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Cos they asked, why your results seem to not be so good? Tell us to truth, maybe we can help. So hearing that, I said it is cos my course is difficult. Then they flared up and said,"So now you think it is difficult, you definitely cannot graduate oledi la?"Originally posted by renorenal:Hmmm... you told them directly or indirectly?
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Personally, to you... do you think the course is difficult or challenging?Originally posted by rainee:Cos they asked, why your results seem to not be so good? Tell us to truth, maybe we can help. So hearing that, I said it is cos my course is difficult. Then they flared up and said,"So now you think it is difficult, you definitely cannot graduate oledi la?" -
Yes, dats y I am telling em the truth...but seems like they cant handle it. I shud have sugarcoat my words insteadOriginally posted by renorenal:Personally, to you... do you think the course is difficult or challenging?
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No... difficult and challenging are two different things... they are not sugarcoating...Originally posted by rainee:Yes, dats y I am telling em the truth...but seems like they cant handle it. I shud have sugarcoat my words instead 
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I said that it is challenging, but it wil not stop me from graduating next year...Originally posted by renorenal:No... difficult and challenging are two different things... they are not sugarcoating... -
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my parents told me dont give up or lose interest in my study...wen i complain bout my d1ckhead incompetent piece of sh1t lecturer..my dad ...how to say? give me his blessings to fail that subject -
Are your parents the type who alwiz jumps to a conclusion prior to waiting for a rational explanation?
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sigh....parentsOriginally posted by alexkusu:wah..
my parents told me dont give up or lose interest in my study...wen i complain bout my d1ckhead incompetent piece of sh1t lecturer..my dad ...how to say? give me his blessings to fail that subject -
yea. i oledi told em not to do tis, but they are not ppl who change easily...Originally posted by renorenal:Are your parents the type who alwiz jumps to a conclusion prior to waiting for a rational explanation? -
Originally posted by rainee:I said that it is challenging, but it wil not stop me from graduating next year... Parents will be parents no matter what, they would alwiz want what their heart desires for their offsprings to be successful and their plans, feasible...
If you tell them it is difficult, but it won't stop you from graduating, it will make them feel that you are being compelled to study... -
but then wat to say wor...Originally posted by renorenal: Parents will be parents no matter what, they would alwiz want what their heart desires for their offsprings to be successful and their plans, feasible...
If you tell them it is difficult, but it won't stop you from graduating, it will make them feel that you are being compelled to study...
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Do they treat your other siblings the same or do they only treat you like that?Originally posted by rainee:yea. i oledi told em not to do tis, but they are not ppl who change easily...
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My dad told me ..its ok if u fail, as long u did your best. Take all the time you need to study..
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I am the only childOriginally posted by renorenal:Do they treat your other siblings the same or do they only treat you like that? -
so nice...my parents wud have come over with a butcher knife to murder me...Originally posted by alexkusu:My dad told me ..its ok if u fail, as long u did your best. Take all the time you need to study..
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Sometimes just tell them it is challenging would suffice...Originally posted by rainee:but then wat to say wor...
Provide the reasons why you think it is challenging...
Give them inevitable reasons that you face day in day out...
Seeing that you have already studied quite long in your uni, telling them that you don't understand a thing would not be the right thing to do that's more like a trick for the first year student... -
I already said that it is difficult, then they refused to listen to my reasons...Originally posted by renorenal:Sometimes just tell them it is challenging would suffice...
Provide the reasons why you think it is challenging...
Give them inevitable reasons that you face day in day out...
Seeing that you have already studied quite long in your uni, telling them that you don't understand a thing would not be the right thing to do that's more like a trick for the first year student... they just keep repeating that they dun tink i will graduate, bla bla...
tink i go back to sleep le -
Hey rainee, same here...Originally posted by rainee:I am the only child
Their expectations would definitely be much higher than the rest of the parents who have more than one child...
You see, if your parents are that type who likes to talk about their children's success to others, wants to ensure that you are one of the best before they are able to tell other people... Are they the kind of parents who wants you to score all As during your PMR and SPM and put you up in a lot of tuition classes?
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Sounds like your parents are quite irritable and moderately tempered...Originally posted by rainee:I already said that it is difficult, then they refused to listen to my reasons... they just keep repeating that they dun tink i will graduate, bla bla...
tink i go back to sleep le -
hmm.. i knw how u two feel..the pressure of doin everything well, make parents proud... like Reno become doctor..maybe cos parents wishes..
me...dad ask me go veterinarian or do higher studies really no free choice in deciding my future -
Yeah... coz if you don't do well, no one in the family will... and if that happens, they'd be worried about who will take care of them in the future..
Psychologically (if alfagal is here), once adults reach the age of about 50-60, they will be concern primarily of their family, then their health comes next... even though the actual problems are not there, they will still dwell on the topic...
E.g. one patient, he was about 55 years old, wonders why he has not have heart attack when all his friends have undergone coronary angiography bypass graft (CABG)... as a result, he feels anxious and depressed...
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i feel like im goin to die at 39yr..am i inviting death?
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Hahahah... you have to ask alfagal...Originally posted by alexkusu:i feel like im goin to die at 39yr..am i inviting death? that's very a psychological question for me... -
she will tell me stuff bout state of mind, powers of the mind, etc
doc no work 2mrw? -
Hahaha... got... 7.30 am have to be there liauz... so I'm going off at 12 sharp...Originally posted by alexkusu:she will tell me stuff bout state of mind, powers of the mind, etc
doc no work 2mrw?