how cn i save myself?

• jacie88

  13 Feb 07, 12:43

  me n tiz guy likes each other.. bt he has gt brain tumour.. it's vry serious.. e doc in sg arrange for him to go uk for further treatment.. he promise me tt he'll come back.. bt he didnt took e plane to uk.. he said he couldnt make it to uk.. i hope tt i cn accompany him for e rest of e tym he haf for nw.. bt he dun allow me to do so.. he dun wan me to c him die.. so i ask for only 1 dae wif him.. i'm so sad.. n realli dunno wat to do.. how cn i save myself frm tiz sadness?
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Feb 07, 12:50

  Tell him that his problem is your problem. You two will go through this problem together. Tell him you want to be with him every moment from NOW. Hold his hand tight and lie on his chest. Say I love you. Hug him tightly to give him care and love.
  
  Take care worx.
• allentyb

  13 Feb 07, 13:16

  i feel sad reading this post
• iveco

  13 Feb 07, 13:19

  SHouldn't this be in AA? Anyway, it sounds like good material for K-drama scripters.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  13 Feb 07, 13:32

  ..... If you think it is a big burden to shoulder yourself, try to get your closed friends or his friends/families to assist you. You need to be strong and remain calm, or else he will be feeling guilty and wouldn't want you to get near him. Try to get councelling assistane from the hospital that had treated him, as this hospital normally has wide network of support groups. At least you are sensibled, you knew you got to save yourself first in order to help your boyfriend. Death is a very sensitive subject to different people, get outside help if possible.
  
  .....Be strong for your boyfriend and Be there for him during this difficult time of his life. You take care too......
• Pitot

  13 Feb 07, 16:52

  I'm sorry, but i think that he is lying.
  
  the not going to UK part gives it away.
  
  seen to many of the other cases to know its fake. maybe u can prove me wrong.
• thelesis

  13 Feb 07, 16:56

  How old are you anyway? you sounds so young...
• CoolMyth

  13 Feb 07, 22:01

  Identity 99% verified. Not autheticated though.
• Ito_^

  13 Feb 07, 22:04

  no offence, i think its fake. how long and well you know this person? have you spoke with his family members? have he seen your family or parents? have you spoke with his doctor? can he describe his medical condition in details? or maybe the treatment he had?
• the Bear

  13 Feb 07, 22:10

  make it a happy day... and remember the happy times..
  
  it is hard but give the guy one good day for him to take to eternity with him
  
  sometimes, when life deals you lemons, make lemonade..
  
  and somewhere in there, you can be assured that you have made a difference.. find joy and solace in that
  
  be well yah?
  
• allentyb

  13 Feb 07, 23:59

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  no offence, i think its fake. how long and well you know this person? have you spoke with his family members? have he seen your family or parents? have you spoke with his doctor? can he describe his medical condition in details? or maybe the treatment he had?

  Ito_^, be nice
• Ito_^

  14 Feb 07, 00:02

  Originally posted by allentyb:

  Ito_^, be nice

  i not saying TS fake, i refering to the guy but dats just my assumption. nice words the others can provide, but some questions still have to be asked..
• BadzMaro

  14 Feb 07, 12:18

  Question!
  
  Why is this thread in Starblue's Heaven ? he he