Is that they like to jump to conclusions and make their point even though they are not involved in the situation. By using strong terms and words and not even considering the feelings of the people involved. And there's no right or wrong in everything...its just how you handle it...yeah its very frustrating to see this kind of irrational thinking and behaviour...
I get that all the time.
I consider it a mild form of back-stabbing.
Its just that sometimes its just not fair no? Why must you judge when you don't know?
mai koon ah?
Originally posted by Scania L113 lover:I get that all the time.
I consider it a mild form of back-stabbing.
i don't consider it as a mild form of backstabbing, but one thing's for sure. not everyone can be true listeners.
and their intellectual analytical smarter then all thinking makes them wana give a comment when its not needed. happens all the time.
Originally posted by twists:mai koon ah?
Not yet zzz
I just don't understand why can't they just think before speaking...its so irritating...i seriously wonder if their ass and brains are at the right areas
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Is that they like to jump to conclusions and make their point even though they are not involved in the situation. By using strong terms and words and not even considering the feelings of the people involved. And there's no right or wrong in everything...its just how you handle it...yeah its very frustrating to see this kind of irrational thinking and behaviour...
Did you just read an article on stomp...?
yah loh yah loh
dunno why some sgf ppl so geh gao, so no life
losing sleep over something other ppl posted
tsk tsk~
Originally posted by MohamedF:Did you just read an article on stomp...?
isnt there enough of it here in sgf?
nope...recently my colleague got flamed for something he did (in his personal life) and there are so many insensitive morons that gave nasty and thoughtless comments
Originally posted by FireIce:yah loh yah loh
dunno why some sgf ppl so geh gao, so no life
losing sleep over something other ppl posted
tsk tsk~
Lol...not when someone is breaking down in front of you right? hahaha
Originally posted by stellazio:i don't consider it as a mild form of backstabbing, but one thing's for sure. not everyone can be true listeners.
and their intellectual analytical smarter then all thinking makes them wana give a comment when its not needed. happens all the time.
There are some people who just want to get into any conversation and try to turn it into their advantage.
Either such people are malicious bastards or plain idiots.
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:nope...recently my colleague got flamed for something he did (in his personal life) and there are so many insensitive morons that gave nasty and thoughtless comments
People make thoughtless coz it takes time and energy to think...-_-v
TRACOM has taught me never to believe the obvious... most of the time, there is something more behind it...
Originally posted by MohamedF:People make thoughtless coz it takes time and energy to think...-_-v
TRACOM has taught me never to believe the obvious... most of the time, there is something more behind it...
Hahaha....
Originally posted by MohamedF:People make thoughtless coz it takes time and energy to think...-_-v
TRACOM has taught me never to believe the obvious... most of the time, there is something more behind it...
Training Command?!
Originally posted by udontknowme:
isnt there enough of it here in sgf?
I can think of a forum with a lot of that...
But stomp is 99.9% full of it...
Originally posted by Scania L113 lover:
There are some people who just want to get into any conversation and try to turn it into their advantage.Either such people are malicious bastards or plain idiots.
the worse is when someone who is already emo, seeks comfort and advice from a friend he confides in, and ends up being judged and having to hear comments that might break the fella down even further. even if what the fella did was wrong, i still feel that there is a time and place for everything, and cynical comments are out of the way.
But we live in a cruel society..
Originally posted by stellazio:the worse is when someone who is already emo, seeks comfort and advice from a friend he confides in, and ends up being judged and having to hear comments that might break the fella down even further. even if what the fella did was wrong, i still feel that there is a time and place for everything, and cynical comments are out of the way.
That's another thing about people... People loves to hear about bad stuff... I donno why...
If someone hears bad news about something or someone, it'll be the hottest gossip for weeks... but good news will only lasts a day or so...
Coz bad things spread faster and bad things last...and people will find that a more interesting topic to talk about...rather than be jealous of someone's achievement that for them seem unattainable...they would indulge in scrutinizing everything till the last detail...
haiz... humans...
Originally posted by stellazio:the worse is when someone who is already emo, seeks comfort and advice from a friend he confides in, and ends up being judged and having to hear comments that might break the fella down even further. even if what the fella did was wrong, i still feel that there is a time and place for everything, and cynical comments are out of the way.
There are such people.
But there are worse ones. The ones I mentioned rank as one of those I intensely dislike.
I know I'm a bitch.
i like this thread, gud one.
reminding myself at all tyms, stop for three secs before u open ur mouth to say something -- think before u speak. strange why some people cant practice simple things like this but we are not perfect ourselves neither, i am sure many of us still speak then think, and its too late for apology sometyms.