Should I forgive my husband? He has slept with many pros
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Hi,
I dont know what should I do
I am in the process of divorce.
I love my husband so much and I dont know how am I going to spend my life without him.
We married for 7 years. He start flirting with prostitute since 7 months after we got married. I caught him twice. He asked for forgiveness & promise & swear that he will change. I trusted him & gave him chances.
Who knows I caught him again recently. I am in dilemma now. I know that I must divorce with a man who have been sleeping with prostitute almost every 2 weeks for the past 7 years.
By the way, we do not have kids & only make love maximum up to 2x/ month usually will be once a month or once every 2 months.
Do you think I should divorce with him??? I have been crying non-stop and no one I could confide to...... I am so sad & dont know what to do......
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I think you should divorce this man; and make him regret.
A leopard will never change its spots!
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ok i think you did the right thing to give him a chance, but to catch him again .. its time to go ..
by the way how did u catch him ?
trail him to the brothel ? -
Yes. Just divorce.
If u keep ignoring it, God forbid, you maybe infected with diseases too.. -
u must entertain him more when u two on bed..so he won find PROS..maybe he felt tat u r boring..u cant make him feel gd..
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pls...its human nature to have instincts to have sex with multiple ppl...Originally posted by nuttawood1990:u must entertain him more when u two on bed..so he won find PROS..maybe he felt tat u r boring..u cant make him feel gd.. -
and PLEASE.
get concrete evidence of him philandering..
so you can have a solid case against him for adultery.
Better if MANY women.
he needs to be taught a very expensive lesson.
mind telling us the financial situation? -
Yeps.. Couldn't agree with Ah Qi more.. You gave himOriginally posted by missqi:I think you should divorce this man; and make him regret.
A leopard will never change its spots!
a chance.. He squander it.. Too bad.. No point giving
your heart to someone when he gave his to others..
My 2 cents opinion..
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As a guy...I'd say once can be forgiven.. anything more then once...forget it, cut your losses and move on....
Very sorry to hear you chosen a wrong guy and should u need any moral support or anything..we are all here for ya....
Be strong and best wishes from all of us -
Don't be sad. I know you are very hurt.
If you go geylang, you see lots of men "shopping for girls" there. Most are married men. I used to live near there when young, and I thought its quite normal for Singapore men to go there.
Nowadays my parents have moved me to another place to stay. But I think many Singapore men still go geylang. Your husband may be one of them.
Since your husband do not care about your feelings, its better for you to move on. Your alternative is to live a life of pain with him, its no point. -
So you saying its ok for your wife to have sex with multiple ppl too ??Originally posted by mhcampboy:pls...its human nature to have instincts to have sex with multiple ppl... -
I think sex between a couple is pleasurable for both..not 1 side entertain the other.Originally posted by nuttawood1990:u must entertain him more when u two on bed..so he won find PROS..maybe he felt tat u r boring..u cant make him feel gd..
If a hubby wants something more from wife..they should talk and discuss abt it or even visit a doctor. Vice versa if the wife have problem with the hubby.
So, I dont quite agree to say that the hubby must find pros if wife is not good in bed..... -
After you divorce your husband, he is going to marry another girl.Originally posted by norm:Don't be sad. I know you are very hurt.
If you go geylang, you see lots of men "shopping for girls" there. Most are married men. I used to live near there when young, and I thought its quite normal for Singapore men to go there.
Nowadays my parents have moved me to another place to stay. But I think many Singapore men still go geylang. Your husband may be one of them.
Since your husband do not care about your feelings, its better for you to move on. Your alternative is to live a life of pain with him, its no point.
After that, his new wife will find him having sex with prostitutes and divorce him again.
He then goes on to get another new wife again.
It is a vicious cycle that goes on and on for him, and keeps repeating itself. Thats why the divorce rate is so high in Spore. Such men won't care, they just want to have fun with new girls. -
im just saying... tat man wouldnt stop....Originally posted by Mid9Sun:So you saying its ok for your wife to have sex with multiple ppl too ??
he is a sex addict if he got to have sex with pros... -
Many men like to have multiple sex partners. Its in their genes. Just go to geylang to take a look at the crowded streeets, you will know what I mean.Originally posted by mhcampboy:im just saying... tat man wouldnt stop....
he is a sex addict if he got to have sex with pros...
If you are not the type who can accept a man who always like to have sex with new girls, then just spare yourself the pain, and let him enjoy himself.
Such men will never change, as it is in their genes. Remember, it is not your fault, so don't feel hurt.
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just leave him once and for all, for god sake.Originally posted by norm:Many men like to have multiple sex partners. Its in their genes. Just go to geylang to take a look at the crowded streeets, you will know what I mean.
If you are not the type who can accept a man who always like to have sex with new girls, then just spare yourself the pain, and let him enjoy himself.
Such men will never change, as it is in their genes. Remember, it is not your fault, so don't feel hurt. -
i knew is painful... and i knew is hard to make and stay firm with your decision.. from an outsider's point of view, i think u should leave him... once every 2 weeks is ridiculous... try and stay strong ok? get ur family, frnz or us as support.. jia you!
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you choose the wrong man to marry
divorce him -
Dun get so excited... tink both of u go for counselling 1st... if really cannot make it then see how...
7 yrs married le... quite diff de...
dun be rash and dun listen to those who are not married and hv time as their assets...
hope u consider seriously ....
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how's your sex life ? ....
are both of you happy and satisfied with it ? ...
do you just close your eyes and lie there and expect to be entertained ? ....
that may be the real reason you know ... you think men go to prostitutes for the conversation, companionship, or emotional succor ah ? ... it's sexual gratification ! pure and simple ! ... -
Why only have sex once a mth or two mths?Have more sex with him then he won't go geylang mah. Wear sexy clothes and do it at diff places make him steam steam.
Do U still love yr husband? Think if u divore with yr husband, i think he will visit geylang everyday. Spent all his money on pros. If u really decided to divorce, please catch him red handed with hard evidence, then divorce. At least got things to show then it's yr husband is the one in the wrong not u. Wait people think that it's because you cannot bare kids for him. -
ya, you should divorce him. he's a jerk.
why not confide with some of your close girlfriends?
poor girl
Hug~..
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a man who has the history of soliciting and sleeping around will never change.