Cai MingJie (who originally came from China, armed with a PhD from Stanford, and obtained Singaporean citizenship, worked for decades in a local scientific research institution before resigning due to distasteful politics to become a local taxi driver) regularly updates his blogs, and I must say, his blog is probably the most entertaining and educational blog around these parts.
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June 28, 2009. Sunday: Poison in disguise
Some twenty minutes before midnight, I was cooling my heels at the taxi stand next to Cuppage Plaza. Normally business was good at this place, but today it was unusually quiet.
Finally, someone came in. It was a Chinese lady, and she told me in Mandarin to go to Balestier Road.
I had taken passengers from Orchard to Balestier many times in the past. I normally go either via Cavenagh Road/Kampong Java/Thomson Road, or by CTE/Moulmein Road, depending on which end of Balestier the destinations were closer to. Today, without thinking, I took the former route.
As I turned onto Cavenagh Road the lady said, “Why didn’t you go by CTE?”
“Oh, sorry,” I replied, looking at her in the mirror. “I didn’t ask you which way you want me to take. But there shouldn’t be much of difference. We can get there quickly by this way also.”
But she was unforgiving. “You don’t need me to tell you how to go. You are the taxi driver and you should know which way is the best way,” she said.
In a situation like this, I employed my stock answer: “Sorry for that. Later you can pay me whatever you want to pay. Okay?”
She didn’t respond.
She was in her early thirties. She spoke Mandarin with a northern accent. The fact she did not speak English when she first spoke to me suggested she probably did not know any. From the way she was dressed she didn’t look to be one of the Chinese girls working in the night entertainment industry.
Her place was near the end of Moulmein Road. This meant that I had indeed made a mistake. When we stopped at her destination, the meter fare was $7.
“I take taxi every day,” she said. “The fare is always $5.”
“$5 is fine. No problem.” I was eager to minimize her unhappiness. “You can just pay me $5.”
She gave me a $5 note, but then said, “I can pay you $7 if you give me a receipt.”
“I’ll just take $5,” I said to her, feeling grateful for her generosity. “Don’t worry about the meter. If you want a receipt, however, I can give you one regardless.” I thought maybe she needed a receipt to claim the expense.
She thought about it for a moment and said, “I want a receipt and I will pay $7.”
“Okay, if that’s what you want,” I said. I printed out the receipt and gave it to her. She handed me a $2 note. I thanked her and took the money.
She opened the door. With one leg out, she suddenly said in a venomous tone, “I will file a complaint on you!”
With that she got out and slammed the door.
I was completely stunned.
Posted by Mingjie Cai at 11:37 PM
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Hi all,
Just to share something interesting with regards to PSLE Maths:
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Cheers.
Atrocities (and still ongoing!!!) beyond human description.
Both articles are written by Nicholas Kristof, a journalist for The New York Times.
http://members7.boardhost.com/TrueCatholic/msg/1265583140.html
It’s easy to wonder how world leaders, journalists, religious figures and ordinary citizens looked the other way while six million Jews were killed in the Holocaust. And it’s even easier to assume that we’d do better.
But so far the brutal war here in eastern Congo has not only lasted longer than the Holocaust but also appears to have claimed more lives. A peer- reviewed study put the Congo war’s death toll at 5.4 million as of April 2007 and rising at 45,000 a month. That would leave the total today, after a dozen years, at 6.9 million.
What those numbers don’t capture is the way Congo has become the world capital of rape, torture and mutilation, in ways that sear survivors like Jeanne Mukuninwa, a beautiful, cheerful young woman of 19 who somehow musters the courage to giggle. Her parents disappeared in the fighting when she had just turned 14 — perhaps they were massacred, but their bodies never turned up — so she moved in with her uncle.
A few months later, the extremist Hutu militia invaded the home. She remembers that it was the day of her very first menstrual period — the only one she has ever had.
“First, they tied up my uncle,” Jeanne said. “They cut off his hands, gouged out his eyes, cut off his feet, cut off his sex organs, and left him like that. He was still alive.
