True Love
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The term 'true love' is highly subjective. How many out there actually believe in true love? That you will meet someone and instantly fall in love?
I think that love is only evident when things are going really bad. When everything is perfect, you don't see evidence of love. I think that love can be roughly defined as doing something you strongly do not want to for someone else.
I see nowadays people take love more as conditional love and reciprocal love. Can these be taken as true love? You treat me well, then I sayang you. Or the expectation of getting something after performing a good deed.
I take my own mom as an example. My dad didn't beat or abuse her. But he certainly ignores her to every extent. He has affairs outside and maybe even a 2nd family. He even divorced her, but still they stay in the same house. And yet my mom will be there to take care of him, to love him and to provide for him. Some say she is stupid. He treats her like a maid and yet she still stays with him. She can have a better life on her own. But i know she still loves him. Is this conditional love? Is this dependant on everything being good? I know she suffered alot of pain and hurt, but she continues in this. For what good? For no good, it seems.
This kind of love is closest you can get to true love. Most people nowadays have no such concept. They just leave when everything or even anything is not going their way.
Can your relationship handle extra marital affairs? Can it handle with the other party being disabled or heavily disfigured? What do you think? -
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i only know true romance
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I think its unconditional in this aspect.....sad but i really got no words for thatOriginally posted by pwnz0r:The term 'true love' is highly subjective. How many out there actually believe in true love? That you will meet someone and instantly fall in love?
I think that love is only evident when things are going really bad. When everything is perfect, you don't see evidence of love. I think that love can be roughly defined as doing something you strongly do not want to for someone else.
I see nowadays people take love more as conditional love and reciprocal love. Can these be taken as true love? You treat me well, then I sayang you. Or the expectation of getting something after performing a good deed.
I take my own mom as an example. My dad didn't beat or abuse her. But he certainly ignores her to every extent. He has affairs outside and maybe even a 2nd family. He even divorced her, but still they stay in the same house. And yet my mom will be there to take care of him, to love him and to provide for him. Some say she is stupid. He treats her like a maid and yet she still stays with him. She can have a better life on her own. But i know she still loves him. Is this conditional love? Is this dependant on everything being good? I know she suffered alot of pain and hurt, but she continues in this. For what good? For no good, it seems.
This kind of love is closest you can get to true love. Most people nowadays have no such concept. They just leave when everything or even anything is not going their way.
Can your relationship handle extra marital affairs? Can it handle with the other party being disabled or heavily disfigured? What do you think?
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Ofc I type, or else who..Originally posted by Princess livia:
aww sad story...
did eUu actually type it?? 
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err ur mum??Originally posted by pwnz0r:Ofc I type, or else who..
lol...
zhen yong gong...
try harder nexttime...
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...sorry to say
thats how the society is becoming... -
Originally posted by Tetsuyari:...sorry to say
thats how the society is becoming...
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.....haiz
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C&P....copy and pasteOriginally posted by pwnz0r:Ofc I type, or else who.. 
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Meeting someone and finally falling in love is not true love.Originally posted by pwnz0r:The term 'true love' is highly subjective. How many out there actually believe in true love? That you will meet someone and instantly fall in love?
true love can overcome all obstacles.
i think it's v hard to find true love... i only see it in the older generations..two old couples in their 70s or 80s holding hands and taking a stroll..
abt ur mum.. have u ever asked her whether she loves ur dad? she could be staying bcos of her children. my mum tolerated my dad for 30 yrs.. she was nv happy.. he din abuse her physically, but verbally.. bcos of history.
i also hated him for insulting my mum at times. until he died, then my mum burst into tears.. and told us that she had been living with this man for 37 yrs.. bcos she couldnt bear to leave me and my siblings behind.. my mum is definitely independent and can support herself. Maybe it's motherly love that is noble.