Originally posted by starblue:
people always say "love until it hurts". and it is utter rubbish. i say, if there is love, it shouldnt hurt. if it hurts, you shouldnt love.
Contrary to this belief of yours, love is both happiness and sadness. There are times you will be happy, but no couple has ever had only happy times all the time when they are in a r/s. There are bound to be quarrels and fights which will cause pain and hurt.
Does this mean they both love each other less? I don't think so. In the end, it is just abt two people being in a r/s, two people who have unique personalities and sometimes conflicting beliefs, and I believe it will be unhealthy if the couple just agree with each other all the time to avoid conflict.