but having a partner doesn't always mean there WILL be someone there when you need him/her...Originally posted by ChoCoChips:well, single can be good la.
but sometimes, when u're sad, or feeling like crying, u can only cry to yourself and comfort yourself, there'll be nobody to share it with you or make u feel better. hmmm.
city harvest church huhOriginally posted by soulwinner:What so bad about being single..
maybe spend time in sgforums go come to my church to find GF or BF...
hmmm... but why cant you go to some friend to cry and get comfort from?Originally posted by ChoCoChips:well, single can be good la.
but sometimes, when u're sad, or feeling like crying, u can only cry to yourself and comfort yourself, there'll be nobody to share it with you or make u feel better. hmmm.
ermz... wait a min.... where in this thread did i say i dun wanna be single??? my issue is not "OMFG!! i'm single!! what to do? what to do? /runs around in a panic"Originally posted by soulwinner:What so bad about being single..
maybe spend time in sgforums go come to my church to find GF or BF...
actually, i used to believe in that strongly. that nothing in this world lasts forever. and if so, why start something that you know will definitely change someday.Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:i always wonder... how long can it last if u start a rs now..
do i have to face her for the nx 50yrs?? if not, den y waste the time to hv a rs now when u know that it wun last forever..
LOL.. im thinking too much..
so lets start a transient relationship and hope it can last as long as possibleOriginally posted by starblue:actually, i used to believe in that strongly. that nothing in this world lasts forever. and if so, why start something that you know will definitely change someday.
but now, i've thought through that and came to the conclusion that if i stuck to that philosophy, then i'll never get started on anything at all. so now i just chuck that very dis-equilibrating philosophy to the back of my mind.
but i must admit it still comes out to haunt me from time to time. but it's nice to know someone feels the same way i did.
Oneday. if I'm into a rs, I will try to give her all the best I can and treat her with tlc. But what I'm afraid of is it might not last.Originally posted by starblue:actually, i used to believe in that strongly. that nothing in this world lasts forever. and if so, why start something that you know will definitely change someday.
but now, i've thought through that and came to the conclusion that if i stuck to that philosophy, then i'll never get started on anything at all. so now i just chuck that very dis-equilibrating philosophy to the back of my mind.
but i must admit it still comes out to haunt me from time to time. but it's nice to know someone feels the same way i did.
Precisely..Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:Oneday. if I'm into a rs, I will try to give her all the best I can and treat her with tlc. But what I'm afraid of is it might not last.
Meaning, I have to find someone else again if it happens. And I have to do everything over again. If I put in my 101% for the first time, I just don't have the energy to give the same amount of effort for the second time.
In other words, I'm LAZY.
And I knew that if I keep on having this mentality, I will remain a loner forever.