if you want to put a past behind you....
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would u bury all the items (letters, gifts, any manner of momento) related to that past in an abscure, locked for eternity drawer?
or would u throw them away?
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the past is behind me but most of the stuff is still in a drawer in my room..
it's my past.. it has shaped my present... and it reminds me to be a better person as i hope i've learnt from the mistakes i've made
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when u kept the stuff in that drawer, have u already "moved on"? or were u still in the process of "moving on"?Originally posted by the Bear:the past is behind me but most of the stuff is still in a drawer in my room..
it's my past.. it has shaped my present... and it reminds me to be a better person as i hope i've learnt from the mistakes i've made
will keeping the stuff while u attempt to move on affect u in any way? -
combination of packrat and sloth..
it's there.. they're still all right.. not good to throw out since they're still pretty okay...
have moved on.. but don't really know what to do with the stuff...
so i leave it be...
and sometimes i see it, i smile and remember the good times, and am reminded that i should be a better person..
i'm strange that wayOriginally posted by starblue:when u kept the stuff in that drawer, have u already "moved on"? or were u still in the process of "moving on"?
will keeping the stuff while u attempt to move on affect u in any way? -
I think this kind of thread was posted before.
Anyways , nicely packed up n put away should be the way. Throw can throw anytime... its just a matter of now or next time. -
i wont throw away... that are the only memories... may it be good or bad... still wan them to be with me always..
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I still take those things and look at it from time to time.
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i still have the notebook from my ex. inside theres 50 reasons why she loved me
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wow... really? wad kinda things? can share share?Originally posted by CoolMyth:I still take those things and look at it from time to time. 
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hmmmm.... this makes a lot of sense, i suppose.....Originally posted by BadzMaro:I think this kind of thread was posted before.
Anyways , nicely packed up n put away should be the way. Throw can throw anytime... its just a matter of now or next time. -
i'm thinking of... u know... passing them to my best pal, to do whatever it is she wants....
i wonder if that is wise.... -
Photos lor...generally...Originally posted by starblue:wow... really? wad kinda things? can share share?
I have a container full of those paper hearts long time ago, but forgot where I put it and think lost it when moving house.
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ah... i see....Originally posted by CoolMyth:Photos lor...generally...
I have a container full of those paper hearts long time ago, but forgot where I put it and think lost it when moving house.
paper hearts huh? that.... sounds familiar.... -
it really depends...somethings tat i really like, and i cant bear to throw i will keep.
but its not cos of e person who gave it to me, but cos i really like e stuff..
others, e.g photos, letters, i'd throw them away..
cos it doesnt mean a thing to me already.. -
I'll let the memories be kept in a small corner of my heart. Material-wise, I'll occasionally take out and see..
Don't be sad because it has past, be glad that it happened. -
mine's ontop my cupboard......kinda covered with dust, it took me a cool 2 years before looking at them......
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the past...its all in my mind.
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some threw away. some bury. some return. none kept. that time de heartbreak was excruciating so did silly stuff. no point keeping them anyway. if the memories were good. keep lo. if the memories sucked, better just throw and forget, so can start anew.
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I keep throwing things away.
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whoa, that's so touching..Originally posted by brokenluv:i still have the notebook from my ex. inside theres 50 reasons why she loved me
won't you cry when you read it?
damn, that feeling sucks.. -
am a loner...
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dun feel this way...ur turn will come
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No i wun throw em away, let time heal.
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i used to have a small note from my favourie girl, but den kena curry zup, den i throw away liao.
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in the end, i decided to give them to a close friend of mine... until now, i still don't know what she did with those things... and i don't need to know.