What is love ?
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Today someone asked me these question and kinda struck with it..
Now coming to my senses i shall share what i or how i felt abt love;
LOVE
--A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
--A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
--An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.
--An expression of one's affection: To like or desire enthusiastically.
Those listed above are the answers explained directly from a dictionary. What would I say love is?
Subarugal version of love ;
An emotion, gathered and stored by the heart and soul of each person, whether it be for another, themselves, or anything else with deep emotional attachment. It is not found, nor grown. It just comes, and is there. It warms your heart and your thoughts, and grows even more when love is given in return. For those that have said it truly doesn't exist? Your wrong, Love can whither and die, just as surely as that of the petals of a rose can, but the reason for it dying will always be an effect from yourself.
Life is not about the fairy tale version of what love is, or how it comes about, or how it ends. Love is simply a likeness for life. It too will hold troubled times, lost times, or periods of confusion, but within those, warm memories always shine through, reminding you of what a great and ominous feeling love can share. Thats the one reason why those that have lost someone or something they loved, continue to live each day. You remember what it was like, and how it could be again. Love is simple.......Love is Life......Love is just Love. There are no true definitions, for love is interpreted by each person in their own way.
So do you agree ? Or do u have a diff concepts ? -
why so kang kor...
love means one can't think logically -
errrrhh...Originally posted by kopiosatu:why so kang kor...
love means one can't think logically
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qing wei he wu?
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You sure?Originally posted by kopiosatu:why so kang kor...
love means one can't think logically
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thats the last thing i want to get involved in.
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Love is one of the strongest bond of a couple yet it can oso be one of the most intrustable . so how leh? each and every one got their own version of what loves mean. lalala...
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zhong ai wo yi sheng, oh my love, my love.......
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Love is just TMM lor
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Love is when u start to sing:
Ben, the two fo us need look no moreWe both found what we were looking forWith a friend to call my ownI'll never be aloneAnd you, my friend, will seeYou've got a friend in me(you've got a friend in me)Ben, you're always running here and thereYou feel you're not wanted anywhereIf you ever look behindAnd don't like what you findThere's one thing you should knowYou've got a place to go(you've got a place to go)I used to say "I" and "me"Now it's "us", now it's "we"I used to say "I" and "me"Now it's "us", now it's "we" -
Love is blind, u can never see each other weaknesses n faults until love has pass
U will always think that yr other half is the perfect person!! -
Love is something that can't be explained but only felt..
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i always thinki ah nel is the perfect person wor.. how?Originally posted by Kenashi:Love is blind, u can never see each other weaknesses n faults until love has pass
U will always think that yr other half is the perfect person!! -
humh... not me best ?Originally posted by shinta:i always thinki ah nel is the perfect person wor.. how? 
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Originally posted by shinta:i always thinki ah nel is the perfect person wor.. how?
u need sunglasses -
then u can start singing that mandarin song :Originally posted by shinta:i always thinki ah nel is the perfect person wor.. how?
today i m marrying u, today i m marrying u....don't know wat liao -
I. LOVE IS A SACRIFICE
1) Your object of love becomes #1, your marriage partner.
2) If every husband in this auditorium would die to himself, his marriage would live forever.
3) If every man would look at his wife with the love that Jesus looked at us with, his marriage would never end.
4) If every wife here today would die to herself, her marriage would live forever.
b. Must die to individual pursuits.
1) More homes are wrecked because one marriage partner puts a hobby or profession above the marriage.
2) IÂ’ve heard wives say, "If only he thought as much of me as he does his golf, or his boat, or his antique car.
3) When he gets home from work he heads straight for the garage, and I donÂ’t see him until bedtime.
4) What a shame, and it is also true of some wives!
c. Must die to the past.
1) Whatever you were before is now secondary.
2) Your obligation now is to make a home and a marriage work.
3) The past is gone.
B. A Sacrifice Must Suffer Long.
"Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up." cf 1Co. 13:4
1. Real love is long suffering.
2. Jesus suffered long hours on the cross.
3. He suffered for hours in the garden, before going to the cross.
4. If you display godly love, you will be long suffering.
5. So before you pack your bags and move out, read 1 Cor. 13:4.
C. Love Gives Itself.
"I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me." cf Gal. 2:20
1. You will never find Christ leaving us. It is always that we leave Him.
2. Giving yourself makes the marriage permanent.
3. If you gave yourself to your mate, you wonÂ’t ever back out. "Who loved me, and gave himself for me."
4. One of the greatest disabling factors to any marriage is "selfishness". Give yourself.
II. Love is a Commitment.
Note: John 14:24-27
A. When Jesus left heaven He was committed to the cross. "...for this cause came I unto this hour."
1. That was a commitment.
2. Nothing WOULD change that.
B. Marriage vows are a commitment.
"When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay." Eccl. 5:4-5
1. When we stand at the marriage altar and repeat a vow before God, He doesnÂ’t take it lightly!
2. If we enter our marriage with the thought or possibility of ever getting out, then we shouldnÂ’t enter.
C. When Jesus made His commitment to us it was forever.
1. It wasnÂ’t a trial basis.
2. It wasnÂ’t a test to see, if it would work.
3. IT WAS A COMMITMENT.
4. Some may say, "We werenÂ’t meant for each other."
5. After the wedding vows you are, because you are committed.
III. Love is Inseparable and Forgiving.
Note: Rom 8:35-39
A. Real love cannot be separated.
1. A husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church. cf Ep. 5:25
2. If we love our wife like with the love described in these verses, our marriage can survive any attack.
3. This issue of submission is settled with love...
B. Real love is forgiving.
1. "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do".
