Do you mean what you say ?

• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 00:52

  Bascially a buddy of mine, throw me with the above-mentioned.
  But i wasn't able to answer to her, coz i am not a guy.
  
  I am throwing this questions in here, hoping to get some respond and answers.
  Coz i am curious with the answers as well
  
  "Do you guys actually address all gals "dear" ?Or
  Only your loved ones or interested party?
  Or
  Using it in a flirt or so called fishing ?
  
  Gals are welcome too
• stellazio

  12 Oct 05, 00:53

  depends on person,time and place..results may vary..
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 00:55

  For my view..
  
  fishing purpose
  Unless he is my bf
• the Bear

  12 Oct 05, 00:55

  so far, i've only addressed 2 people like that..
  
  one was my former fiancee (things kinda went to heck.. but that's another story never to be told )
  
  the other, a very dear friend of mine..
  
  no one else..
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 00:58

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  depends on person,time and place..results may vary..

  Great minds think alike
  
  i do came across other who use it as a fishing line..
  
  Its been a long long time, since someone actually address me that...
  hummmmm....
  
  when is my turn ??
  
• stellazio

  12 Oct 05, 00:59

  Originally posted by subarugal:

  Great minds think alike
  
  i do came across other who use it as a fishing line..

  its too common hor dear??
• SnowFlag

  12 Oct 05, 00:59

  Even seen a 60 year old ang moh chasing a 20+ chinese girl, in a not so obvious way. And when the ang moh started to call her dear, she n her friends knew it is time for her to avoid him liao
• stellazio

  12 Oct 05, 01:01

  Originally posted by subarugal:

  Great minds think alike
  
  i do came across other who use it as a fishing line..
  
  Its been a long long time, since someone actually address me that...
  hummmmm....
  
  when is my turn ??
  

  i just did it what..read further down..
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:22

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  its too common hor dear??

  dear or deer ?
  
  Humhh...
  'Tao yan' wait get all the dust on me again..
  spare me from your dear..
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:23

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  Even seen a 60 year old ang moh chasing a 20+ chinese girl, in a not so obvious way. And when the ang moh started to call her dear, she n her friends knew it is time for her to avoid him liao

  so will you addr any gals dear ?
• stellazio

  12 Oct 05, 01:26

  Originally posted by subarugal:

  dear or deer ?
  
  Humhh...
  'Tao yan' wait get all the dust on me again..
  spare me from your dear..

  why??my dear is rare one lohz for privilleged people..and for the ang moh case your must understand that its in their culture to call people dear,darling etc..
• SnowFlag

  12 Oct 05, 01:26

  Originally posted by subarugal:

  so will you addr any gals dear ?

  cannot anyhow called people dear
  
  Minimum is bf/gf relationship
• RaTtY81

  12 Oct 05, 01:27

  i would only call my dearest dear
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:30

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  why??my dear is rare one lohz for privilleged people..and for the ang moh case your must understand that its in their culture to call people dear,darling etc..

  yeah, ang mo.. i am used to it..
  yes their culture to addr dear..
  
  But local seldom, usually got it in pub or etc.. whereby i will wiggle into the pool of crowds..
  Local guys use it to fish.. yeeekkk...
  
  maybe must learn from my buddies, "Try harder next round" Company with a smile..
• SnowFlag

  12 Oct 05, 01:31

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  why??my dear is rare one lohz for privilleged people..and for the ang moh case your must understand that its in their culture to call people dear,darling etc..

  no lah, imagine a boss started to call her dear, but the rest is addressed by their name.
  
  Moreover the boss also known to be that type n the girl is lovely.
• stellazio

  12 Oct 05, 01:31

  Originally posted by subarugal:

  yeah, ang mo.. i am used to it..
  yes there culture to addr..
  But local seldom, usually got it in pub or etc.. whereby i will wiggle into the pool of crowds..
  Local guys use it to fish.. yeeekkk... anything fresh ?
  
  maybe must learn from my buddies, "Try harder next round" Company with a smile..

  my precious,am i not being truthful here by unduly calling your dear??
• Camellias4me

  12 Oct 05, 01:34

  Like wat stellaboi said.. some pple use it casually. I don't go ard & 'dear' pple.. but when pple 'dear' me.. i'll take it casually.
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:39

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  my precious,am i not being truthful here by unduly calling your dear??

  
  
  /playing my hanky
• BÃ¥seline

  12 Oct 05, 01:41

  Nah... I would love to tell them to stop treating me like a letter or email...."Dear so and so..."
  
  Nah, put it simply... it could be a easy way out for that guy to so called 'test the water'. If that gal takes it casually, he'll knows it's a no go. Of cos, this may not be true and applies to most scenerios but it's my observation.
• browniebaobao

  12 Oct 05, 01:41

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  Even seen a 60 year old ang moh chasing a 20+ chinese girl, in a not so obvious way. And when the ang moh started to call her dear, she n her friends knew it is time for her to avoid him liao

  i tot 'dear' to angmoh is v common?
• the Bear

  12 Oct 05, 01:43

  strangely, this was asked of me at work
  
  "how come you never write "dear XXXXX"?
  
  i answered: the ^#@$ is not dear to me.. he's lucky i never start the damned letter or email "you flamin' retard..."
  
  
  
  

  Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:

  Nah... I would love to tell them to stop treating me like a letter or email...."Dear so and so..."
  
  Nah, put it simply... it could be a easy way out for that guy to so called 'test the water'. If that gal takes it casually, he'll knows it's a no go. Of cos, this may not be true and applies to most scenerios but it's my observation.

• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:44

  Originally posted by Camellias4me:

  Like wat stellaboi said.. some pple use it casually. I don't go ard & 'dear' pple.. but when pple 'dear' me.. i'll take it casually.

  ok.. i do take it casually
  
  but what if that person is your collegues..
  Chances i am looking at 'guy out for fun' heh...
  and as far as i know my lady friend dnt take such 'dear' seriously but happen that i think she is attracted to him.
• browniebaobao

  12 Oct 05, 01:44

  I have a dear here..
  
  i dun anyhow call pple dear la..only my buddy, my dear here and my bf..
  
  and i nv let guys call me dear if he's not my bf. As simple as that lor.
• browniebaobao

  12 Oct 05, 01:45

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  strangely, this was asked of me at work
  
  "how come you never write "dear XXXXX"?
  
  i answered: the ^#@$ is not dear to me.. he's lucky i never start the damned letter or email "you flamin' retard..."
  
  
  
  

  Woot~!
• subarugal

  12 Oct 05, 01:46

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  strangely, this was asked of me at work
  
  "how come you never write "dear XXXXX"?
  
  i answered: the ^#@$ is not dear to me.. he's lucky i never start the damned letter or email "you flamin' retard..."
  
  
  
  

  wahaha...
  you really made my nite..
  nice joker bear