when the past comes back to haunt
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just when you thought/feel that you have it all behind you, somethng happens and brings with it all the memories/emotions and makes you all confused if not irritated. anyone has this sort of experience?
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always...
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how do you deal with it then?Originally posted by browniebaobao:always... -
let it just happen
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usually i end up in tears.. cry till tired le i sleep..Originally posted by starblue:how do you deal with it then? -
this sounds very familiar..... i have a fren who happens to be a girl who broke up with his boyfren cos he was two timing her.Her friend have this party n invited both her n e ex boyfren.... so become very akward situation.... but this fren also jia lat.... my fren ask her not to invite him liao...strike him off e list but she dun want..... in e end...everyone uncomfortable.
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cry?? no lah, not that serious. i wun cry over a guy again.... or at least, i wun cry over him again...Originally posted by browniebaobao:usually i end up in tears.. cry till tired le i sleep.. -
haiz....Originally posted by harryryan:this sounds very familiar..... i have a fren who happens to be a girl who broke up with his boyfren cos he was two timing her.Her friend have this party n invited both her n e ex boyfren.... so become very akward situation.... but this fren also jia lat.... my fren ask her not to invite him liao...strike him off e list but she dun want..... in e end...everyone uncomfortable. -
ke lian rite? n e fren dun seem to understand althou she knows wat happened..... heng i m not involved...lolx...i m onli e listening ear... cannot imagine how akward it must be at e partyOriginally posted by starblue:haiz....
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haiz....Originally posted by harryryan:ke lian rite? n e fren dun seem to understand althou she knows wat happened..... heng i m not involved...lolx...i m onli e listening ear... cannot imagine how akward it must be at e party -
i always tell myself i wun.. but then i still do..Originally posted by starblue:cry?? no lah, not that serious. i wun cry over a guy again.... or at least, i wun cry over him again...
when the heart really pain.. it's really hard to control the tears. -
ha ha.... ur ko tou chan is haiz?Originally posted by starblue:haiz.... -
Something happen?
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ha ha...we were discussing e past coming back to haunt.... was just sharing my fren's experience 2 years ago....Originally posted by CoolMyth:Something happen? -
well... er... it's nothing big really. i dunno why it's affecting me also... see, i just found the ring which he gave me three years ago, which i lost two plus years ago. and.... well, i just tot and felt everything's settled and past. but recently i dunno... it seems that maybe i havent really gotten over it. there was once in my computing class i saw this guy who looks really like him and when i saw him, i felt my heart skip a beat. then when i found the ring, i dunno. it's all just so....unexpected.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Something happen? -
As Mr Fugue always says:Originally posted by starblue:well... er... it's nothing big really. i dunno why it's affecting me also... see, i just found the ring which he gave me three years ago, which i lost two plus years ago. and.... well, i just tot and felt everything's settled and past. but recently i dunno... it seems that maybe i havent really gotten over it. there was once in my computing class i saw this guy who looks really like him and when i saw him, i felt my heart skip a beat. then when i found the ring, i dunno. it's all just so....unexpected.
It's destined.
Just take note of it. No need to think too much.
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haiz...me oso...
like I can suddenly talk to my frens here and she can bring up what had happened between me and my crush...and told me things I never realized before...and I get all flustered again...
Maybe like you, I am not over him yet -
hmmm..Originally posted by starblue:well... er... it's nothing big really. i dunno why it's affecting me also... see, i just found the ring which he gave me three years ago, which i lost two plus years ago. and.... well, i just tot and felt everything's settled and past. but recently i dunno... it seems that maybe i havent really gotten over it. there was once in my computing class i saw this guy who looks really like him and when i saw him, i felt my heart skip a beat. then when i found the ring, i dunno. it's all just so....unexpected.
maybe u hv not really gotten over him completely ba? it might hv been the past but u hv not let it go completely?
juz come to terms w/ it n continue on ur journey to recovery lor.. there will come a day where the things he gave u or even if he appears rite in front of u n u will not be affected.. tt's when u r very sure it is over -
i dunno leh. i've always thought i've gotten over him. it's over a year since the last time i saw him face to face. and 6 months since he last smsed me... and well.. i like another guy now wad.... haiz.. i dunno lah. i guess i'll just sleep over it see how.Originally posted by hopy:hmmm..
maybe u hv not really gotten over him completely ba? it might hv been the past but u hv not let it go completely?
juz come to terms w/ it n continue on ur journey to recovery lor.. there will come a day where the things he gave u or even if he appears rite in front of u n u will not be affected.. tt's when u r very sure it is over -
humans r complex creatures.. u said u thout tt u r over him due to the lack of contact.. but isit really over in ur heart? hv u really come to terms tt it is really over n bygones shld be bygones?Originally posted by starblue:i dunno leh. i've always thought i've gotten over him. it's over a year since the last time i saw him face to face. and 6 months since he last smsed me... and well.. i like another guy now wad.... haiz.. i dunno lah. i guess i'll just sleep over it see how.
the best way to gauge tt u hv gotten over the r/s is to be able to face ur ex as a frd w/o the slightest feeling of a BGR ba?
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Bury it deep, real deep......
Avoid all contact, throw away all the photos, delete all previous emails, never re-visit the places we've been, change phone number, change address, change email, change job and go away for a few years...that's how I handle it anyway.. -
this part sounds VERY familiar ehOriginally posted by harryryan:this sounds very familiar..... i have a fren who happens to be a girl who broke up with his boyfren cos he was two timing her.Her friend have this party n invited both her n e ex boyfren.... so become very akward situation.... but this fren also jia lat.... my fren ask her not to invite him liao...strike him off e list but she dun want..... in e end...everyone uncomfortable. -
o.OOriginally posted by oxford mushroom:Bury it deep, real deep......
Avoid all contact, throw away all the photos, delete all previous emails, never re-visit the places we've been, change phone number, change address, change email, change job and go away for a few years...that's how I handle it anyway..
but i really never een think about him in a long time le leh... living my life as it is now, having a new crush and all.... dunno why everytime things about him pop up, i get a bit flustered. -_-" i hate not being able to control it. -
runs his chin.... mmmm... interesting.....
