night alfa jie!!Originally posted by alfagal:okie guys..tired le..had some medications..makein me dizzy...no worries, not valium..its for my stomach...discomfort...
haha bit high in fact..
mei ar, go sleep soon okie?
lets hope for e best, n try to get reno back...its really wasted to see him leave lik this...
reno, if u are reading this...: hope u are fine
*alfagal has jus signed off*
nights alfa..take care.Originally posted by alfagal:okie guys..tired le..had some medications..makein me dizzy...no worries, not valium..its for my stomach...discomfort...
haha bit high in fact..
mei ar, go sleep soon okie?
lets hope for e best, n try to get reno back...its really wasted to see him leave lik this...
reno, if u are reading this...: hope u are fine
*alfagal has jus signed off*
Originally posted by alfagal:okie guys..tired le..had some medications..makein me dizzy...no worries, not valium..its for my stomach...discomfort...
haha bit high in fact..
mei ar, go sleep soon okie?
lets hope for e best, n try to get reno back...its really wasted to see him leave lik this...
reno, if u are reading this...: hope u are fine
*alfagal has jus signed off*
oh please do not give the government mroe reason to tax and plae needless obstacles in front of couples.......... cna you imagine a couple can't get married cos they are not studious??Originally posted by skeujin:someone shd write a good book bout bringing up teenagers.... n couples will have to sit for a written exam b4 they r allowed to have kids...
Originally posted by skeujin:those r great bt super illegal... instant jail term dude... after watching daredevil the movie i was dam tempted to get a pair from hatyai...![]()
all the ISO,SQC,PDA etc..sounds like we are running a factory and kids results are over-processed through the KPI and KRA analysis system.Originally posted by the Bear:what i am appalled at these days are schools who seem to want to "win awards" rather than educate students..
the school i live close to? i hear the damned principal reciting "Mr XX won the gold award in XXX, the school won the Silver Award for XXX award, the student won the silver in this award..."
as if they're going for the awards on purpose, instead of getting them because their education practises and programs are that good that they win awards..
basically, the art of parenting is a skill. being parents, it's still a nature for them to want their kids to do well. but the way to go about fulfilling it is another story.Originally posted by starblue:nope. not like that. main prob is both parents work. they feel that they do not spend enuff time in their kids, so try to compensate in other ways like giving in to them, or closing one eye etc....i have dealt with parents. trust me on that one.
i tried to be nice. i talked to them nicely, telling them things like, "i never looked down on u, so why are u looking down on yourself?" but it doesnt work. it is a self fulfilling prophesy. and some of them are bad cos they wan attention. it cannot be more obvious...Originally posted by LazerLordz:not to be discriminatory, but NT classes need specialised attention.Many of them have problems with self-esteem and actualization of pride, so they attain such sense of importance and security by displaying rebellious behavior so that their peers might accept them and look up to them for standing up and opposing the "oppressive" system.![]()
Rod or not, firmness in education and punishment must be present.And they cannot be seen to be playing good cop, bad cop too often.Originally posted by The Emperor:true. as parents, they should NEVER spare the rod. AGREE? i'll cok anyone's head if they disagree.![]()
i still think the parents (or rather, society at the very core) is to be blamed...Originally posted by The Emperor:basically, the art of parenting is a skill. being parents, it's still a nature for them to want their kids to do well. but the way to go about fulfilling it is another story.
if im not wrng. muslim couples have to sit thru some lesson b4 they can get married... i heard it from someone.. wonder how accurate itis...Originally posted by hisoka:oh please do not give the government mroe reason to tax and plae needless obstacles in front of couples.......... cna you imagine a couple can't get married cos they are not studious??
it doesn't work overnight.Don't worry, your frustration actually means you care.Or else, you would have just sat down and read a novel right?Originally posted by starblue:i tried to be nice. i talked to them nicely, telling them things like, "i never looked down on u, so why are u looking down on yourself?" but it doesnt work. it is a self fulfilling prophesy. and some of them are bad cos they wan attention. it cannot be more obvious...
sometimes i dunno if i should feel sorry for them, or feel angry for wad they did to me, or feel hopeless for singapore in general.
nites blue!Originally posted by starblue:i still think the parents (or rather, society at the very core) is to be blamed...
anyway, i also go sleep le... lucky tomolo no work ah.. lolz...
night every one!!
hmm... yea. punishments must be like the once i used to have back in skool.Originally posted by LazerLordz:Rod or not, firmness in education and punishment must be present.And they cannot be seen to be playing good cop, bad cop too often.
Originally posted by starblue:i still think the parents (or rather, society at the very core) is to be blamed...
anyway, i also go sleep le... lucky tomolo no work ah.. lolz...
night every one!!
i ended up getg a batman batarang w knife edges on the wing tips... made a fren vry happy as a bday pressie....Originally posted by the Bear:i have
i tried to be patient for a month. but the kids really tried me. i gave up loh.. just go in with straight face. shout at them for some order. if very bad, i went straight to DM's office. or complain to their form teacher (and she will give them extra work or stay back). they are not respectfuly of relief teachers at all, cos they are so used to them. -_-"Originally posted by LazerLordz:it doesn't work overnight.Don't worry, your frustration actually means you care.Or else, you would have just sat down and read a novel right?You tried to make a difference, so don't feel bad.
nitez LLOriginally posted by LazerLordz:well, here I go.
nights Bear ,skeujin, Emperor.
*staggers out*![]()