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shucks...Originally posted by renorenal:Yeah... that's why a lot of psychiatric disorders are left untreated... which is quite sad coz it stirs a lot of trouble in the family and sometimes the neighbors... psychiatric disorders next to alcohol and drug abuse are the main causes or family and marriage discordant...
there are times when i think my mom is a bit unstable...cos her mood fluctuates very very fast one...can be violent one minute then calm and loving the next...but then when I suggest to her to get some treatment, she became violent again...wa lau damn scary one lor...
now I become even more scared to go home le...
and seems like she is now allied with my Dad, so two of them are going against me...really no energy to face them...even talking on the phone to them is exhausting... -
thats why he must learn now..especially if he want to continue to be by urside at that particular moment which could make or break you..Originally posted by rainee:my ai ai different wor...u never see him get heated up before over things said in here? it will definitely be worse to hear worse things coming out from people whom will be or is already ur in-laws... 
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haiz they did worse things to me, which I dun feel like revealing here...still pains me whenever I think about it...dats y I vow to never ever treat my own kids like dat...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Abused childhood ah.. let me tell u one thing. My parents are seprated for as long as i remember. about 23 yrs.. my older bro my older sis n me got it bad from our mum. My mum is a magistrate.. work stress working woman.. always vent her angers at us. We been caned to shiet.. chopped by knife , locked in fucking chicken coops.. locked outside..all over petty small things man.. my dad aint helping too..he is like from the fuking armys tyle.. but i kan kai already..my bro n sis kan kai also...none of them wanna come back.. FUK! WHAT AM I DOING BACK HERE! but i dun care la.. i try to understand thier situations... but still piss me off everyime i think about it..
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I see... now everything adds up...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Abused childhood ah.. let me tell u one thing. My parents are seprated for as long as i remember. about 23 yrs.. my older bro my older sis n me got it bad from our mum. My mum is a magistrate.. work stress working woman.. always vent her angers at us. We been caned to shiet.. chopped by knife , locked in fucking chicken coops.. locked outside..all over petty small things man.. my dad aint helping too..he is like from the fuking armys tyle.. but i kan kai already..my bro n sis kan kai also...none of them wanna come back.. FUK! WHAT AM I DOING BACK HERE! but i dun care la.. i try to understand thier situations... but still piss me off everyime i think about it.. -
Thats why... we must live our own life . We cannot live for our parents sake.. must live for our own happiness. I know it sounds selfish..but i dun want to be fking ending up like them!Originally posted by renorenal:Yeah... that's why a lot of psychiatric disorders are left untreated... which is quite sad coz it stirs a lot of trouble in the family and sometimes the neighbors... psychiatric disorders next to alcohol and drug abuse are the main causes of family and marriage discordant... -
trying to teach him now...he is learningOriginally posted by stellazio:thats why he must learn now..especially if he want to continue to be by urside at that particular moment which could make or break you..
guess its because of my horoscope also partly.. 
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You should set up an anger management classOriginally posted by stellazio:thats why he must learn now..especially if he want to continue to be by urside at that particular moment which could make or break you..
guess its because of my horoscope also partly.. HERE!! -
aiya.. what to do.. my bro n sis got it worse then me. I am surprised my bro can still go into Music production and graduate as a sound engineer. My sister now double degree with Law n something...talented.. Man.. i am the only fuked up one still here.. with the rest of the garbage...Originally posted by rainee:haiz they did worse things to me, which I dun feel like revealing here...still pains me whenever I think about it...dats y I vow to never ever treat my own kids like dat... -
i actually been to one..and got bored by it..in fact bored till i got pissed that i have to attend the lesson..Originally posted by renorenal:You should set up an anger management class HERE!! -
Originally posted by rainee:
Sounds more complicated than that... bet she has an underlying personality disorder... is she the easily irritable and frustrated type? Has she been alwiz like these before? Any particular moment when you see her having sleepless nights, talking as though she is very powerful, wanting the idea to save the world from crime, being paranoid, and eat or spend money excessively?
shucks...
there are times when i think my mom is a bit unstable...cos her mood fluctuates very very fast one...can be violent one minute then calm and loving the next...but then when I suggest to her to get some treatment, she became violent again...wa lau damn scary one lor...
now I become even more scared to go home le... and seems like she is now allied with my Dad, so two of them are going against me...really no energy to face them...even talking on the phone to them is exhausting... -
experiences let you grow the fastest..Originally posted by rainee:trying to teach him now...he is learning -
With our hustle and bustle condition of our lives, a lot of ppl are becoming more irritable and frustrated over simple things... I see quite a lot of patients turning up for anger management classes, most of them are from top class executives or CEOs...Originally posted by stellazio:i actually been to one..and got bored by it.. -
me only child, no choiceOriginally posted by BadzMaro:aiya.. what to do.. my bro n sis got it worse then me. I am surprised my bro can still go into Music production and graduate as a sound engineer. My sister now double degree with Law n something...talented.. Man.. i am the only fuked up one still here.. with the rest of the garbage...
