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If it makes u happier.. think of the chinese workers n the banglas with no money..or working n earning like SHIET. U can do better.. its whether u want to or not !Originally posted by rainee:sigh...i wish i can do better...but now all evidence points towards otherwise...
ppl got good job over, and I am still wondering if I will ever get a job... -
Yeah...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Corrections.. how many surf SGGIRLS!
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thanks for the tip...Originally posted by BadzMaro:U leave because u feel uncomfrtable n u have just defeated urself. How can u stand up high , mighty n tall in other bigger things. Dun let this defeatist attitude strike u. Stay.. act natural.. be cool. Dun act all sour.. n dun go all kissing her @$$. Watch..learn..observe ..n remain.. cool..
right now I am keeping my cool...I keep my smile, but I know it is all pretense... -
Second question... do you easily get irritable and frustrated?Originally posted by rainee:a bit...
but right now I just feel inferior dats all...I feel like they are all very successful, but I am not...
Easily saddened with slight hurtful statement?
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Originally posted by rainee:thanks for the tip...
right now I am keeping my cool...I keep my smile, but I know it is all pretense... 
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I have a dream right now abt what I want to do in the future...but it is rather a long term dream...cos it wud need experience...and of cos money...so right now I am collecting money for it...hopefully it will come true in time...Originally posted by BadzMaro:If it makes u happier.. think of the chinese workers n the banglas with no money..or working n earning like SHIET. U can do better.. its whether u want to or not ! -
If it's feasible, anything is possible...Originally posted by rainee:I have a dream right now abt what I want to do in the future...but it is rather a long term dream...cos it wud need experience...and of cos money...so right now I am collecting money for it...hopefully it will come true in time...
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Originally posted by rainee:thanks for the tip...
right now I am keeping my cool...I keep my smile, but I know it is all pretense... 
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I get frustrated when I dun get what I strive for esp when I have tried very hard to achieve it...and that plus all the expectation and stress...sometimes really dunno how to get away to all of these...Originally posted by renorenal:Second question... do you easily get irritable and frustrated?
Easily saddened with slight hurtful statement?
Or treat a friendship as a more than a friendship kind of relationship?
Well, I will be saddened, but it wun be for long la, I will analyze what is being said...and see if there is truth behind it...
Hmm I dun get the friendship as more than a frenship kind of relationship... -
I am thinking of having my own tuition center...dats y I need to go and try teaching in a tuition center for maybe a few years first before opening one of my own...then my own one will have their own features la...to provide more interaction time between me and the students...cos I will always remember how helpless I feel when I need help for my studies but nobody to approach for help...dats y I want to go into this field...Originally posted by renorenal:If it's feasible, anything is possible... -
Ermm.. ok another few more questions...Originally posted by rainee:I get frustrated when I dun get what I strive for esp when I have tried very hard to achieve it...and that plus all the expectation and stress...sometimes really dunno how to get away to all of these...
Well, I will be saddened, but it wun be for long la, I will analyze what is being said...and see if there is truth behind it...
Hmm I dun get the friendship as more than a frenship kind of relationship...
Do you have any problems in expressing your emotions?
Are you easily influenced by ppl's suggestion or you would rather take your own stand?
...and finally, sorry for being blunt, but I can't think of anyway better to call it, are you an overdramatic person? -
We all have dreams. Some dreams will require sacrifices. Some dreams will require process steps to achieve it bit by bit in order to reach ur primary goal or objective. If u have the will power.. u will do it. Along the way u will recieve alot of hardship from aroud u or perhaps even within you too. To achieve greatness is never easy. The balance in gaining n losing is the way of life. So also becareful what u dream for..sometimes, certain dreams can never suit a person.. its like running against the wall. SO hopefully by experience n as time goes by.. u will grow wise in your decisions.Originally posted by rainee:I have a dream right now abt what I want to do in the future...but it is rather a long term dream...cos it wud need experience...and of cos money...so right now I am collecting money for it...hopefully it will come true in time... -
That's feasible... if you have before taught your juniors and helped them in their studies, be it during secondary school, college or uni, then you would have developed your own style of presenting your thoughts to others and whether your friends receive your style of teaching is acceptable and easy to understand...Originally posted by rainee:I am thinking of having my own tuition center...dats y I need to go and try teaching in a tuition center for maybe a few years first before opening one of my own...then my own one will have their own features la...to provide more interaction time between me and the students...cos I will always remember how helpless I feel when I need help for my studies but nobody to approach for help...dats y I want to go into this field...
