What should i do
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My Gf likes to hang around with many friends around her.
I asked for some private time with her but she always give me those kind of feeling she prefer to be with them than me.
When i talk to her regarding this issue and we both will be in 'war'.
I mean, its not that i'm opposing her hanging with her friend but i just wanted some privacy between us.
A single stroll at the park/beach will make me sastified but sigh..she just don't since to enjoy it.
She will usually shout at me but i hab been tolerating it, shes quite pretty and i'm only average looking
There guy who wooing her but she assured me that she only like me, but sometimes, the action or the way she treat me just make me feel, her feelings for me been fading.
I've been gaving my friends suggestion on their love problem and now i can't handle my own problem, sort of feel bit. ain't know what to said
I tried talking to her nicely but the moment i did, she will rake up the past all and we both will be quarreling, but i'am always the one to give in on her and there goes those humouring words=X..
Some advice here tho..
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erm... u like her alot? seems like she is domaniting u leh... cannot like a gal gain control of u.... Plus she shouted at u... thats very bad...
if can try talking to her 1 s\last time... if still cant come to a conclusion then... Kiss goodbye ba.. -
tok to her nicely??
suggest tt both of eUu shld sit down n tok??
n set a date tt which is onli belong to the both of eUu??
make n agreement ba...
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surprised to see ur post in this forum leh..
i always tot u are another close to expert in dating.. -
you need to post your pic here plus your gf one too preferably those couple pic. then i can analyse and tell you what went wrong.
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Originally posted by killstyle:you need to post your pic here plus your gf one too preferably those couple pic. then i can analyse and tell you what went wrong.
cheers
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rubbish...!Originally posted by killstyle:you need to post your pic here plus your gf one too preferably those couple pic. then i can analyse and tell you what went wrong.
cheers
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Originally posted by killstyle:you need to post your pic here plus your gf one too preferably those couple pic. then i can analyse and tell you what went wrong.
cheers
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you wont understand dude, i try all ways, i tok to her nicely, 9 out of 10 times she been shouting at me, i said that i wanted some privacy and she could even spark off an argument,Originally posted by browniebaobao:surprised to see ur post in this forum leh..
i always tot u are another close to expert in dating..
Whenever we quarrel she will just walk away and i mean, i really did all i can, tok to her nicely treat her nicely, actaully, deep in my heart, i know what happening soon, just that i din't choose to fact it, you guy should know what i mean ya?
Well i personally don't believe in forever love. but i believe that if two person work hard to mantain a relationship, it can be forever, i am working it, but sadly she isn't. -
threadstarter feel sorry for u..
ur girl.. so ye man n wild..
try to talk to her slowly n nicely lo..if she refuse to listen n keep shouting at u..
then.. wa very bad lei..
if she mai listen to u...
how can u 2 ever gonna go on..
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EDIT BY ME Livia..
ignore wat ever tis nuts ish toking about...!
Killstyle if eUu continue tis i will expose ur real name n hp num! -
Try leaving her...after awhile she will realise her mistake and change for the better.....Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:you wont understand dude, i try all ways, i tok to her nicely, 9 out of 10 times she been shouting at me, i said that i wanted some privacy and she could even spark off an argument,
Whenever we quarrel she will just walk away and i mean, i really did all i can, tok to her nicely treat her nicely, actaully, deep in my heart, i know what happening soon, just that i din't choose to fact it, you guy should know what i mean ya?
Well i personally don't believe in forever love. but i believe that if two person work hard to mantain a relationship, it can be forever, i am working it, but sadly she isn't. -
Originally posted by killstyle:
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cheers[/b] not that ugly as you think^_^ still got a face to go out la 
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i did, we sort of went into a 'cold war' but things still the sameOriginally posted by CHoCo^LaTcH:Try leaving her...after awhile she will realise her mistake and change for the better..... -
no personal attack here..
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Guys, i've been treating her the best i could, i would save money on food everything just for her.
Even with her shouting all, i would take it as a blessing.
We been together for quite a period of time, we went throught a lot, mum stuff all..
this isn't a matter about letting her go that easily.
The reason i like her is because she different from other girl. She one of a kind she unique.
But i just don't get the feeling she like me anymore recently. I told her nicely and yet..
Its hard to get into a relationship, but its harder to maintain it. -
sorry hor im a girl...Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:you wont understand dude, i try all ways, i tok to her nicely, 9 out of 10 times she been shouting at me, i said that i wanted some privacy and she could even spark off an argument,
Whenever we quarrel she will just walk away and i mean, i really did all i can, tok to her nicely treat her nicely, actaully, deep in my heart, i know what happening soon, just that i din't choose to fact it, you guy should know what i mean ya?
Well i personally don't believe in forever love. but i believe that if two person work hard to mantain a relationship, it can be forever, i am working it, but sadly she isn't.
but hor i also cannot understand leh..
i nv throw tantrum at my guy for nothing wan leh..
there's nothing called 'mood swing' when im in love leh.
even if two persons are working hard.. doesnt mean the r/s will last..
bcoz u wun know.. feelings can fade away.. there can be a change of heart.. -
no la relax, never mind, its his views, no harm right=)Originally posted by SGpork:no personal attack here.. -
leave as in for real...like totally ignore her for quite some time...1-2 months ?
the downside is if she's pretty, others might chase her and then GG...
if you treat her gd she should realise after some time and return back...if nt this girl nt too gd bah.... -
Exactly!, i asked if she like others, as if she really do i will gladly let her go, i wont insist in keeping her by my side if she don't like me.Originally posted by browniebaobao:sorry hor im a girl...
but hor i also cannot understand leh..
i nv throw tantrum at my guy for nothing wan leh..
there's nothing called 'mood swing' when im in love leh.
even if two persons are working hard.. doesnt mean the r/s will last..
bcoz u wun know.. [b]feelings can fade away.. there can be a change of heart..
Of cos i will be affected but i believe i can get over it and move on.[/b] -
u shld move on by
breaking up ..most times girls like that do not even bother about
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Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:
u mentioned that she will rake up the past..
Exactly!, i asked if she like others, as if she really do i will gladly let her go, i wont insist in keeping her by my side if she don't like me.
Of cos i will be affected but i believe i can get over it and move on.[/b]
wat kinda past?
were u being possessive in the past?
or u did her wrong before? that's why she's doing all these to u?
i see my pretty girl frens around me.. even if they are attached, they will also go out with other guys de lor..
maybe coz they keep their options open ba.. -
Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:no la relax, never mind, its his views, no harm right=)
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Actually, my main purpose in posting this topic is for other couples who may face such problem,and to know what to do Please I WOULD LIKE TO EMPHASIS BREAKING UP IS THE LAST RESORT i will seperate with her for the time being, i suppose we both need to think calmly about our problem.
Lastly, would like to said that getting two person loving each other is hard, thus please do not take break as a solution, it the last resort.
Good luck to all lovers out there!
*Cheers*