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True true... but oh well, whatever you do, think of your health man...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Thats why... we must live our own life . We cannot live for our parents sake.. must live for our own happiness. I know it sounds selfish..but i dun want to be fking ending up like them! -
Expectations are high on her...Originally posted by rainee:me only child, no choice 
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hmm...easily irritable and frustrated, sometimes yes...cos she gets angry at me very easily de, sometimes just need to do one lil mistake then she will flare up...I remember there was once I asked her to buy sth for me, then she dun wan but I continue to pester her...she flared up and tore my booksOriginally posted by renorenal:Sounds more complicated than that... bet she has an underlying personality disorder... is she the easily irritable and frustrated type? Has she been alwiz like these before? Any particular moment when you see her having sleepless nights, talking as though she is very powerful, wanting the idea to save the world from crime, being paranoid, and eat or spend money excessively?
hmm...not sure about sleepless nights la, she is super paranoid la about me...sometimes mention things that I never do but she is convinced I am doing it (like the clubbing and taking drugs stuff)...she never spends excessively wor, in fact she can really save...and always refuse to let me buy stuff dat I dun need... -
now dun u get funny ideas...Originally posted by stellazio:experiences let you grow the fastest.. -
these jobs very high stress one...have to manage ppl, then got those guai lan ones, really can try ur patience de...Originally posted by renorenal:With our hustle and bustle condition of our lives, a lot of ppl are becoming more irritable and frustrated over simple things... I see quite a lot of patients turning up for anger management classes, most of them are from top class executives or CEOs... -
U only child.. good la.. coz u know whatever it is..they worry for u coz u are the only one. N they will do whatever it is to protect u and always fear teh worst. Times have changed.. drugs are rampant.. girls go missing.. u know the stuff.. if i am ur oarents u are my only princess...HELL YEAH I WILL FREAK OUT!Originally posted by rainee:me only child, no choice -
Most parents are like that, especially when you are the only child, they want you to be perfect in their eyes... coz if you don't no one else will... so since you are the only one available to carry on their names, they want to see you in a 'pure' manner, so a lil bit of wrong things you do, they will think of it as some bad things or bad groups of ppl you must have joined with to learn such things... hence the stuffs you do that they don't see, they will start thinking of the worse...Originally posted by rainee:hmm...easily irritable and frustrated, sometimes yes...cos she gets angry at me very easily de, sometimes just need to do one lil mistake then she will flare up...I remember there was once I asked her to buy sth for me, then she dun wan but I continue to pester her...she flared up and tore my books
hmm...not sure about sleepless nights la, she is super paranoid la about me...sometimes mention things that I never do but she is convinced I am doing it (like the clubbing and taking drugs stuff)...she never spends excessively wor, in fact she can really save...and always refuse to let me buy stuff dat I dun need... -
I worry.. but i always destress with booze.. clubs... occasional drugs. I still perform my duties.. but i just cant stand it sometimes!Originally posted by renorenal:True true... but oh well, whatever you do, think of your health man... -
i feel that some of the lessons they teach are crazy..like drinking a cup of cold water to cool urself down..i mean,if a person can be in that heated state of mind, and being presented with the glass,what will be the first thought that comes to his/her mind?Originally posted by renorenal:With our hustle and bustle condition of our lives, a lot of ppl are becoming more irritable and frustrated over simple things... I see quite a lot of patients turning up for anger management classes, most of them are from top class executives or CEOs...
dumb dumb dumb..thats y i got bored soo fast..cause it doesn't stimulates me intellectually or practically.. -
wa lau...everyone like siding with themOriginally posted by BadzMaro:U only child.. good la.. coz u know whatever it is..they worry for u coz u are the only one. N they will do whatever it is to protect u and always fear teh worst. Times have changed.. drugs are rampant.. girls go missing.. u know the stuff.. if i am ur oarents u are my only princess...HELL YEAH I WILL FREAK OUT! but wat abt my feelings? not pleasant to keep getting blamed for things I dun do u know...and they are like very convinced about it, so no matter how I tell them I didnt do it they wun believe me -
geesh you're learning..Originally posted by rainee:now dun u get funny ideas... -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:
See what I mean rainee?
U only child.. good la.. coz u know whatever it is..they worry for u coz u are the only one. N they will do whatever it is to protect u and always fear teh worst. Times have changed.. drugs are rampant.. girls go missing.. u know the stuff.. if i am ur oarents u are my only princess...HELL YEAH I WILL FREAK OUT!