Getting married now or later .

• BadzMaro

  24 Mar 07, 16:54

  Been a while i topic! Anyways , this just came into my mind. Actually it has been lingering for sometime now. Pros n Cons getting married right now , or later.
  
  Some say getting married now , means at least you wont be too old like 60 when ur kids only 10. And what if u suddenly die how about ur wife etc etc ? N also still having to work n earn n support ur kid when u are 60.
  
  Or get married now , waste my life away with the only woman i will ever be with , dont say waste la..he he.. shackled to the chains n balls now. Having to deal with family finances etc etc. The plus side , is if u got kids , at least ur parents are still able to care for them. N they Love to be grandparents. so how ?
  
  What you guys think of this marriage. Ever wondered ? Pondered what , when , how n why ?
  
  I know some friends that gave up marriage when they 35 , saying too old liaw.. later kids have to suffer n he has to suffer to work past pension. he he. So he choses to be come a sugar daddy. Like i hope to be like him , just that i am married N sugar daddy. kidding.. input input ppls!
• Quinsy

  24 Mar 07, 17:09

  Input..+1.
  
  You're married. SO why think so much?
• BadzMaro

  24 Mar 07, 17:24

  i not married la..
  
  thats why i ask ma
• monoslayer

  24 Mar 07, 17:56

  Marry a good man, and have good children.
• shinta

  24 Mar 07, 18:02

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  Marry a good man, and have good children.

  
• BadzMaro

  24 Mar 07, 18:34

  yes... marry a good man.. that can love me n care for me the way only another man can... thanks guys.
• Darkness_hacker99

  24 Mar 07, 18:42

  I think it's not about age but financial situation.
• BadzMaro

  24 Mar 07, 19:30

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  I think it's not about age but financial situation.

  Well.. age too. marry old. means u die faster. younger kids..
• alexkusu

  25 Mar 07, 15:51

  lu thinking bout kids or marriage?
  there is always live in gf or gfs and adoption..tiok bor
  
  

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  Well.. age too. marry old. means u die faster. younger kids..

• monoslayer

  25 Mar 07, 15:53

  i oso wanna get married. saving $$$ now.
• kin0

  25 Mar 07, 16:09

  Yes, I agree that it is not about age but rather our financial situation. That why it takes planning.
• BadzMaro

  25 Mar 07, 22:04

  but rich and old also not good ma. If financial is REALLY the big problem also , then how come so many plp get married even when thier financial situation is not as good ?
• Moon Pixie

  25 Mar 07, 22:10

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  but rich and old also not good ma. If financial is REALLY the big problem also , then how come so many plp get married even when thier financial situation is not as good ?

  It's love.
• monoslayer

  25 Mar 07, 22:13

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  It's love.

  u cant survive on love alone.
• rainee

  26 Mar 07, 12:31

  depends on the progress of the r/s...and also the financial stability of both parties...
  
  like if you are very sure this is the person you will want to spend your life with, then at this point marriage is worth a consideration...
  
  then you will have to consider whether you are ready to provide for a family, whether both parties already have a stable career etc..
• BadzMaro

  26 Mar 07, 17:39

  what if u are forced to marry. he he..
  
  like maybe if u marry , u get big house , shop lots , money for investments , but u get married now. Like.. now. But ur wife-to-be doesnt want to stay in Malaysia. how ?
  should marry for the moola?
• Lance_han

  27 Mar 07, 13:24

  Okay .. assuming one does marry for the money, let's just say, what happens when the money is gone?
• rainee

  27 Mar 07, 14:02

  Originally posted by Lance_han:

  Okay .. assuming one does marry for the money, let's just say, what happens when the money is gone?

  divorce lor
• crofty

  27 Mar 07, 14:04

  Follow your heart..
• BadzMaro

  27 Mar 07, 18:11

  thats when i make sure i use the money properly n make sure it stays ?
  
  he he..
  
  but more or so is the fact that she doesnt want to stay MY , n right now , i have lots of things to do here. Lots of money opportunities .. so i not planning to drop n just leave man!
  
  n i think its more of the grandchild issue also. mmmm
• BadzMaro

  27 Mar 07, 18:15

  Originally posted by crofty:

  Follow your heart..

  like that i confirm go with the money.
• MooKu

  27 Mar 07, 18:44

  if u have the money, she can stay elsewhere then u fly here fly there loh
• rainee

  27 Mar 07, 18:48

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  thats when i make sure i use the money properly n make sure it stays ?
  
  he he..
  
  but more or so is the fact that she doesnt want to stay MY , n right now , i have lots of things to do here. Lots of money opportunities .. so i not planning to drop n just leave man!
  
  n i think its more of the grandchild issue also. mmmm

  ur parents pressuring u to marry ah?
  
  where is she from anyway?
• BadzMaro

  28 Mar 07, 20:43

  Originally posted by rainee:

  ur parents pressuring u to marry ah?
  
  where is she from anyway?

  yalo..
  
  cause my older bro too busy with hot chicks he cant settle down. LoL My older sister wanna concentrate work first now going to a firm in UK..
  
  then i am next in line to ' Shen Gui Zhi' he he.. lol!
  
  oh she from NZ.
• Lance_han

  3 Apr 07, 23:36

  Originally posted by rainee:

  divorce lor

  Cannot so cruel la .. you need to think about the other party le.