It’s true: The rich really are ruder
Mark Kingwell is a professor of philosophy at the University of Toronto.
Who among us has not felt the affront? Macadamia nuts arrive in a bag, not on a dish, and something shrivels in the soul. Are we animals? Did we execute the challenging task of being born insanely wealthy only to eat in-flight snacks from a bag?!
We did not. And that is why, when Korean Air heiress Cho Hyun-ah was confronted by a bag of nuts on a flight out of New York early last December, she grew enraged and forced the plane back to the gate. As a result of the incident, Ms. Cho, the 40-year-old daughter of the airline’s chairman, Cho Yang-ho, was charged, among other things, with assault and obstructing an airline captain in the performance of his duties.
In custody since Dec. 30, she was was convicted last week of violating aviation safety law and sentenced to a year in prison. Another executive who tried to cover up the incident was sentenced to eight months. Many observers consider the sentences too light, given the rampant nepotism and privilege enjoyed by second- and third-generation members of South Korea’s business elite.
“If she were considerate to people, if she didn’t treat employees like slaves, if she could have controlled her emotion,� the chief judge said, “this case would not have happened.� But consider the deeper truth of the matter: It was not really her fault.
Psychologist Paul Piff has coined a memorable label for the phenomenon: the Asshole Effect. Prof. Piff and his colleagues have shown that there is a reliable correlation, across a range of scenarios, between wealth and inconsiderate behaviour. Wealthy people are more likely to exhibit rudeness in cars, take more than equal shares of available goods, and think they deserve special treatment. Ms. Cho is just a spectacular example of what happens daily at any airport.
When the sheer luck of the birthright lottery is converted via psychological magic into a sense of entitlement, expectations of special treatment and a delusional belief that tax reform constitutes “class warfare� are predictable. Prof. Piff confirms experimentally the arguments of Aaron James’s 2012 book Assholes: A Theory. Like George W. Bush, some people are born on third base and think they hit a triple.
That’s why Ms. Cho’s trial and sentencing should be seen for what it is: an avoidance ritual, a show trial. Pictured in tears after the sentencing, Ms. Cho wrote a forced confession letter in which she said, “I know my faults and I’m very sorry.� This is Galilean recanting for the obscenely plutocentric age.
But her conviction changes nothing. In fact, it allows the current arrangement to endure under a screen of bogus accountability. Meanwhile, those who complain that the verdict is rooted in resentment are right. Resentment is, after all, the rational response of non-jerks when faced with the behaviour of over-entitled jerks. It’s not the rudeness that people hate so much as the assumption that they are allowed to be rude.
This isn’t always a function of wealth, just of narcissism and assumed superiority. I know several witless academic egomaniacs who routinely give themselves a free pass to be uncivil. But because wealth is the most obvious marker of status in capitalist societies, it is also the most powerful lever of being a jerk.
Other entitlement show trials come to mind. Dominique Strauss-Kahn, former head of the International Monetary Fund, is scrambling to salvage the shreds of his reputation, even as lurid evidence emerges of sex parties and pimping. This is the same Dominique Strauss-Kahn who was charged with sexually assaulting a Manhattan hotel maid a few years ago; the charge was eventually dropped and he settled with the maid out of court. (Ken Kalfus’s story, Coup de Foudre, is a brilliant fictional account of the incident, framed as a cringe-making letter of apology.)
Then there’s Francesco Schettino, disgraced captain of the Costa Concordia cruise ship, wrecked off the Capri coast in 2012, who was recently convicted of multiple counts of manslaughter. Thirty-two passengers and crew were killed in that debacle and Mr. Schettino, who jumped ship, was sentenced to 16 years in jail.
But while this “reckless idiot� – with traces of cocaine in his hair – was entertaining his 25-year-old Moldovan mistress, ordering the pointless and dangerous fly-by to impress her, there was a company, a system, and a set of assumptions all holding him up. His orders, after all, were obeyed.
It is a necessary premise of law that individuals are responsible for their actions, and no sane person would have it otherwise. But the root causes of the asshole effect are not, finally, singular. Such people are made, not born. Until we have a more aggressive plan for attacking luck-entitlements, condemnation of a few hapless exemplars will remain satisfying but futile.
