how long have u waited for ur love

• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  21 Oct 05, 23:59

  me hmm waiting for this wonderful lady for 5 yrs now. we seem not destined for each other. we are still good friends and we often ask each other out like an outing but its not i unfree or she unfree. its not that i nvr say out i love u to her. i did. but we were young that time. so we dismissed this thought. she said she'd love me too that time. but in the end we couldnt get the right time opportunity. for now i dont know
• starblue

  22 Oct 05, 00:07

  i am always waiting. for how long, i never count.
  
  i was too young then.
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 00:08

  dun look just at one tree , try to look at the forest
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  22 Oct 05, 00:09

  Originally posted by rainee:

  dun look just at one tree , try to look at the forest

  rainforest? no i dont wan. this girl is the emergent tree
• The Emperor

  22 Oct 05, 00:10

  dun look at just the Shit... look at the whole toilet bowl!
• starblue

  22 Oct 05, 00:10

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  rainforest? no i dont wan. this girl is the emergent tree

  maybe the herbacious plants suit you better.
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 00:11

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  rainforest? no i dont wan. this girl is the emergent tree

  then dun blame her if you wait 10 years and she never respond Sometimes we need to know when to give up
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  22 Oct 05, 00:12

  Originally posted by starblue:

  maybe the herbacious plants suit you better.

  im not the guy who lets go easily. relationships should be treated equally impt
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 00:12

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  im not the guy who lets go easily. relationships should be treated equally impt

  this shall only be true once u have found someone whom you love and also love you back.
• stellazio

  22 Oct 05, 00:15

  till now haven't find true one..still alot of part time..
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  22 Oct 05, 00:15

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  till now haven't find true one..still alot of part time..

  lol including ur job?
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  22 Oct 05, 00:16

  Originally posted by rainee:

  this shall only be true once u have found someone whom you love and also love you back.

  i dont know about her
• starblue

  22 Oct 05, 00:31

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  im not the guy who lets go easily. relationships should be treated equally impt

  letting go after 5 years of waiting isnt wad i will call "easily"
  
  u need to give yourself a chance to see the forest. you're just so engrossed in tending to that particular tree, you are not even breathing for yourself anymore...
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 07:24

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  i dont know about her

  Then ask her and get it over and done with. If she loves you back, then go into a r/s with her. If she says no, then learn to let go and wait for the right girl to appear in your life.
• foxwalk

  22 Oct 05, 07:46

  Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:

  im not the guy who lets go easily. relationships should be treated equally impt

  There's no relationship in the first place, just friendship.
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 07:50

  Originally posted by foxwalk:

  There's no relationship in the first place, just friendship.

  Friendship is also a kind of relationship...but I guess yea, it is not a romantic relationship to begin with. But sometimes when we have our eyes fixated on just one person, it is rather hard to even imagine looking beyond him/her.
• starblue

  22 Oct 05, 10:23

  it's awful to have to wait for someone... that's why i always dun like the thought of making another person wait for me...
  
  ah.. but heck... he wanna wait then let him wait loh... some things only time will tell. maybe during the waiting he will have given up half way also shuo bi ding.
  
  anyway, to wait or not to wait depends solely on the individual loh... you will figure out when to stop waiting. i hope...
• dragg

  22 Oct 05, 10:31

  still waiting.
  
  
• DriftingGuy

  22 Oct 05, 10:33

  
  Perhaps instead of waiting, its time to find?
• The Emperor

  22 Oct 05, 12:30

  Originally posted by DriftingGuy:

  Perhaps instead of waiting, its time to find?

  Hmm... sometimes finding isn't a good idea after all. you'll get tired and worn out making a fool out of urself.
  
  Waiting isn't a good idea also.
  
  I think the only thing to do is enjoy life lor...
• alfagal

  22 Oct 05, 12:41

  Almost a year now...
• BadzMaro

  22 Oct 05, 14:56

  Waiting n finding.. its all b.s. You wait.. you have to prepare for the worst.. u wait till the day u die. Its like sitting there waiting for money to fall out of the sky. To find.. you just have to let the shit roll over here. Are u going let the shit pile on u n stop u in ur tracks.. or plough through it..
• rainee

  22 Oct 05, 15:29

  dun wait too long...cos the other person doesn't even know how much suffering you are going thru...
• Fatum

  22 Oct 05, 15:33

  Originally posted by rainee:

  dun wait too long...cos the other person doesn't even know how much suffering you are going thru...

  the other party never does ......
  
  *7 years .....
• Statice_dream

  22 Oct 05, 17:59

  Originally posted by rainee:

  Then ask her and get it over and done with. If she loves you back, then go into a r/s with her. If she says no, then learn to let go and wait for the right girl to appear in your life.

  i agree.. besides, no matter how cliche this may sound, i believe that if you really love the person, you don't have to have her to keep loving her..
  
  but waiting is really horrible. at the end of the day, you ask yourself are you really waiting for that one person? or is it just a stubborn refusal to let go wat you have been holding on for so long.. sometimes we must learn to cut the rope.. doesnt mean you'll fall hard.. maybe its a bed of roses down there waiting for you..