What do you find the most challenging in a r/s?

• BadzMaro

  5 Sep 06, 08:46

  mmmm.....
• rainee

  5 Sep 06, 10:00

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  wah wah
  
  word overload

  
  
  thread is indeed turning a bit "chim" oledi
• rainee

  5 Sep 06, 10:02

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  same as u.
  
  how to handle the differences in opinion, how to have arguments and yet once the argument is over, smile at each other.

  Yup...I am most afraid of cold war...u know when after u argue then the other party just totally ignore u? Then like u wan to discuss and apologize oso cannot... Really a torture...
  
  Luckily havent had that yet so far
• NeverSayGoodBye

  5 Sep 06, 11:36

  Originally posted by rainee:

  
  
  thread is indeed turning a bit "chim" oledi

  .....not "chim" not "chim" the posts here more insightful and sensible
  
  ..... what's your view on this........As usual over some beer on saturday, one of my friend told us he saw in his close female friend's(not steady yet) blog. She wrote" I am so happy. Don't know when this will last. BUT if it last i will be very happy.'' "It's been a long long long time since she felt so love and care for by someone. The feeling is priceless and indescribeable."
  
  I told him she had fallen in love with him already. Girls' view?
• alexkusu

  5 Sep 06, 11:41

  no clue
  
  \(._.)/
• rainee

  5 Sep 06, 12:39

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....not "chim" not "chim" the posts here more insightful and sensible
  
  ..... what's your view on this........As usual over some beer on saturday, one of my friend told us he saw in his close female friend's(not steady yet) blog. She wrote" I am so happy. Don't know when this will last. BUT if it last i will be very happy.'' "It's been a long long long time since she felt so love and care for by someone. The feeling is priceless and indescribeable."
  
  I told him she had fallen in love with him already. Girls' view?

  hmm, it is better to ask her? Cos she might be writing abt someone else who is causing her to be dat happy?
  
  It is always best not to make assumption. If in doubts, ask the person in question
• choco B

  5 Sep 06, 12:42

  I wouldn't use the L word but she's happy in the relationship and would like to see it develop further. It's a strong affirmation I think
  

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... what's your view on this........As usual over some beer on saturday, one of my friend told us he saw in his close female friend's(not steady yet) blog. She wrote" I am so happy. Don't know when this will last. BUT if it last i will be very happy.'' "It's been a long long long time since she felt so love and care for by someone. The feeling is priceless and indescribeable."
  
  I told him she had fallen in love with him already. Girls' view?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  5 Sep 06, 13:38

  Originally posted by rainee:

  hmm, it is better to ask her? Cos she might be writing abt someone else who is causing her to be dat happy?
  
  It is always best not to make assumption. If in doubts, ask the person in question

  ..... no doubt is about him
• NeverSayGoodBye

  5 Sep 06, 13:41

  Originally posted by choco B:

  I wouldn't use the L word but she's happy in the relationship and would like to see it develop further. It's a strong affirmation I think
  

  .....i supposed so
• rainee

  5 Sep 06, 13:41

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... no doubt is about him

  then i think he stands a good chance liao
• NeverSayGoodBye

  5 Sep 06, 13:49

  Originally posted by rainee:

  then i think he stands a good chance liao

  .....i think so too, well let him decide what he is going to do, we just give him some support
• NeverSayGoodBye

  5 Sep 06, 14:13

  .....Is it alright for a guy to ask his close female friend whether their friendship got the potential to move up one level, that means more than friend. Will the girl feel offended by asking this?
• -[0]-

  9 Sep 06, 03:40

  Originally posted by rainee:

  Yup...I am most afraid of cold war...u know when after u argue then the other party just totally ignore u? Then like u wan to discuss and apologize oso cannot... Really a torture...
  
  Luckily havent had that yet so far

  Ya... I agree.
  
  Not just cold wars. It's bad enough when my gf has to tell me not to call her straight in my face. Then I have to wait for a day or two before she can reply me. Sometimes, it can be weeks!
  
  Sigh... sometimes some girls can be a little petty.