Those with gfs....
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do u drive ur gf home everytime u all go out?
she stays bedok and i stay jurong west... sometimes feel like asking her to go back herself...
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w/ guys like u.. no wonder so many gals r staying single
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u are sych an a**Originally posted by Axl:do u drive ur gf home everytime u all go out?
she stays bedok and i stay jurong west... sometimes feel like asking her to go back herself... 
which is gd news for me.Originally posted by hopy:w/ guys like u.. no wonder so many gals r staying single -
i think the single girls part is good news to single guys like me...
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aiyo, u got car, drive only take abit of time nia mah. 10-20 minutes oni!! U also want her to be safe and sound rite?Originally posted by Axl:do u drive ur gf home everytime u all go out?
she stays bedok and i stay jurong west... sometimes feel like asking her to go back herself...
imagine those without private transport, worse...
kaoz.. is driving so taxing for u? -
Really have to depends on individuals .... If you are drunk or tired just pay for the cab fare and ask her to go back herself. No point being a gentleman and in the end, ends up in an accident along the way back.Originally posted by Axl:do u drive ur gf home everytime u all go out?
she stays bedok and i stay jurong west... sometimes feel like asking her to go back herself... -
but if u r like so kiam n uncaring like the *** i think it doesn't makes a diff to u eitherOriginally posted by houndy:i think the single girls part is good news to single guys like me... -
i don't drive a ferrari... at normal speed bedok to jurong west is 30min...Originally posted by Poopie-Head:aiyo, u got car, drive only take abit of time nia mah. 10-20 minutes oni!! U also want her to be safe and sound rite?
imagine those without private transport, worse...
kaoz.. is driving so taxing for u?
driving at nite iis damn xiong after a long day... i often fall asleep at the wheel... i already 'rubbed shoulders' with the expressway railings twice... -
not if they become lesbians...
butch very willing to send gf home...Originally posted by houndy:i think the single girls part is good news to single guys like me... 
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then make it a pt nt to go out till so late everytime lahOriginally posted by Axl:i don't drive a ferrari... at normal speed bedok to jurong west is 30min...
driving at nite iis damn xiong after a long day... i often fall asleep at the wheel... i already 'rubbed shoulders' with the expressway railings twice... -
Agreed that if u r drunk or tired, then u better consider road safety.Originally posted by Axl:i don't drive a ferrari... at normal speed bedok to jurong west is 30min...
driving at nite iis damn xiong after a long day... i often fall asleep at the wheel... i already 'rubbed shoulders' with the expressway railings twice...
If this is the case, why not go back earlier? -
but hey... i got other strengths u know.Originally posted by hopy:w/ guys like u.. no wonder so many gals r staying single -
Sad to say YES.....driving is taxing...!!
If once awhile i believe is alrtie but if its everyday den is very tiring..
And anyway though i think a guy shld send a girl back regardless is gf or wad.... i believe it shld not be taken granted by girls dat we must send them back......
From a guys view, it shld be a duty to send the ladies back BUT from a girls view they shld look upon it as a privilege dat the guy is sending her back and not a duty....
and if ur gf is a considerate gf, i dun think she will wan u to always send her back. She will be concerned especially when u r very tired....and will volunteer to go back herself....
Just my 2 cents worth...............
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while i agree with your point on the 'privilege or duty' part, the main reason why i wanna send my gf home is to ENSURE SHE GOES BACK HOME SAFE. We're not taking about DUTY here.Originally posted by huoye:Sad to say YES.....driving is taxing...!!
If once awhile i believe is alrtie but if its everyday den is very tiring..
And anyway though i think a guy shld send a girl back regardless is gf or wad.... i believe it shld not be taken granted by girls dat we must send them back......
From a guys view, it shld be a duty to send the ladies back BUT from a girls view they shld look upon it as a privilege dat the guy is sending her back and not a duty....
and if ur gf is a considerate gf, i dun think she will wan u to always send her back. She will be concerned especially when u r very tired....and will volunteer to go back herself....
Just my 2 cents worth...............
If u're too tired, then u should go back earlier, dont stay out so late can? -
agree!Originally posted by Poopie-Head:while i agree with your point on the 'privilege or duty' part, the main reason why i wanna send my gf home is to ENSURE SHE GOES BACK HOME SAFE. We're not taking about DUTY here.
If u're too tired, then u should go back earlier, dont stay out so late can? 
