What are the real reasons for being married
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many years ago, i read an article from newpaper that a couple get married was cos of convenience. they both go back to the same home, have their own separate lives and continue seeing other pple. this is called marriage of convenience, they got married cos of housing benefits and husband n wife in name only, so i dun see their marrriage last for long.
some guys settle down to get married cos they are no longer young, wanted to start a family to carry on their family names. in their haste to get married, they just choose whichever ger that came along and after marriage, found out that the ger is not really suitable for him due to temperament, habits, thinking and the like. the same also goes for gers as well.
for me, i rather be single than get married and found out that my wife and I could not get along due to differences in thinking, outlook, character, habits, lifestyles, and temperament. there are hassles quarrelling and not to mention the monetary and emotional costs of divorces and alimony.
last week the 37 year old deliveryman killed his 26 year old wife of indonesian descent, probably cos of affair outside. their marriage is clearly a mismatch at the outset due to differences in age, thinking, temperament, character and also social status.
If I have a wife that have an affair outside, no point in killing or arguing with her, just file for divorce and get evidence for adultery to file for divorce in court.
same goes to ger if husband stray outside of marriage. -
hmmm ......
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Originally posted by marcteng:many years ago, i read an article from newpaper that a couple get married was cos of convenience. they both go back to the same home, have their own separate lives and continue seeing other pple. this is called marriage of convenience, they got married cos of housing benefits and husband n wife in name only, so i dun see their marrriage last for long.
some guys settle down to get married cos they are no longer young, wanted to start a family to carry on their family names. in their haste to get married, they just choose whichever ger that came along and after marriage, found out that the ger is not really suitable for him due to temperament, habits, thinking and the like. the same also goes for gers as well.
for me, i rather be single than get married and found out that my wife and I could not get along due to differences in thinking, outlook, character, habits, lifestyles, and temperament. there are hassles quarrelling and not to mention the monetary and emotional costs of divorces and alimony.
last week the 37 year old deliveryman killed his 26 year old wife of indonesian descent, probably cos of affair outside. their marriage is clearly a mismatch at the outset due to differences in age, thinking, temperament, character and also social status.
If I have a wife that have an affair outside, no point in killing or arguing with her, just file for divorce and get evidence for adultery to file for divorce in court.
same goes to ger if husband stray outside of marriage.
Sad to said yes nowaday, very few really married because of they can't do without each other. Some even married due to peer pressure, some just plain envy friends who married, as friends circle getting smaller lesser, loneliness came along. And human just fall into this circle and got married but then again usually ended up divorce..
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my real reason is to settle down hv my own family n live happily with my love one for the rest of my live ...... sad to say ... it neber happened ...
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Originally posted by maxcp:my real reason is to settle down hv my own family n live happily with my love one for the rest of my live ...... sad to say ... it neber happened ...
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wrong person at the right placeOriginally posted by maxcp:my real reason is to settle down hv my own family n live happily with my love one for the rest of my live ...... sad to say ... it neber happened ...
well that's life.
So ladies or man are lucky to married having happy family but just didn't really appreciate.
There are people who wish as bad able to be married to the one we love yet they ain't lucky enough..
People oh people cherish what god present to u... -
and that was her 2nd marriage ... her 1st marriage the husband having affair .... and now her turn .....Originally posted by subarugal:wrong person at the right place
well that's life.
So ladies or man are lucky to married having happy family but just didn't really appreciate.
There are people who wish as bad able to be married to the one we love yet they ain't lucky enough..
People oh people cherish what god present to u... -
and that was her 2nd marriage ... her 1st marriage the husband having affair .... and now her turn .....Originally posted by subarugal:wrong person at the right place
well that's life.
So ladies or man are lucky to married having happy family but just didn't really appreciate.
There are people who wish as bad able to be married to the one we love yet they ain't lucky enough..
People oh people cherish what god present to u... -
and that was her 2nd marriage ... her 1st marriage the husband having affair .... and now her turn .....Originally posted by subarugal:wrong person at the right place
well that's life.
So ladies or man are lucky to married having happy family but just didn't really appreciate.
There are people who wish as bad able to be married to the one we love yet they ain't lucky enough..
People oh people cherish what god present to u...