Most ppl or students love associations... Relating what you know in a topic of learning to something you do in everyday life will enhance their memory, and is one method where I use to stimulate my juniors into recalling their stuffs better... perhaps you can use it as a tip for you too for your tuition center in future...
Malaysian papers STAR published yesterday that Malaysian parents would spend even RM 100 just to get their children to go to tuition centers... so profit and benefit is definitely there... -
\Originally posted by renorenal:Ermm.. ok another few more questions...
Do you have any problems in expressing your emotions?
Are you easily influenced by ppl's suggestion or you would rather take your own stand?
...and finally, sorry for being blunt, but I can't think of anyway better to call it, are you an overdramatic person?
Drama Queen... or those Korean love songs those dramatic ones..lol! DANG MAN!
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well, I dun really show my emotions to the people around me here now...cos I feel like they dun really understand me, and I cant really trust them after I saw what they have done to others (backstabbing and talking behind their back, revealing secrets, etc)...I only show it to my ai ai most of the time...and the ppl here, once I show the darker side of my emotions, I notice they will run away or just stop talking or try to change topic...like they want to see me happy rather than sad...so dats y now I just let them see this part of me, even tho most of the time it is just pretense...Originally posted by renorenal:Ermm.. ok another few more questions...
Do you have any problems in expressing your emotions?
Are you easily influenced by ppl's suggestion or you would rather take your own stand?
...and finally, sorry for being blunt, but I can't think of anyway better to call it, are you an overdramatic person?
I can take my own stand la, but sumtimes I do get influenced, depending on the issue. If it is sth I have already felt strongly abt, I will have my own opinion abt it and stick to it. Tho I might not voice it out la...
Erm, I am more quiet and withdrawn than dramatic I think...I take it that you mean dramatic as over-reacting? -
A dream driven by passion and the understanding of ones self and to better others... impressive he he.. i just go for the *mooolah $$$ sad to say... withouth money.. i will never achieve my dream..Originally posted by rainee:I am thinking of having my own tuition center...dats y I need to go and try teaching in a tuition center for maybe a few years first before opening one of my own...then my own one will have their own features la...to provide more interaction time between me and the students...cos I will always remember how helpless I feel when I need help for my studies but nobody to approach for help...dats y I want to go into this field... -
hehe thanks for the tip...I will practise it next timeOriginally posted by renorenal:That's feasible... if you have before taught your juniors and helped them in their studies, be it during secondary school, college or uni, then you would have developed your own style of presenting your thoughts to others and whether your friends receive your style of teaching is acceptable and easy to understand...
Most ppl or students love associations... Relating what you know in a topic of learning to something you do in everyday life will enhance their memory, and is one method where I use to stimulate my juniors into recalling their stuffs better... perhaps you can use it as a tip for you too for your tuition center in future...
Malaysian papers STAR published yesterday that Malaysian parents would spend even RM 100 just to get their children to go to tuition centers... so profit and benefit is definitely there...
well I do teach a bit when I was in high school...but ever since I got here, I started to feel inferior abt my own capability that I stop doing it already...dats y I want to gain experience by getting a job as a tuition teacher first when I go back...but dun tink my parents will agree...cos it is of no relation at all to what I am learning here... and of cos at first wun earn that much de... -
I was about to say that...Originally posted by BadzMaro:\
Drama Queen... or those Korean love songs those dramatic ones..lol! DANG MAN! -
Like many ppl, or all people.. no one can truly understand another person if he/she does not spend enough time with the person. Thats why , friends is friends , good friends , best friends n true friends.. as long as u know which is which..who is where.... then u know when n what to do .Originally posted by rainee:well, I dun really show my emotions to the people around me here now...cos I feel like they dun really understand me, and I cant really trust them after I saw what they have done to others (backstabbing and talking behind their back, revealing secrets, etc)...I only show it to my ai ai most of the time...and the ppl here, once I show the darker side of my emotions, I notice they will run away or just stop talking or try to change topic...like they want to see me happy rather than sad...so dats y now I just let them see this part of me, even tho most of the time it is just pretense...
