we both like you but we don't know who likes you more....so we've decided....that YOU should decide for us..."
• ^HaRu^

  11 Oct 05, 12:27

  hmm.. do u people suppose tt.. if the guy/gal chooses u, ur frenship with tt fren wont b strained..?
• I_am_PeTe_Parker

  11 Oct 05, 12:33

  Originally posted by ^HaRu^:

  hmm.. do u people suppose tt.. if the guy/gal chooses u, ur frenship with tt fren wont b strained..?

  It definitely would. I knew two brothers (yes real brothers) going after the same girl and they did not talk to each other again.
• 798

  11 Oct 05, 19:33

  give you another scenario:
  
  wat happen when 2 friends fell off their friendship for trying to woo the same gal... n the gal simply not interested in both of them?
  
  i agree wif iveco it's best that 2 of them step down for the sake of friendship.
• browniebaobao

  12 Oct 05, 00:57

  Originally posted by 798:

  give you another scenario:
  
  wat happen when 2 friends fell off their friendship for trying to woo the same gal... n the gal simply not interested in both of them?
  
  i agree wif iveco it's best that 2 of them step down for the sake of friendship.

  then their frenship is not strong enough.