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Been hurt many times? what happened?Originally posted by subarugal:Love hurts too much..
That's why me stay single and i am happier now.
Waiting for the day when my Mr Right appear.
Meanwhile just enjoy my singlehood, anyway a little too afraid to be in love.
Help... Help...
Originally posted by xiao chui:i start to love this guy 2yrs ago...jus 3 weeks b4 he gt married...i fall for him...
we start off as very good buddies...
i know it was a force marriage n rather pity him....
becos of family pressure....he married the ger...
after he gt married..he feels terrible...he cant imagine sleeping in the same bed with his wife...
every morning when he wake up n saw his wife lying nex to him....he felt frustrated.....n thus he gt me as a company...
everyday after work i will go drink with him.. till his wife keep blasting his hp...then we go bk...
after 1 month of his marriage...he really cant take it.. n start to run bk home n live with his parents....
his wife stir alot alot of things...n he kana threathened by his inlaws...
all then i was by his side....
due to many reasons he cant divorce his wife...only recently he file for a separation....
we were there for each other everyday...n as days pass..we from buddies become lovers....i boldly declare my love for him..but he had his reservation...
he said he is very selfish...he cant commit n dun wish to commit.....
everytime..after embracing sessions.. he will apolagised...
frankly speaking i dun mind...cos i really love him so much....
as days pass..sub conciously i hv regard him as my boyfriend.. n u noe..we gers will start to demand for commitments....n he gt scared n start to back off...drifting from me...i was very sad...nw even jus a call to chat with him will make him piss off..
jus a simple Qn where r u...he will b so piss off n yell at me...y? do i need to report to you every of my movement??????
i think thats it liao....the gap will always be there...
i know....many ppl will say its a good thing...but u know?that kind of feelings u have when u think of him?the whole heart sink dwn......the whole emotions grabs you....haiz...miserable ..
think me really a ku ming nu zhi...
People are just sharing their story, Whether true or not just take in with a pinch of salt.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
U sure u know wat u are posting? is it juz ur imagination or are u bio..
I really wonder..
Originally posted by trafox10:People are just sharing their story, Whether true or not just take in with a pinch of salt.
Ya. To some people the word "commitment" can scare them away...requires a lot of hard work into the relationship.Originally posted by rainee:If they are true to you, they would not be afraid of commitment
y so caustic?Originally posted by browniebaobao:
U sure u know wat u are posting? is it juz ur imagination or are u bio..
I really wonder..
'xiao chui' sounds farmiliar... reminds me of pajero and xiao chui, heheheOriginally posted by xiao chui:i start to love this guy 2yrs ago...jus 3 weeks b4 he gt married...i fall for him...
we start off as very good buddies...
i know it was a force marriage n rather pity him....
becos of family pressure....he married the ger...
after he gt married..he feels terrible...he cant imagine sleeping in the same bed with his wife...
every morning when he wake up n saw his wife lying nex to him....he felt frustrated.....n thus he gt me as a company...
everyday after work i will go drink with him.. till his wife keep blasting his hp...then we go bk...
after 1 month of his marriage...he really cant take it.. n start to run bk home n live with his parents....
his wife stir alot alot of things...n he kana threathened by his inlaws...
all then i was by his side....
due to many reasons he cant divorce his wife...only recently he file for a separation....
we were there for each other everyday...n as days pass..we from buddies become lovers....i boldly declare my love for him..but he had his reservation...
he said he is very selfish...he cant commit n dun wish to commit.....
everytime..after embracing sessions.. he will apolagised...
frankly speaking i dun mind...cos i really love him so much....
as days pass..sub conciously i hv regard him as my boyfriend.. n u noe..we gers will start to demand for commitments....n he gt scared n start to back off...drifting from me...i was very sad...nw even jus a call to chat with him will make him piss off..
jus a simple Qn where r u...he will b so piss off n yell at me...y? do i need to report to you every of my movement??????
i think thats it liao....the gap will always be there...
i know....many ppl will say its a good thing...but u know?that kind of feelings u have when u think of him?the whole heart sink dwn......the whole emotions grabs you....haiz...miserable ..
think me really a ku ming nu zhi...
my ex was so scared of that word he was literally trembling when I brought up that issue...then gave a lot of excuses why he cannot commit in the next 20 years...I quickly kicked him into the gutterOriginally posted by trafox10:Ya. To some people the word "commitment" can scare them away...requires a lot of hard work into the relationship.
I had some friends who are in a relationship feeling the same way too. The moment the word commitment is mention, they would juz say that " Aiya, just enjoy the time we have together la, why think abt commitment?" Perhaps to them to commitment means having to sacriface a lot of things like freedom and their time for the relationship. Guess your ex wasnt ready for a serious relationship..Can understand that, because some guys have the same mentality as your ex.Originally posted by rainee:my ex was so scared of that word he was literally trembling when I brought up that issue...then gave a lot of excuses why he cannot commit in the next 20 years...I quickly kicked him into the gutter
yea...his word for relationship companionshipOriginally posted by trafox10:I had some friends who are in a relationship feeling the same way too. The moment the word commitment is mention, they would juz say that " Aiya, just enjoy the time we have together la, why think abt commitment?" Perhaps to them to commitment means having to sacriface a lot of things like freedom and their time for the relationship. Guess your ex wasnt ready for a serious relationship..Can understand that, because some guys have the same mentality as your ex.
Like Rainee said, commitment is to put your 100% into the relationship, despite fall outs or how hard the obstacles are during the relationship. You make a decision to commit to each other b4 entering into a serious relationship and it applies to both marriage and relationship.Originally posted by alexkusu:Btw just to confirm...commitment means relationship right? or marriage?
not only guys will shun away from it also...girls will shun away too..Originally posted by trafox10:Like Rainee said, commitment is to put your 100% into the relationship, despite fall outs or how hard the obstacles are during the relationship. You make a decision to commit to each other b4 entering into a serious relationship and it applies to both marriage and relationship.
not necessarily. Commitment to a girl might mean a lot more than just marriage. It is about being there for her, showing that you care, being on time on dates, etc.Originally posted by alexkusu:100% comitment can be subjective. A guy can be 100% committed by picking his partner up frm classes, etc. But for the girl, the guy must propose marriage to show that he is 100% committed.