Looking for her.....
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i know this may sound lame to some but i am trying every means i can get thru to.
on 9/2/02, saturday afternoon, i was going home from hall. the bus 199 came n thre were few ppl on it. I was walking to the back of the bus when i cant help noticing this girl. she was just sitting right at the back looking out of the window. But as i take a second look, i realised that she was teary-eyed, staring out of the window, and talking on the phone at the same time.
i sat a few seats away to give her privacy, and my mind went elsewhere. but as we alighted, somehow my eye caught her eye and her forlorn look just struck me. despite the expressionless face, she was incredibly sweet looking. like a doll.
as u can guess, for days after i thought abt her occasionally. i dun normally think of her for no reasons, but wat bothered me was that i dreamt of her a couple of times, and has any of u experinced the feeling of waking up after a really vivid dream and feeling very moved by wat u dreamt of? although i cant really rem the details of the dreams, i know tt she left a v deep impression in my heart, and i dunno y.
anyways, coincidentally i saw her a few times on campus, all of which she was v far away. the more i c her the more i cannot help falling. she usually look dreamy, like she dunno where she's going, and it nv fails to bring a smile to my face. but sometimes when she's talking n laughing with her frens she look so lively.
i want to get to know her but there is nv a chance. i know that she must b living in halls 12-15, and most prob from NBS. she seems to like the colour pink alot..
and guess what, i saw her on vday itself, with this incredibly gd looking guy. but they were not holding hands or anything, and i seriously dun think they are a couple, then. they were in marina, and i pointed her out to my frens, and they FINALLY understood wat has been putting me to a daze lately. anyways, she was all dressed up and she was beautiful.
ppl out there are gonna think i'm stupid, gif it up, some might say. but i can't. at nite i still can picture the lovely face n the teary eyes, or that sweet sweet smile she sometimes dorns. i dunno if she's attached, but tt also means however slight, there i STILL a chance. i really wanna know her. so, hopefully fate(?) will bring her to read this, and leave a msg for me.
btw any of u guys know of other forums ntu ppl might visit? the more the merrier. pls help me out. this loon is silly, but he is sincere.
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Ryan -
i've just realised i yakked non stop.. some of u might find it tiresome to read.
anyways i'm hoping to find this girl again,
NBS student likely to b yr 1, living in hall 12-15, sweet-looking, likes to wear pink, wears very casual n simple to sch, shoulderlength hair, carries a nokia 8250. takes bus number 502 from boonlay interchange (well, i saw her take it once, and she looked like she's going home..).
i cant believe hw ridiculous it sounds, but i've reach a pt where i'm willing to b ridicule..
but still, pls pls pls ..if this sounds like someone u know, get her to read my story, alrite?
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if u like her, pluck up some guts and go get her...
no reason in being so long-winded
nice story though -
yeah man....go get her..make her yourS!
cheeRs~ -
Storm the front. U take the point.
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GO GO GO!
fire in the hole!
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but its been so long since i saw her...i hardly ever do. that is y, although not a detailed description, hope someone finds it familiar and tell me WHO IS SHE.......
i going nuts, and exams are not exactly far.
but hey, i feel motivated by all these msg~~ thx -
btw, the guts is there, the chance isn't. either too far and then gone, or with some guy. how to..Originally posted by BillyBong:if u like her, pluck up some guts and go get her...
no reason in being so long-winded nice story though
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Ryan -
well fren...do u have trust in fate? if u do... u will bound to meet her again. no point neglecting ur studies for a gal..she might not be the "final" one rite? but im sure ur exams can be quite "final" to decide where u go next sem. study hard...and try to forget her..sorry if i sound too blunt..
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Then stop brooding abt it. Opportunities come and go, someone new will stop by and present u with another chance. Who knows it might be someone better...Originally posted by OverTheParadise:btw, the guts is there, the chance isn't. either too far and then gone, or with some guy. how to.. -
jialat, first time log in oledi hurt my eyes reading yr post...go try yr luck lar my man; the most practical thing to do, get to know her first then u'll know how u can move on...
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Hey, don't think too much, next time you see her, just run over and introduce urself. If you did try, at least there is a chance, but if you just wait, you are just simply losing your opportunity. By the way, even if she really read this msg, she might just be too shy to make a reply. Wish You All The Best.
(Bu Shi Shi Kan Zhe Me Zhi Dao Ne, Dui Ba??)
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hiaks..thx estee
ya i'm aware of that. i forgot to come n update this thing.
yep i got to know her, actually by coincidence but tt's another long story so i wun elaborate. but YES!!!!!! I GOT TO KNOW HER!!!!
must be fate.....hahahhahhaha
anyways, she is SO sweet, just like how i imagine her to b.
luv her..just waiting for the rite moment to tell her.
wish me luck ppl.
btw anybody know where to get the 7 dwarfs' plush toy? cant seem to find .. -
congrats!!!
does she have any feelings for u??
Can You feel It????
Awww, I was hoping to get into NTU but i think that can only happen in my dream.......
And by the way, am sorry, can't provide info for the seven dwarfs. -
feelings for me...i cannot be sure. probably not becos she only known me for a short while.
