how to treat them well when they called me at 7am, woke me up, woke my roomie up (which will cause me to get into trouble with my roomie later), and demand me to work their shifts for them? And if I say no because I am tired, they will sound as if I am obliged to work the shift for them?Originally posted by CoolMyth:To rainee, well, there is such a thing in psychology called self-fulfilling prophecy.
Peharps you haven't been too nice with the people around you, hence those people around don't treat you that well.![]()
Poor rainee....Originally posted by rainee:how to treat them well when they called me at 7am, woke me up, woke my roomie up (which will cause me to get into trouble with my roomie later), and demand me to work their shifts for them? And if I say no because I am tired, they will sound as if I am obliged to work the shift for them?
There was once I was told I was too nice to people, at the expense of my ownself. So now, I would like to know how to say no when I really mean that. I can't be saying yes all the time, yes, that would make me the Miss Nice Girl or whatever you wanna call it, but would I be truly happy?
it is not easy to get this kinda job...and i m earning reasonably well with very little work so I can study while I am working...before this I was working at a cafe, nice job environment, colleagues were friendly, boss don't really interfered with what we were doing...it was just great. Until the cafe became more and more well known and the customer base grew until I couldn't handle the job anymore. At the same time, I was offered this job, which is in the dorm I am living in and with a better wage, so I accepted it.Originally posted by BlUe G@rF|eLd:Poor rainee....![]()
Tink its time to find a new job liaoz.... an unhappy job with a lousy boss will destroy ur mood day by day, bits by bits wan...
thanks BearOriginally posted by the Bear:hey rainee.. cheer up
have a look at this.. it's about 8 minutes long but it gets more and more hilarious as it goes
click here => Sushi!
So troublesome.Originally posted by rainee:wa lau i never know ordering sushi in japan has such an elaborate custom de
/gives warm hugOriginally posted by alfagal:*alfagal jus signed in*
not having good day?Originally posted by alfagal:*hugs alex*
sigh..alex!........
quite quiet quiet quite quietOriginally posted by Pitot:today quiet quiet..![]()
no lar.. Its a long story..Originally posted by alexkusu:quite quiet quiet quite quiet
so, wats ur obssesion with toilets?
do u use those btw? ru physically challenged in any way?Originally posted by Pitot:no lar.. Its a long story..
nono, I'm not physically challenged in anyway..Originally posted by alexkusu:do u use those btw? ru physically challenged in any way?
one more week!Originally posted by alexkusu:not having good day?
sure ah? u didnt fell down the 20th floor or wat rite?Originally posted by Pitot:nono, I'm not physically challenged in anyway..![]()
good or not? scream loudly? or giggling? quite brave hor u.. not badOriginally posted by alfagal:one more week!
cant sleep yest...
was watching land of e dead till morn...