the ref could be at fault as much as the players...
Ashley Cole could be paranoid, his conduct when at Arsenal shows how fragile his massive ego can be... because Wenger tried to keep Henry, he wants out

who knows? he could be taking a cue from his manager who talked BS about a ref until the ref got death threats and quit... what the manager heads towards is where the players will go....
thing is this.. wtf is wrong with the whole association? the 4th official can be put in front of screens, with wireless technology (see the idiotic wire taped to their faces now), replays are available immediately and the 4th official can tell the ref immediately what's happening..
the players too.. it's time they have more respect for the ref.. in almost all other sports, when the ref says anything, the players accept it.. and if it is wrong, only the captain is allowed to go to the ref to protest or talk to the ref about the decision made... while in football, the ref is intimidated by mobbing players...
it's time for a change.. let's see who blinks first..