~ Amore Dolce 28th ~
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I know the time, but I don't know it's raining.Originally posted by rainee:err, u do know it is 1am here? and it is raining outside.
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rainee, please dun do anything stupid. Surely you have seen dramas where something did happen to the poor gal. Think of your family, your friends and the effort you made in getting to where you are now. It's so totally not worth it.
To say things bluntly, someone might just feel happy if you did do something stupid.
Don't let him have a laugh at your plight right now. I now have the opinion that whatever you do now, won't catch his attention if that's what you were thinking. He probably doesn't care about you anymore. Hmph.
Be brave. Show that you can live fine and well without him. You don't need to show it to just him. Show it to your family, friends like us here. Now that you have shed your tears, there's no point in shedding any more tears. -
Ur best fren wun mind to see u in ur state now.. and i tink he/she would surely wan to help u deOriginally posted by rainee:I just dun wan them to see me in this state. -
haiz go and sleep then, in the middle of the night no wonder think of such thigns.Originally posted by rainee:err, u do know it is 1am here? and it is raining outside.
go sleep and tomorrow you will wake up bright and sunny -
No, I am not trying to catch attention.
I was just looking for an avenue to relieve my pain. Cos last time, I punched the wall and then I felt better. But this time, I did that and felt nothing. So I lost my mind and did something I know I shouldn't have. -
Throw it away bah. As I said, remove all traces of his existence from your memory.Originally posted by rainee:The only soft toy I have was the bear he gave me, and seriously now, I feel like stabbing the bear.
He probably did the same (or something similar) to the tie you gave him. -
Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Hmm, get yourself a soft toy. You won't have the heart to stab it. Talk to it, cuddle it or whatever.
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I already kept it inside mu cupboard of old stuff, away from my view.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Throw it away bah. As I said, remove all traces of his existence from your memory.
He probably did the same (or something similar) to the tie you gave him. -
Ur best fren can help u de i am sure
Anw me go off le
bb rainee take care -
tried sleeping liao, but cannot.Originally posted by hisoka:haiz go and sleep then, in the middle of the night no wonder think of such thigns.
go sleep and tomorrow you will wake up bright and sunny -
If you don't want, we can't force you. However, it would be recommended that you get someone who you really get along with to talk with him/her.Originally posted by rainee:I just dun wan them to see me in this state.
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nono dun keep lah keep means you got feeling for it. throw it away, distroy it and burn it or somethingOriginally posted by rainee:I already kept it inside mu cupboard of old stuff, away from my view.
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thank you...Originally posted by Qing^.^:Ur best fren can help u de i am sure
Anw me go off le
bb rainee take care
i dunno who is my best fren, dats the irony -
you should just throw it away ba..Originally posted by rainee:I already kept it inside mu cupboard of old stuff, away from my view.
keeping it will only reminds you of the pain.. -
Well, someday you gonna have to clear away all those stuff right? When the time comes, you'll feel the pain again.Originally posted by rainee:I already kept it inside mu cupboard of old stuff, away from my view.
Throw it away bah. Admit it, you know it, he's not ever coming back. -
Originally posted by Mao x 2:
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yes I know. I don't want him to come back. Cos it will be just be torturing myself again.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Well, someday you gonna have to clear away all those stuff right? When the time comes, you'll feel the pain again.
Throw it away bah. Admit it, you know it, he's not ever coming back. -
Oh yeah, come to think of it.
Are there any counsellors you can seek help from over there? Student help or something like that?
If you don't feel comfortable talking to your friends, you shall find one of those counsellors. I do think finding one will be really helpful. You just need a voice to guide you along right now. -
sigh...see how ba. Maybe I go donate it to one of my frens.Originally posted by Mao x 2:you should just throw it away ba..
keeping it will only reminds you of the pain.. -
Barbie doll taking revenge for Rainee..Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi: -
yeah... or give it to some kids also can..Originally posted by rainee:sigh...see how ba. Maybe I go donate it to one of my frens. -
Keeping it away from your view is running away from the problem. Try facing it. Stab the bear if you want to. It will make you feel better.Originally posted by rainee:I already kept it inside mu cupboard of old stuff, away from my view. -
No, no, no. You give to your fren, then all sorts of things can still happen.Originally posted by rainee:sigh...see how ba. Maybe I go donate it to one of my frens.
Dump it in the bin. Wave bye bye to the rubbish truck.
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i went to a counsellor when i broke up with my first ex...then need to pay some more...and didnt really help me...Originally posted by CoolMyth:Oh yeah, come to think of it.
Are there any counsellors you can seek help from over there? Student help or something like that?
If you don't feel comfortable talking to your friends, you shall find one of those counsellors. I do think finding one will be really helpful. You just need a voice to guide you along right now. -
This is sneaky. Even counselling is not free, though you're a student there?Originally posted by rainee:i went to a counsellor when i broke up with my first ex...then need to pay some more...and didnt really help me...