2. The Lord could have called legions of angels and been set free, but He didnÂ’t seek revenge.
3. He could have rained down fire from heaven and destroyed them all.
4. But He chose to forgive...
5. No we didnÂ’t deserve forgiveness, deserve mercy and grace...
6. But because of His love for us, He chose to forgive us!
7. Our marriages will be severely damaged if we try to seek revenge.
8. We may even think that we are justified in seeking revenge, but it will only bring heartache.
C. Real Love is Eternal.
1. Never-ending love.
2. ChristÂ’s love for us is eternal.
3. Nothing shall separate us from True love. -
Um...... food for thought......will come in handy......Originally posted by subarugal:I. LOVE IS A SACRIFICE
1) Your object of love becomes #1, your marriage partner.
2) If every husband in this auditorium would die to himself, his marriage would live forever.
3) If every man would look at his wife with the love that Jesus looked at us with, his marriage would never end.
4) If every wife here today would die to herself, her marriage would live forever.
b. Must die to individual pursuits.
1) More homes are wrecked because one marriage partner puts a hobby or profession above the marriage.
2) IÂ’ve heard wives say, "If only he thought as much of me as he does his golf, or his boat, or his antique car.
3) When he gets home from work he heads straight for the garage, and I donÂ’t see him until bedtime.
4) What a shame, and it is also true of some wives!
c. Must die to the past.
1) Whatever you were before is now secondary.
2) Your obligation now is to make a home and a marriage work.
3) The past is gone.
B. A Sacrifice Must Suffer Long.
"Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up." cf 1Co. 13:4
1. Real love is long suffering.
2. Jesus suffered long hours on the cross.
3. He suffered for hours in the garden, before going to the cross.
4. If you display godly love, you will be long suffering.
5. So before you pack your bags and move out, read 1 Cor. 13:4.
C. Love Gives Itself.
"I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me." cf Gal. 2:20
1. You will never find Christ leaving us. It is always that we leave Him.
2. Giving yourself makes the marriage permanent.
3. If you gave yourself to your mate, you wonÂ’t ever back out. "Who loved me, and gave himself for me."
4. One of the greatest disabling factors to any marriage is "selfishness". Give yourself.
II. Love is a Commitment.
Note: John 14:24-27
A. When Jesus left heaven He was committed to the cross. "...for this cause came I unto this hour."
1. That was a commitment.
2. Nothing WOULD change that.
B. Marriage vows are a commitment.
"When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay." Eccl. 5:4-5
1. When we stand at the marriage altar and repeat a vow before God, He doesnÂ’t take it lightly!
2. If we enter our marriage with the thought or possibility of ever getting out, then we shouldnÂ’t enter.
C. When Jesus made His commitment to us it was forever.
1. It wasnÂ’t a trial basis.
2. It wasnÂ’t a test to see, if it would work.
3. IT WAS A COMMITMENT.
4. Some may say, "We werenÂ’t meant for each other."
5. After the wedding vows you are, because you are committed.
III. Love is Inseparable and Forgiving.
Note: Rom 8:35-39
A. Real love cannot be separated.
1. A husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church. cf Ep. 5:25
2. If we love our wife like with the love described in these verses, our marriage can survive any attack.
3. This issue of submission is settled with love...
B. Real love is forgiving.
1. "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do".
2. The Lord could have called legions of angels and been set free, but He didnÂ’t seek revenge.
3. He could have rained down fire from heaven and destroyed them all.
4. But He chose to forgive...
5. No we didnÂ’t deserve forgiveness, deserve mercy and grace...
6. But because of His love for us, He chose to forgive us!
7. Our marriages will be severely damaged if we try to seek revenge.
8. We may even think that we are justified in seeking revenge, but it will only bring heartache.
C. Real Love is Eternal.
1. Never-ending love.
2. ChristÂ’s love for us is eternal.
3. Nothing shall separate us from True love.
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hi.. welcome to cupid..Originally posted by pinkygal76:Um...... food for thought......will come in handy......
humh... i believe so will come in handy at times when we are kinda lost ?
* singing "lost in emotions" -
LOVE is when u dont even know about it lol.
i received a leaflet and it writes Love is a 5 letter word. Guess whats the word??
HINT* some 1 -
Originally posted by ChingAlvin:LOVE is when u dont even know about it lol.
i received a leaflet and it writes Love is a 5 letter word. Guess whats the word??
HINT* some 1 -
Ya........veri lost now...... dun noe to leave or stay........ thanks for the tips....Originally posted by subarugal:hi.. welcome to cupid..
humh... i believe so will come in handy at times when we are kinda lost ?
* singing "lost in emotions"
GODS words do strengthen my soul & belief to hang on.....
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Love, brings colours, joy and happiness to your world when it comes.
It takes away the colours, joy and happines..leaving you memories, disappointments, hatred, tears and sadness... when it's gone. -
[quote]Originally posted by browniebaobao:
[b][color=indigo]Love, brings colours, joy and happiness to your world when it comes.
It takes away the colours, joy and happines..leaving you memories, disappointments, hatred ,tears and sadness... when it's gone.
[quote] hatred not wanted
Since young i was taught by my elder sister not to hate anyone, as hatred coz miserable and if u hate someone means u still love that someone a great deal.
So if he had move on why shld i love him and hate him ? so leave hatred out... hee... dnt noe how others might felt but over the years i feel that this is the best way for me coz at least i am happy
True love isn't selfish, if that someone can find happiness elsewhere bless him.
That's love... To love must be able to scarifice the same things how our parents love would scarifice for us -
Lost no u ain't lost..Originally posted by pinkygal76:Ya........veri lost now...... dun noe to leave or stay........ thanks for the tips....
GODS words do strengthen my soul & belief to hang on.....
come come ..
/ pull pinkgal closer pat pat n sayang
everythings gona be alright
Cupid door always open for all cupidsters.
In terms of love or sorrow, we are here for each other