about forgiving
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my mum once said to me, "in this world, there is nothing you cannot forgive."
but i am skeptical.
what kind of thing(s), when done to you by your friends/family, can you never forgive?? as in REALLY will NEVER be able to forgive, no matter how much time has past. -
yes i can be sure of 1 thing that a girl will nvr be able to forgive and that is the own father raping her at a young age. can u forgive that if it happened to u?
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sometimes u cannot forgive now... but u will learn to forgive later. By not forgiven will give urself that unnessecery burden , the pain and the feeling that u always remember especially the pain caused. The difference with people that can forgive n ppl that will never forget is veyr different lo.Originally posted by starblue:my mum once said to me, "in this world, there is nothing you cannot forgive."
but i am skeptical.
what kind of thing(s), when done to you by your friends/family, can you never forgive?? as in REALLY will NEVER be able to forgive, no matter how much time has past. -
maro you're grostequely out of point. answer to the qn. -
rape my @ss or sell me off to cambodia.Originally posted by starblue: maro you're grostequely out of point. answer to the qn.
I used to never forgive my parents for sending me off to NZ to survive on myself man! I swear i was thinking of coming back n giving them a piece of my fists. h he
thats family la..
but for friends... 1 backstab.. n forever i will NEVER NEVER!!! forgive... like how i was sent to the SLAMMERS because of that Judas! until today.. if i see him.. i will break him. -
cannot forgive my ex.
i duno...
forgiven him once.. and later i discovered some things..
that made me so hard to forgive..
coz i feel deceived. -
if you live long enuff and meet enuff things everything can be forgiven. becuase after 1000 years and countless things you have endured, anything would be insignificant
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like that confirm they will not forgive...Originally posted by hisoka:if you live long enuff and meet enuff things everything can be forgiven. becuase after 1000 years and countless things you have endured, anything would be insignificant
coz reaching thier 1/10 of the 1000 yr limit... i am sure they alreayd 6 feet underground liaw -
the thing is are u REALLY able to live that long? the average lifespan of singaporeans tend to be at the age of 70-80. and i bet there still will be some things that u cant forgive by this age.Originally posted by hisoka:if you live long enuff and meet enuff things everything can be forgiven. becuase after 1000 years and countless things you have endured, anything would be insignificant -
I forgive, but I NEVER forget.
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the rationale is based on possibility of living so long which means you can forgive anything if the conditions are right.Originally posted by boredandsleepy:the thing is are u REALLY able to live that long? the average lifespan of singaporeans tend to be at the age of 70-80. and i bet there still will be some things that u cant forgive by this age.
of course the 1k years is an exageration, but just pointing out that something that seems unforgiving and super offensive now may not seem that bad after a period of time. not to mention exonerating conditions liek the person making up for it or your social conditioning being changed -
Actually we can live past 1000 de... our bodies and our mind LIMIT ourselves. U must be able to trancend beyond this thoughts.. the body n mind as one n u will outlive those that limit u~Originally posted by hisoka:the rationale is based on possibility of living so long which means you can forgive anything if the conditions are right.
of course the 1k years is an exageration, but just pointing out that something that seems unforgiving and super offensive now may not seem that bad after a period of time. not to mention exonerating conditions liek the person making up for it or your social conditioning being changed -
take my 1st post in this tread for an example.
are u able to forgive ur own dad if that happened to u?
its just an example and nth of that sort happened to me
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ur example is irrelevant and has no sunstantial facts in what u are saying. The question is.. Will u Forgive ur dad if he @ss raped u... WILL U ?Originally posted by boredandsleepy:take my 1st post in this tread for an example.
are u able to forgive ur own dad if that happened to u?
its just an example and nth of that sort happened to me -
i would have his dick chopped into pieces and condemn him from my life if that really happened to me. in this kind of situation, forgive is not found in my dictionary.Originally posted by BadzMaro:ur example is irrelevant and has no sunstantial facts in what u are saying. The question is.. Will u Forgive ur dad if he @ss raped u... WILL U ? -
what if you live in a society where its a norm to rape your children? will you be able to forgive him then?Originally posted by boredandsleepy:take my 1st post in this tread for an example.
are u able to forgive ur own dad if that happened to u?
its just an example and nth of that sort happened to me -
o.k.. but at least he left ur virginity ma.. so its not AS bad as raping u right ? at least its in the @ss.. so does it count as lesser damage ?Originally posted by boredandsleepy:i would have his dick chopped into pieces and condemn him from my life if that really happened to me. in this kind of situation, forgive is not found in my dictionary. -
Originally posted by hisoka:what if you live in a society where its a norm to rape your children? will you be able to forgive him then? i definately would not like that to happen.
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u think this is like the Solomons Island ar..Originally posted by hisoka:what if you live in a society where its a norm to rape your children? will you be able to forgive him then? 
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hisoka, y not u come back to reality of what this world is now, and think if u were @ss raped by ur father, would u forgive him?
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the thing is.. my dear...mmm... how should i call u.. B.S 'bored n sleepy' that in reality , Solomons Island raping is rampant , that there is nothing u can do as there is no death penalty or what soever in rape cases. I have know Chinese tycoon's daughter even being raped in front of them in coffee houses that has scared her for life. N hence now she is unmarried but a veyr good lawyer in Aus.Originally posted by boredandsleepy:hisoka, y not u come back to reality of what this world is now, and think if u were @ss raped by ur father, would u forgive him? -
woahh that is something i do not know of...
i'm gonna avoid that sickening island. -
can we stop with the raping already? i agree with the who that it's very inforgivable if a father rapes his daughter.
now, why dun we brainstorm on things u feel are also unforgivable, for an entire lifetime.
hisoka, i'm pretty sure SOME things just cant be forgiven. it doesnt have to be as big as a rape. something that seems insignificant to another may well be one of the things u personally cannot forgive. -
I am a firm believer of "let bygones be bygones".
No point hating someone forever cause you cannot forgot what that person did to you.
Maybe it's because I'm too soft-hearted. -
high 5Originally posted by CoolMyth:I am a firm believer of "let bygones be bygones".
No point hating someone forever cause you cannot forgot what that person did to you.
Maybe it's because I'm too soft-hearted.
usually a sleep solves all grudges for me