“His wife and his son were also there. Then they took all of us into the forest.” That militia is known for kidnapping people and enslaving them for months, even years. Men are turned into porters, and girls into sex slaves.
Jeanne and other girls were regularly tied spread-eagle and gang-raped, and she soon became pregnant. The rapes continued, sometimes with sticks that tore apart her insides and left her dribbling wastes constantly. Somehow the fetus survived, but her pelvis was too immature to deliver the baby.
One of the people the militia had kidnapped was a doctor who was forced to treat the soldiers. The doctor, seeing that Jeanne was close to dying in obstructed childbirth, cut her open with an old knife, without anesthetic, and removed the stillborn baby. Jeanne was delirious and almost dead, so the militia dumped her beside a road.
“She was completely destroyed inside,” said another doctor, Denis Mukwege, who saved her life after she was brought here to Bukavu. Dr. Mukwege, 54, presides over the 400-bed Panzi Hospital, supported by the European Union and private groups like the Fistula Foundation. He is sometimes mentioned as a candidate for the Nobel Peace Prize for his heroic efforts to fight the war and heal its victims.
Dr. Mukwege operated on Jeanne nine times over three years to repair the fistulas that were causing her to leak wastes. Finally he succeeded, and she returned to her village to live with her grandmother.
“He told me to stay away from men for three months,” Jeanne remembers, to give her body time to heal. But three days after she returned to the village, the militia came again and raped again. The fistula reopened.
Jeanne, kept naked in the forest and stinking because her internal injuries had reopened, finally managed to escape and eventually found her way back to Panzi Hospital. Dr. Mukwege has already started a second round of surgeries on her, but there is so little tissue left that it is not clear she can ever be continent again.
About 12 percent of the raped women he treats have contracted syphilis, and 6 percent have H.I.V. He does what he can to repair their injuries and help them heal — until the next time.
“Sometimes I don’t know what I am doing here,” Dr. Mukwege said despairingly. “There is no medical solution.” The paramount need, he says, is not for more humanitarian aid for Congo, but for a much more vigorous international effort to end the war itself.
That means putting pressure on neighboring Rwanda, a country so widely admired for its good governance at home that it tends to get a pass for its possible role in war crimes next door. We also need pressure on the Congolese president, Joseph Kabila, to arrest Gen. Jean Bosco Ntaganda, wanted by the International Criminal Court on war crimes charges. And, as recommended by an advocacy organization called the Enough Project, we need a U.S.-brokered effort to monitor the minerals trade from Congo so that warlords can no longer buy guns by exporting gold, tin or coltan.
Unless we see some leadership here, the fighting in Congo — fueled by profits from mineral exports — will continue indefinitely. So if we don’t act now, when will we? When the toll reaches 10 million deaths? When Jeanne is kidnapped and raped for a third time?
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http://www.informationclearinghouse.info/article24562.htm
February 02, 2010 "New York Times" January 31, 2010 -- Sometimes I wish eastern Congo could suffer an earthquake or a tsunami, so that it might finally get the attention it needs. The barbaric civil war being waged here is the most lethal conflict since World War II and has claimed at least 30 times as many lives as the Haiti earthquake.
Yet no humanitarian crisis generates so little attention per million corpses, or such a pathetic international response.
That’s why I’m here in the lovely, lush and threatening hills west of Lake Kivu, where militias rape, mutilate and kill civilians with a savagery that is almost incomprehensible. I’m talking to a 9-year-old girl, Chance Tombola, an orphan whose eyes are luminous with fear.
For Chance, the war arrived one evening last May when armed soldiers from an extremist Hutu militia — remnants of those who committed the Rwandan genocide — burst into her home. They killed her parents in front of her. Chance ran away, but the soldiers seized her two sisters, ages 6 and 12, and carried them away into the forest, presumably to be turned into “wives” of soldiers. No one has seen Chance’s sisters since.
Chance moved in with her aunt and uncle and their two teenage daughters. Two months later, the same militia invaded the aunt’s house and held everyone at gunpoint. Chance says she recognized some of the soldiers as the same ones who had killed her parents.
