Sigh ...
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today suppose to be my wedding 1st anniversary ..... 
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oh.. come on..
move on...
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trying very hard .......Originally posted by subarugal:oh.. come on..
move on...
Take care
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ermm care to elaborate wat actually happened?
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wife having affairs ...... so now seperatedOriginally posted by larrenV2.003:ermm care to elaborate wat actually happened? -
Originally posted by maxcp:wife having affairs ...... so now seperated thats sad to hear
cheer up pal.. -
Have u all filed a divorce? And err the cause of your wifes affairs?Originally posted by maxcp:wife having affairs ...... so now seperated -
hv to seperate for 3 yrs ..... she hv been doing it b4 our marriage ... but I only discovered june ....Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Have u all filed a divorce? And err the cause of your wifes affairs? -
sigh ....Originally posted by mystiv: thats sad to hear
cheer up pal.. -
well life isn't bed of roses what to do but to carry on live life to fullnes.
Try not to dwell in it.
No one can help u , it's either self helping or never able to stand up strong.
i really hope you know which to chose..
That's life..
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My condolences to u but u as a guy u have nothing to lose in the end...Originally posted by maxcp:hv to seperate for 3 yrs ..... she hv been doing it b4 our marriage ... but I only discovered june ....
But no offence, your wife cheapens herself in this way...
she will get her retribution soon as her other guy would feel insecure in the later part.
Its like if she can make a cuckhold out of you she might be able to do it on her other guy. -
... shld b her other guysOriginally posted by larrenV2.003:My condolences to u but u as a guy u have nothing to lose in the end...
But no offence, your wife cheapens herself in this way... she will get her retribution soon as her other guy would feel insecure in the later part.
Its like if she can make a cuckhold out of you she might be able to do it on her other guy. -
Yah...Originally posted by maxcp:... shld b her other guys
and your wife or should i say ex-wife will lose alot of herself... -
frens saw her with other guy dating oredi ..... juz 4 mths after we seperateOriginally posted by larrenV2.003:Yah... and your wife or should i say ex-wife will lose alot of herself... -
Haiz all the best for her...Originally posted by maxcp:frens saw her with other guy dating oredi ..... juz 4 mths after we seperate
Btw wat are your plans after? -
can't have any plan until 2008 july .... sigh by den I'm 43 ... too old for anything ...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Haiz all the best for her...
Btw wat are your plans after? -
Huh?! Why? oh u studying ar?Originally posted by maxcp:can't have any plan until 2008 july .... sigh by den I'm 43 ... too old for anything ...
43 too old meh.... nothing is too old for a man as long as he has aspirations in his life till death... -
no 2008 july den I can file a divorce .... wat can a 43 years oldman do ? start a family ??? dun think so ....Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Huh?! Why? oh u studying ar? -
Originally posted by maxcp:no 2008 july den I can file a divorce .... wat can a 43 years oldman do ? start a family ??? dun think so ....
which law says 43 years old man cannot get married...its only the converse society that can't open up to middle age man like u to get married & start family blah blah blah.
Take for example i got a 45 year old uncle married with his 30 year old wife & now tata he got a family of 4 children... the eldest Primary 5 youngest, 2 years old. Dude anythign is possible...
Its only whether u can open up after your shun from society... -
hmm when ppl knew I'm seperated .... they start to siam ....Originally posted by larrenV2.003: which law says 43 years old man cannot get married...its only the converse society that can't open up to middle age man like u to get married & start family blah blah blah.
Take for example i got a 45 year old uncle married with his 30 year old wife & now tata he got a family of 4 children... the eldest Primary 5 youngest, 2 years old. Dude anythign is possible...
Its only whether u can open up after your shun from society... -
Yah that is the problem of some asian societies that generalise men who got breakup & divorced this & that as no good with those malicious gossip going about.Originally posted by maxcp:hmm when ppl knew I'm seperated .... they start to siam ....
But most importantly is what u have done is the past is not your fault & that u have a clear conscience.
Uncle max... nowadays some gal gal go & comfort uncles in the streets. okay lah as long as your career is stable u still got nothing to lose... -
You gave on her already? No chance of her coming back?Originally posted by maxcp:no 2008 july den I can file a divorce .... wat can a 43 years oldman do ? start a family ??? dun think so ....
So 43 is over the hill then? O dear...I am about the same age..never married though. -
there is this chinese saying.."yi chi bu zhong, bai chi bu rong"(Something like that)..once bitten twice shy already..Even if she returns to ur side, u will somehow or another still feel insecure..There will be this insecurity that will strain the relationship more one..Only can say that is time for u to move on..Originally posted by oxford mushroom:You gave on her already? No chance of her coming back?
So 43 is over the hill then? O dear...I am about the same age..never married though. -
humh...Originally posted by maxcp:no 2008 july den I can file a divorce .... wat can a 43 years oldman do ? start a family ??? dun think so ....
who say 43 yrs old man cnt start a family ? crazy..
my uncle married at 45
anyway for gals to fall for man age 40s is possible, but most impt case for yours will be u must be sure of what you want.
A few questions to ask inner soul:
Do you still carrying some feeling for ex wife till now ?
If ex-wife come back are u gonna forgive her, esp if she came back will remorse and tears ? Are you able to take all these ?
If not i guess it's not the time for you to get involve with an new relationship yet.
unless you are in ur clear mind cept and knowing what you want ?
Suggest that for the time being, rest your mind and soul
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haih..women..they come, they go...haih~