I can take my own stand la, but sumtimes I do get influenced, depending on the issue. If it is sth I have already felt strongly abt, I will have my own opinion abt it and stick to it. Tho I might not voice it out la...
Erm, I am more quiet and withdrawn than dramatic I think...I take it that you mean dramatic as over-reacting? -
well of cos I do want the money, but I dun need an excessive amt of it ya know? I just need sufficient amount to be able to live comfortably with my family next time...Originally posted by BadzMaro:A dream driven by passion and the understanding of ones self and to better others... impressive he he.. i just go for the *mooolah $$$ sad to say... withouth money.. i will never achieve my dream..
It is more of the recognition of success...to know that I can carve a niche for myself in the future...to know that I can use it to help others...to know that I can make a difference not just in my own life but oso in others... -
Originally posted by rainee:
Yeah... something like that... you'd probably have been suppressed from outside... If they can't accept you for who you are, you should not change your personality to suit them...
well, I dun really show my emotions to the people around me here now...cos I feel like they dun really understand me, and I cant really trust them after I saw what they have done to others (backstabbing and talking behind their back, revealing secrets, etc)...I only show it to my ai ai most of the time...and the ppl here, once I show the darker side of my emotions, I notice they will run away or just stop talking or try to change topic...like they want to see me happy rather than sad...so dats y now I just let them see this part of me, even tho most of the time it is just pretense...
I can take my own stand la, but sumtimes I do get influenced, depending on the issue. If it is sth I have already felt strongly abt, I will have my own opinion abt it and stick to it. Tho I might not voice it out la...
Erm, I am more quiet and withdrawn than dramatic I think...I take it that you mean dramatic as over-reacting?
Try to be yourself, and if they start to avoid you for what they think its best for them, then they are unworthy to be called friends, but if they do that for the betterment of you, then you should reflect on how your real personality affects others around you... so far, I think it is the former... -
U gotta give the koreans A + + for thier over dramatic bs sometimes.. its ridiculously bs.. sometimes i felt like just dying when watching them .. lolOriginally posted by renorenal:I was about to say that... -
yea so now I just show them my "mask"..Originally posted by BadzMaro:Like many ppl, or all people.. no one can truly understand another person if he/she does not spend enough time with the person. Thats why , friends is friends , good friends , best friends n true friends.. as long as u know which is which..who is where.... then u know when n what to do . -
If you have confidence to talk and hide your mistakes or change topic, you definitely have the ability to be a teacher..Originally posted by rainee:hehe thanks for the tip...I will practise it next time
well I do teach a bit when I was in high school...but ever since I got here, I started to feel inferior abt my own capability that I stop doing it already...dats y I want to gain experience by getting a job as a tuition teacher first when I go back...but dun tink my parents will agree...cos it is of no relation at all to what I am learning here... and of cos at first wun earn that much de... -
A dream that is well worth it too. As long as u stay on course n dun falter during ur time n process from the roads to ur success... i have no doubt u will do well =) n ur dream will come true.. unless of course.. ur AIAI become Billionaire n well... u can jsut drop everything n just tell him to open a tuition center made ouf of gold for u HEHEHE!Originally posted by rainee:well of cos I do want the money, but I dun need an excessive amt of it ya know? I just need sufficient amount to be able to live comfortably with my family next time...
It is more of the recognition of success...to know that I can carve a niche for myself in the future...to know that I can use it to help others...to know that I can make a difference not just in my own life but oso in others...