This time, no one could escape. The soldiers first shot her uncle, and then, as the terrified family members sobbed, they pulled out a large knife.
“They sliced his belly so that the intestines fell out,” said his widow, Jeanne Birengenyi, 34, Chance’s aunt. “Then they cut his heart out and showed it to me.” The soldiers continued to mutilate the body, while others began to rape Jeanne.
“One takes a leg, one takes the other leg,” Jeanne said dully. “Others grab the arms while one just starts raping. They don’t care if children are watching.”
Chance added softly: “There were six who raped her. One raped me, too.”
The soldiers left Jeanne and Chance, tightly tied up, and marched off into the forest with Jeanne’s two daughters as prisoners. One daughter is 14, the other 16, and they have not been heard from since.
“They kill, they rape, burn houses and take people’s belongings,” Jeanne said. “When they come with their guns, it’s as if they have a project to eliminate the local population.”
A peer-reviewed study found that 5.4 million people had already died in this war as of April 2007, and hundreds of thousands more have died as the situation has deteriorated since then. A catastrophically planned military offensive last year, backed by the governments of Congo and Rwanda as well as the United Nations force here, made some headway against Hutu militias but also led to increased predation on civilians from all sides.
Human Rights Watch estimates that for every Hutu fighter sent back to Rwanda last year, at least seven women were raped and 900 people forced to flee for their lives. “From a human rights perspective, the operation has been catastrophic,” concluded Philip Alston, a senior United Nations investigator.
This is a pointless war — now a dozen years old — driven by warlords, greed for minerals, ethnic tensions and complete impunity. While there is plenty of fault to go around, Rwanda has long played a particularly troubling role in many ways, including support for one of the militias. Rwanda’s government is dazzlingly successful at home, but next door in Congo, it appears complicit in war crimes.
Jeanne and Chance contracted sexually transmitted diseases. Like other survivors in areas that are accessible, they receive help from the International Rescue Committee, but Chance still suffers pain when she urinates.
Counselors say that most raped women are rejected by their husbands, and raped girls like Chance have difficulty marrying. In an area west of Lake Kivu where attacks are continuing, I met Saleh Bulondo, a newly homeless young man who was educated and spoke a little English. I asked him if he would still marry his girlfriend if she were raped.
“Never,” he said. “I will abandon her.”
A girl here normally fetches a bride price (a reverse dowry, paid by the husband’s family) when she marries. A village chief told me that a typical price would be 20 goats — but if the girl has been raped, two goats. At most.
Thus it takes astonishing courage for Jeanne and Chance to tell their stories (including in a video posted with the on-line version of this column). I’ll be reporting more from eastern Congo in the coming days, hoping that the fortitude of survivors like them can inspire world leaders to step forward to stop this slaughter. It’s time to show the same compassion toward Congo that we have toward Haiti.
NameWee's CNY Song 2010 (more about NameWee at end of this post)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w0DFvcZ_vw
Another song, titled "Cinta Hello Kitty", lyrics in Malay, tells a story about a girl falls in love thru online and naively ran away from home, bringing with her nothing but her precious hello kitty doll - only to find out the cruelty of the world when she's all alone celebrating her birthday, finally ... after travelling to many different places, she finally whispers to her doll 'hello kitty, please help me, i was wrong and i miss my parents, i wanna go home now ...'
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUurtulXrnI
The singer of "Cinta Hello Kitty", Malaysian Chinese Karen Kong, has many songs in her repertoire, including the following beautiful chinese song titled "Li Dao (Leaving the Island)", which tells of leaving one's home village for a foreign land, but missing one's loved ones back home :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQ6SH8bQbts
Incidentally, the lyrics for the abovementioned sentimental song was written by NameWee (don't see NameWee ah beng ah beng hor, he can write lyrics for sentimental song one ok!)
And in case you've forgotten who NameWee is, here is his most famous song (that almost landed him in jail and persecution by the Malaysian authorities), Negarakuku, based on the national anthem, but a critical satire on racism in Malaysia.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyiBvJtJ5Z4
http://taxidiary.blogspot.com/2010/02/july-22-2009-wednesday-unbearable.html