But at least she is willing to let us get to know each other more. but i will let her slowly come to see wat she means to me, yeah!
7 dwarfs 7 dwarfs? who can help me? heehehe -
Dear Ryan, ("OverTheParadise")
Know more about her! Notify her of your feelings! (but don't purposely follow her, it will NOT be very nice to stalk others, maybe can find out from YOUR hostel's friends in halls 12 to 15, etc)
Life is NOT only about EXAMz. School-work is important but you have also many other 'important' priorities in life to worry too.
In the Bible, (Genesis chapter 24):
"Abraham's servant was tasked to find a wife for his master's son, Isaac. The servant has to ensure that the future wife must not be chosen from the Canaanites, who're their neighbours, but must be taken from Abraham's relatives. The servant prayed to Abraham's God to help him in searching for Issac's future wife and finally the servant found Rebekah who came out of the hut to offer the servant a drink and to draw water for the camels too, who turn out to be Issac's wife eventually"
Lesson to draw from:
The servant has to travel miles away to search for an unknown spouse for his master's son, Issac but he did not give up just because it's a difficult but important task.
In choosing a life-long spouse, the servant has to make 110% assurance that she should be virtue, kind-hearted and have the same goals as her husband (in this case:it's the common goal of worshipping the same God).
Hence Ryan, ("OverTheParadis"), do you have such future plans to ponder over, besides your other priorities? If this matter is bothering you too much to the extent that you cannot sleezz, try to get over it fast by reasoning out whether this romance can really take place or not.
Think over it and see if it's worth it.
It's a personal and important decision, nobody can decide for you because the future outcome will be your responsibilty.
You can also find other Alumni's links below: (check if she's there) http://www.aimoo.com/forum/categories.cfm?id=322370&CategoryID=14903&zb=5847359
Feel free to express your message at link above too, hope the lady in pink sees your message & reciprocate.
All the best to you.
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Other possible advices:
Give her a card if you know where her hall is, drop it at her mail box but don't embrass her by letting everybody know you like her and things like that.
However, you must play it soft not to be too persistant in your approach. I think nobody likes a pushy person ...
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Alan Chow
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[This message has been edited by ntuforum (edited 01 April 2002).] -
erm...wa.....
hao, thx -
erm, wow, ok thx
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Erm, I tried this before and it works. You might knock your own head, but after you finish, try my method.
Pass her your ICQ number. Do it by getting a female friend of yours to pass it for you.
Why ICQ? How issit different from a HPhone number?
ICQ gives the "CALLEE" more privacy. That makes all the difference.
"LONG LIVE ICQ, the revolutionary BUDDY LIST."
Oh, BTW, when choosing a spouse, I usually choose one who doesn't have the same goals as I do, or else it would be like marrying myself. And I don't mind if she turns out to be a Christian, so long as she doesn't try to convert me. Hey, I like pink too. -
Hey. You still haven't update us leh. Wat the story? How you get to know her? tell leh....Don be shy
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But most of the time, unknown/anonymous ICQs will be ignoredOriginally posted by crosshairs:Erm, I tried this before and it works. You might knock your own head, but after you finish, try my method.
Pass her your ICQ number. Do it by getting a female friend of yours to pass it for you.
Why ICQ? How issit different from a HPhone number?
ICQ gives the "CALLEE" more privacy. That makes all the difference.
"LONG LIVE ICQ, the revolutionary BUDDY LIST."
Oh, BTW, when choosing a spouse, I usually choose one who doesn't have the same goals as I do, or else it would be like marrying myself. And I don't mind if she turns out to be a Christian, so long as she doesn't try to convert me. Hey, I like pink too.
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What not just join the ECA she have?
On one hand, you can know her better, on the other can learn another "skill"?
Pls bear in mind: Both parties will be living in 'disharmony' if converting is "not on a willing basis" on either party.
All the best for your courtship...
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yeah sorry forgot to update
thanx for all the advices n sugg
i already got to know her liaoz n currently we r rather gd frens..i think
in case anybody is interested, i bump into her at the bl interchage a few months ago, and i simply went up n talk to her loh. or rather, i board the bus she took and den tok to her
my lines were rather lame, lucky she din laugh in my face
i told her she looks familiar, muz b fr ntu rite..then intro intro..then ask her wher she alighting, den wait for her to ask me where i live too , den say,'oh, this bus doesnt take me home. In fact, i haf no idea it wld take me..'
den wait for her to look blur
den strike with 'i juz felt like sending u home, tts y i board the bus. can i?'
it worked lahz, tts gd enuff liao.
now we r in the stage where...almost la, almost..
the more i know this girl the more i really really like her. i mean ReALLy -
wow.. ur story sounds cool.. write a book on it man... sell it in ntu...
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har......izit...........haha...dun think so loh
anyways just in case anybody is interested to know
we not together still
apparently... she says she wanna get over her ex completely b4 she gets involved again...............
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I think she is just trying to serve you as a backup. Cos if she really like you, think she would have gotten over her bf when she met you. I think that applys to all human beings.
My two cents worth