++The 81 Wishes for Everyone Crapbox++

• alfagal

  22 Sep 09, 17:16

  lol..nvm lar still handsome lar..

• Pitot

  25 Sep 09, 21:40

  i am home liao it only moved 1 page wah lao!!!!!!!!

• mystiv

  25 Sep 09, 22:06

  at least it moved 

• alfagal

  26 Sep 09, 13:40

  i've found a job!

  working HR related job at a US bank...only for a few mths contract though...sigh

• BadzMaro

  26 Sep 09, 13:55

  o o o ! he he not bad la. at least got some work to do lo

• alfagal

  26 Sep 09, 14:03

  yeah lor

   

• oxford mushroom

  26 Sep 09, 20:24

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  i've found a job!

  working HR related job at a US bank...only for a few mths contract though...sigh

  
  Congrats!

  Just back from an overseas trip...dead tired.

   

• alfagal

  26 Sep 09, 20:34

  wow..went overseas!!

  my legs are itching haha...have a good rest

• starblue

  28 Sep 09, 14:05

  oh wow... i didn't think i'd still be able to log in... they really should do the screening thing to weed out forumers who haven't been using the forum for  a long time..

  how are u people eh??

• alfagal

  28 Sep 09, 22:04

  wow......welcome home starblue!

• hisoka

  30 Sep 09, 21:51

  wah bluey is back! What you've been busy with?

• ndmmxiaomayi

  1 Oct 09, 22:53

  It finally moved...

  Another 2 colleagues leaving sia... company not hiring some more. Now almost doing triple work.

  Very siong...

• mystiv

  1 Oct 09, 23:14

  time to complain to MOM 

• hisoka

  2 Oct 09, 09:37

  Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:

  It finally moved...

  Another 2 colleagues leaving sia... company not hiring some more. Now almost doing triple work.

  Very siong...

  time to move on? you've been in the job for a significant amount of time already anyway.

• Pitot

  2 Oct 09, 22:20

  back. was revising some test topics with my friend just now.

   

  i got about 2 weeks of leave to clear soon. i plan to fly to visit someone special.

  but then i could not contact her because she is busy having fun due to the 1 week public holiday. then when i asked why is she ignoring my msgs and calls, i get the reply that i am irritating and wants to end it all because she doesnt wants to report everyday.

   

  wow. she doesnt know that she is my only form of sanity after everyday. a simple msg or 5 mins conversation would keep me sane.

   

  But she actually finds it a chore.

   

  I just replied i only wanted to inform you that i can fly over soon to visit. forget it.

   

   

• Pitot

  2 Oct 09, 23:55

  psst

• alfagal

  2 Oct 09, 23:58

  hmm maybe she still feeling hyped about a new place...wanna give her more space?

  meanwhile keep urself bz..

• Pitot

  3 Oct 09, 00:04

  if someone has the time for you how

• alfagal

  3 Oct 09, 00:14

  sigh..tried communicating w her more often?

  making sure she knows how u feel..

• ndmmxiaomayi

  4 Oct 09, 01:03

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  time to move on? you've been in the job for a significant amount of time already anyway.

  Hard decision to make. Just the environment factor (little to no office politics) factor will make you think twice...

• hisoka

  5 Oct 09, 11:05

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  back. was revising some test topics with my friend just now.

   

  i got about 2 weeks of leave to clear soon. i plan to fly to visit someone special.

  but then i could not contact her because she is busy having fun due to the 1 week public holiday. then when i asked why is she ignoring my msgs and calls, i get the reply that i am irritating and wants to end it all because she doesnt wants to report everyday.

   

  wow. she doesnt know that she is my only form of sanity after everyday. a simple msg or 5 mins conversation would keep me sane.

   

  But she actually finds it a chore.

   

  I just replied i only wanted to inform you that i can fly over soon to visit. forget it.

   

   

  Actually we see this often for those couples when the guys go NS. Guys go through hell and need the support + frequent contacts for sanity. But the girls don't understand or are not committed enough.

• alfagal

  6 Oct 09, 23:44

  aiyah...part of life...

  but last time when my ex was in NS....i'm still studying..things still okie lehz..

  jus do my stuff...maybe...i'm more independent..

• hisoka

  7 Oct 09, 11:40

  to put it bluntly I feel it's more of the relationship not being stable in the first place and most likely the girl not be mature enough. Not saying that the guys are mature, but at the least the problem lay partially with the girls.

• ndmmxiaomayi

  7 Oct 09, 19:29

  The opposite can happen too... guess there are extremes.

• Pitot

  10 Oct 09, 10:55

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  Actually we see this often for those couples when the guys go NS. Guys go through hell and need the support + frequent contacts for sanity. But the girls don't understand or are not committed enough.

  true to a certain extent nia lah. you still can see each other or call everyday, not much of a difference.

   

  because its a long distance relationship and will be for the near future.

  and this is sort of an important turning point in life.

   

  right now both parties are just being selfish by keeping things open.

  its just human nature.

  thank goodness i have lotsa stuff to deal with to keep me busy.

   

  Its damn easy to get a short term relationship or a fling going.

  Its damn hard to pave the road for a long term relationship.

  do the right thing, or do things right? see lah, different viewpoint already.