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thanx for empathizing... i guess only drivers will understand...Originally posted by Praetorian111:Really have to depends on individuals .... If you are drunk or tired just pay for the cab fare and ask her to go back herself. No point being a gentleman and in the end, ends up in an accident along the way back.
but sometimes she purposely don't want to take cab and asked me to come fetch her instead...granted it was abt 12midnight but i was at home and she asked me to go pick her up at central and send her all the way back...
really how dangerous is Singapore for gals? maybe should send her to some self defense course instead.. -
hmm... then like tt its kindof unreasonable for her to do so le..Originally posted by Axl:thanx for empathizing... i guess only drivers will understand...
but sometimes she purposely don't want to take cab and asked me to come fetch her instead...granted it was abt 12midnight but i was at home and she asked me to go pick her up at central and send her all the way back...
really how dangerous is Singapore for gals? maybe should send her to some self defense course instead..
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only a seasoned driver can understand how tiring is tat to be behind wheels for a long period of time....
i think its reasonable to send ur gf home while u r both out on dates..its also alright if u r out w ur fren, den she out w her fren but u will send her when u r both ready to go hm....
but if u r at hm, she's out, asking u to come out n send her hm is really too much liao..only a spolit gal will ask for tat.. -
To keep yourself awake in a car... do not on the air-con, keep a bottle of water in the car, on your music loud. practice driving.. from singapore to penang for lunch and back... two three trips and i guarentee you, you wont feel tired over the wheel. Oh yah the most impt.. KEEP FIT...
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I beg to defer to your two cents.Originally posted by huoye:Sad to say YES.....driving is taxing...!!
If once awhile i believe is alrtie but if its everyday den is very tiring..
And anyway though i think a guy shld send a girl back regardless is gf or wad.... i believe it shld not be taken granted by girls dat we must send them back......
From a guys view, it shld be a duty to send the ladies back BUT from a girls view they shld look upon it as a privilege dat the guy is sending her back and not a duty....
and if ur gf is a considerate gf, i dun think she will wan u to always send her back. She will be concerned especially when u r very tired....and will volunteer to go back herself....
Just my 2 cents worth...............
Firstly, You think sending a gal home regardless of status of relationship is a MUST.
Second, For GUYS it's a DUTY. Period.
Thirdly, GIRLS agrees it's a duty but SHOULD LOOK UPON IT AS a privilege.
Fourthly, IF the Girl is considerate...she'll volunteer to head home on her own. (BUT it's still a guy's DUTY to send her home) Duh...
There's this huge contridiction from point one to three.
From point one onwards...you've already stated a bias social gender issue, a one-sided perception of a true Gentleman(must fetch a lady home because she's a lady). The expectation as a duty is already seen by girls and it will always stay as what a man should do. Seen too many cases already.
My point is - It'll not be a duty, but expectation from girls and pressure for guys.
Am i trying to say that girls are being demanding? Nope, there are a huge part of girls who didn't care about this expectation. i'm just stating a fact that there's this unhealthy point of view and it should be balanced.
Apologies if i come off too straightforward. If you do have any points to refute. Feel free to reply.
p.s My ex stayed in Woodlands and i'm @ Pasir Ris.
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hmm if got car not so hard wat...when we went out on dates, he would walk me to the front of my house but sumtimes I told him not to because he has to walk wif me all the way in the cold. When I told him not to, he would say he just wanted to make sure I get home safely. He does that even when I have to go back to my house in the daylight
Now, how can I not love him to pieces?
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heh....that's good tips.Originally posted by houndy:To keep yourself awake in a car... do not on the air-con, keep a bottle of water in the car, on your music loud. practice driving.. from singapore to penang for lunch and back... two three trips and i guarentee you, you wont feel tired over the wheel. Oh yah the most impt.. KEEP FIT...
But it's not the point?
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Simple solution: MARRY HER ALREADY
heh heh
Seriously, I used to send my (then) gf (now wife) home every night, but poor bahstid me cudnt afford a car, so used taxi. Can sleep on the way back... must very siong on the pocket!
Think of it another way.. yr car oredi depreciating so much every minute liao, might as well get the most out of it. If anything, I do cherish driving at night when there is very little traffic. Even at speed limits, the open road, yr AWD... should be a blast -
hmmm... seems like it is more of relationship talk here then car talk.. hahaha.. but for me i only drop people off if they are living around my area... cant be travelling to the west or east and back home to the north right... petrol also not cheap....