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Last Sunday night, I encountered an incident with a China construction worker which I want to share with the public.
I was driving around Jurong East around midnight thinking about how I wanted to go to Red Hill View to eat my favourite Yong Tau Foo.
As I was driving along Jurong East Avenue 1, I saw a PRC construction worker trying to flag down my cab.
I actually have deep respect for construction workers as I believe they are very hard working. I never refuse to pick them up even if they might be muddy. I will still pick them up and simply clean my taxi afterward if they do leave mud or dirt behind.
I stopped and the man, in a Northern China accent, said that he was going to Kranji. I told him no problem and he got in.
While driving, I struck up a conversation with the PRC construction worker asking why he was out here alone in the middle of the night.
He explained that he had gone to make a police report and by the time he was done, there were no more trains.
Curious, I asked him what had happened that he needed to make a police report. He also spoke with a thick Norther China accent and I asked him where he was from.
He said that he was from Henan and his name was Zheng Zhi Shan and he was 37 years old. He was working in Singapore as a construction worker and he had needed to make a police report because he had found a wallet that evening.
I listened intently as he shared his story with me.
He said that he had been drinking with his friends that evening but as he was getting ready to catch a train back to his dorm at about 10pm, he saw a wallet on the ground outside Jurong East MRT Station.
He picked it up and found $300 SingDollars inside as well as a work pass showing the face of a dark skinned man.
Mr Zheng thought that the man who had lost his wallet would surely come back as he was probably worried and looking for it, especially given the large amount of money in the wallet.
He waited at the Station for about 20 minutes but no body showed up to claim the wallet. He decided to try and hand it over to the SMRT control officers but they wouldn't accept it saying that he would need to hand it to police at the nearest police station.
They instructed him that he'd need to catch bus 334 and taught him how to get to the nearest police station. However he felt very confused as it sounded very complicated.
In the end, he shared how he had had to seek the assistance of a young girl and it was lucky that she could speak mandarin.
He had hurriedly told her what had happened and that he was in a rush as he wanted to catch the last train home.
When she heard what had happened she was touched by what the PRC man wanted to do and she agreed to help him and brought him to the nearest Police station which turned out to be next to Yuhua Community Centre.
At the police station, officers took down his details and what had happened by the time he was finished, the time was already past midnight and he knew he couldn't make it back in time for the last train.
However, His efforts did not go unrewarded as just as he was getting ready to leave the police station, two dark skinned men came into the police station looking for a lost wallet.
As it turned out, the men were actually looking for the wallet that Mr Zheng had just brought in.
I was shocked, how coincidental!
Mr Zheng shared that when the Dark skinned man found out it was him to brought in his wallet he was so overwhelmed with happiness and gratitude and he shook his hand whole heartedly and repeatedly thanked him.
Mr Zheng could not really understand anything else that the man said but he could feel his deep gratitude. $300 is no small amount for foreign construction workers in Singapore.
Mr Zheng then came out of the police station and realised that he had no way home as he had well and truly missed his last train already. Shortly after, he flagged down my cab.
I was also touched by his story and how he had clearly gone out of his way to help a total stranger and was not tempted to take any of the money.
I told him that I wasn't going to charge him for the cab fare back to his dormitory. He refused and said that he also understands that taxi driving is not an easy job.
I insisted saying that I wanted to show him the respect I had for his honesty and also reassured him that it was within my means. It also gave me an opportunity to do a good deed. In the end he agreed and even let me take photos together with him to upload to facebook.
Last time I was a photographer with Zaobao and I even gave him tips on how he should relax and hold his head high so he looked better and more comfortable in the photo despite being tired after a long day. I reassured him saying that he should be proud of what he has done and I wanted to share his good deeds with the public.
Even after he left my cab and I told him to go back and rest well, he stood by the side of the road waving me off until I drove away.
I was touched by what had happened this evening and realised that it was already past 1am. I decided to make the trip to Red Hill View and treat myself to my favourite yong tau foo. 






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